Your Bff's ex Bf... 0-0

  • helios01

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    Mar 13, 2011 11:54 AM GMT
    What is your view on dating your best friend's ex?
    yes? no? maybe?
    have you done it? how did it turn out?
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    Mar 13, 2011 7:06 PM GMT
    If the bf and the ex are both mature and had an amicable split, then I say go for it. You might want to talk to your bf first so there is no weirdness between the two of you.
    Some of the gay villages are so small that eventually you will end up dating a friend's ex or a friend will end up dating one of your exes.

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    Mar 13, 2011 7:15 PM GMT
    Naw... Too much drama for me
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    Mar 13, 2011 7:22 PM GMT
    No wonder so many guys on this site are single. Look at the threads here the last few days and you will see that a guys inability to dance is a deal breaker, but apparently being your best friend's ex is not a deal breaker.
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    Mar 13, 2011 8:38 PM GMT
    Generally, no... bros before hos, right? Then again, if enough time had passed it would be no big deal. But if you were next in line with the ex that would probably cause problems.
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    Mar 13, 2011 9:28 PM GMT
    ya date him!!!

    i mean... "who needs friends right?"

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    Mar 13, 2011 9:29 PM GMT
    Bro's before ho's
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    Mar 13, 2011 9:31 PM GMT
    Did it once, bad idea. (They'd been broken up for more than a year, the ex pursued me...and then the weirdness started.)

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  • tuffguyndc

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    Mar 13, 2011 9:39 PM GMT
    no i will not date my best friends ex. that goes against the friend code of conduct
  • dreamer121

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    Mar 13, 2011 9:45 PM GMT
    RunintheCity saidBro's before ho's


    Exactly.

    My best friend and my ex went behind my back and dated like 1 month after the ex and i broke up, lets just say i gave some of the saltiest stares and they learned the lesson...

    ASK FIRST. I would have been so much better if my friend would've just talked it out with me first.
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    Mar 13, 2011 10:01 PM GMT
    it's just weird dude .... it hasn't happened to me but .. just the though of it makes me feel weird icon_confused.gif

    now, i guess one could get used to the idea and stuff but it feels weird i think
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    Mar 13, 2011 10:14 PM GMT
    I could not do it. My best friend and I have an agreement. Plus, I live with my best friend so it would get awkward.
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    Mar 13, 2011 11:56 PM GMT
    RunintheCity saidBro's before ho's
    But what about the bro's ho's?
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    Mar 14, 2011 12:16 AM GMT
    My ex's ex is happy he got ME out of the divorce! icon_smile.gif We are great friends!
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    Mar 14, 2011 12:48 AM GMT
    I've never done it, but it was done to me and neither of us are friends now. The ex and I were good pals after the break up and my then best friend told the ex not to tell me even though he wanted to do so. Why did I stop being pals with them? One blatantly lied about it. The other lied by omission.
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    Mar 14, 2011 3:21 AM GMT
    I would suggest a three-some.

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  • jarthon

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    Mar 14, 2011 3:24 AM GMT
    You can't date exes. That's like against the rules of feminism.
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    Mar 14, 2011 3:34 AM GMT
    I haven't done that myself as my best friend's ex's do NOT turn me on in any way. I am friends with one of his ex's though (knew him before they started dating).

    As for my ex's, 2 have dated friends of mine, but I don't care about that...I figure if my friends don't mind sloppy seconds, it's all good!
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    Mar 14, 2011 6:14 AM GMT
    paulflexes said
    RunintheCity saidBro's before ho's
    But what about the bro's ho's?

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  • helios01

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    Mar 15, 2011 11:10 AM GMT
    would talking to ur friend just be insulting and overall bad idea/
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    jw... curious lol