BI Curious?

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    Mar 13, 2011 6:41 AM GMT
    So in the past year i've noticed change in terms of my sexuallity, like turn ons and stuff, and well this is becoming more intense, and im not to sure about how to go about it, but the thing is, i'm str8....and havent even thought about going out with a guy....up until last year when this guy kept stairing at me, you know. one of those weird kind of stairs....made me feel so uncomfortable being in the same room as him, and then thats when i started to get turned on bye the thought of him stairing at me, it made me nervous, then my palms started getting sweaty which i h8....and then i freaked out.....And now the urge to go out with a guy has gotten more intense, and im curious to know what its like....is this normal??...if someone could help me figure this out i'd be very gr8ful and maybe give me some advise....what should i do?
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    Mar 13, 2011 8:44 AM GMT
    Could be the attention your getting, or it could be something more.

    1. Sexuality is in your head for one.
    2. Secondly there are ranges of sexuality some people only like women some people like men and others like men more and than women and vice versa.

    Some just like someone else to do the work for them and "date" everyone.
    We are all conditioned to be straight, which is why its so difficult when you have feelings or sexual desires for the same sex. This is contrary to what you have as an understanding of what your sexuality should be.

    3. Always be safe! with women and men, in the heat of any moment we all seem to want to please.

    As for what you should do? Well thats up to you. your young, don't rush.
  • alphatop

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    Mar 13, 2011 11:03 AM GMT
    First off, don't mind labeling your sexuality, it's all in human nature. Than, I can tell you from my own experience that sexuality can change over time, or rather develop in this or that way. Sometimes developing towards gay can overlap with heterosexuality, and that's fine. The most important thing is to be honest to yourself, and to listen to your heart. I know some guys that are "happily" married, have kids, wives, dogs and all that stuff, but shagging men from the side. And they refer to themselves as str8icon_eek.gif Wtf? That is just pathetic. Whatever you decide, listen to your inner voice, it's never wrong. Good luckicon_lol.gif
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    Mar 13, 2011 11:14 AM GMT
    I think Emily Blunt is gorgeous.

    Does that make me bi-curious?
  • alphatop

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    Mar 13, 2011 11:16 AM GMT
    Brit_Bloke saidI think Emily Blunt is gorgeous.

    Does that make me bi-curious?


    No, that makes you fan of E.Blunticon_lol.gif
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    Mar 13, 2011 12:38 PM GMT
    yourname2000 said
    Brit_Bloke saidI think Emily Blunt is gorgeous.

    Does that make me bi-curious?


    You know you love someone when you're willing to suck the snot out of their nose....if you feel that way about Emily Blunt: you're bi.

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    Well, if forced to choose, I rather suck the snot from her nose than lick her kebab.
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    Mar 13, 2011 12:48 PM GMT
    XxZombiexX saidSo in the past year i've noticed change in terms of my sexuallity, like turn ons and stuff, and well this is becoming more intense, and im not to sure about how to go about it, but the thing is, i'm str8....and havent even thought about going out with a guy....up until last year when this guy kept stairing at me, you know. one of those weird kind of stairs....made me feel so uncomfortable being in the same room as him, and then thats when i started to get turned on bye the thought of him stairing at me, it made me nervous, then my palms started getting sweaty which i h8....and then i freaked out.....And now the urge to go out with a guy has gotten more intense, and im curious to know what its like....is this normal??...if someone could help me figure this out i'd be very gr8ful and maybe give me some advise....what should i do?


    it is normal, he made you feel attractive in a way that you'd never felt before, he musta been salivating...
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    Mar 13, 2011 1:28 PM GMT
    I have my bi-curious moments and don't think much of it. I find that thinking of sexuality in percentages can be helpful; for me, I'm 75% or so gay and 25% or so bisexual. On the fabeled Kinsey Scale, I'm more than a 4 but definitely not a 6.

    In your case, I think it was the 'thrill of the hunt' you know? A good-looking person was checking you out and it made you feel very attractive and sexual. Just tell your self, 'Hey! I still have IT!'
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    Mar 13, 2011 4:19 PM GMT
    Sexuality isn't binary. Most folks have some degree of attraction to whatever, and a stronger attraction to whatever.

    No need to label it, nor worry about it. It just is. It's "normal".

    Throw any false belief systems you have about sexual behavior in the trash. Sex is sex, and not a lot more. Now, if you're fucking your domesticated animals, or very young folks, well...you probably need professional help.

    In Nature, there are plenty of species, humans included, that exhibit same sex behavior. It's perfectly natural. Don't get caught up in any false belief systems with regard to sexual attraction that says it's wrong. It is NOT wrong and science can back that up. Throw the false beliefs out the window. They're FALSE.

    There's no rule that says you can't be gay, nor bi, and not behave like a fairy. You say you're str8...and..that's all fine and dandy. In fact, lots of gay / bi folks are very solid in whatever gender roles they have. In fact, a lot of gay folks you'd never know just by talking to them, and there's not a thing wrong with that.

    What it gets down to is that you have to come to like yourself, and to get in touch with reality, and understand that in a world of 7 BILLION folks, your sexuality isn't that big of a deal, whatever it is. Like yourself, and you'll find others do, too.

    I mean FUCK, who doesn't like TITS? They're fun to look at, fun to touch, poke, watch wobble, etc., but...I don't wanna' sleep with 'em. :-)
  • HndsmKansan

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    Mar 13, 2011 4:23 PM GMT
    Well you're here on RJ, you are certainly curious... I suggest you do so, in a way that is honest and comfortable for you. Nothing wrong with it, just be safe and think about what you are doing.
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    Mar 13, 2011 4:31 PM GMT
    Its a way for guys to have sex with guys that have the desire , thats there and possibly always been there
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    Mar 13, 2011 4:36 PM GMT
    try this: click on the forums button above and utilize the search functionality and type: "bi" and "bicurious". You will find a range of topics about bisexuality.

    Also, try the search function and type bi curious or bi-sexuality. This will help you meet other men in your situation.

    every guy here will tell you to figure it out and find your path. welcome to the discussion on sexuality.

    it's fun, exciting, and once you read a few threads will begin asking a range of other questions. trust me, it's fun to ask questions, but also research a few areas, too.

    Good luck and do yourself a favor first, don't sweat it! guy's on the prowl make everyone nervous and sexy. trust me. it's different than getting it from a woman.

    Mike
  • neosyllogy

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    Mar 13, 2011 4:41 PM GMT
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    Mar 13, 2011 5:12 PM GMT
    ROFL! How's it feel taking it up the ass, Chuck? My reply? "Neato!" ROFL.

    Wins folks over all the time.

    :-)

    I'm no longer curious.
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    Mar 13, 2011 5:13 PM GMT
    Freaking out straight boys is so much fun.

    Almost as much fun as disappointing straight girls.
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    Mar 13, 2011 5:15 PM GMT
    Personally I was always curious and attracted to guys at a very early age, but also was attracted to the girls, I married thinking the bi attraction would leave me. (that was ignorant on my part) I too had a lot of guys stare at me, through the years, it came from neighbors and people I met while working construction in cut off jeans and shirtless. Like you this made me more curious and I felt strange about it but at the same time liked it.

    While married I'd get calls late at night by guys wanting to meet me, well what can you say with your wife listening next to you in bed at two in the morning? This went on for quite a while so finally I took one of the guys up on going to bed with him, Honestly it was like releasing a well spring of passion under pressure. I loved the sex.

    I should have tried it before I married then I would have known rather than go through what I did by marrying with those feelings nagging me, If I were you I'd definately give vent to your feelings, if you find it very pleasurable, maybe even more so than with a woman, then you should go with whats inevitable. In my experience and many others like me who where or are bi, the feelings toward guys intensifies as time goes on. But each person is different, so its for you to determine, but knowing from experience is far better than wondering for years like I did, that was a bad mistake on my part. Good luck to you buddy.