Damn, another handsome straight guy hitting on me and I'm left speechless....

  • Celticmusl

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    Mar 13, 2011 10:10 PM GMT
    Ok, I've learned my lesson. This is the third handsome straight guy in as many months, that has gotten my attention and then flirts with me. I'm sure I look like a deer in oncoming headlights. They are usually a friend or coworker of a gay friend I know. I've had the notion to flirt back but then I think "uh oh....I'm going to be THAT gay friend that hits on his gay friend's straight friends where everyone just cringes."

    Friday night at a mixed bar.....picture it: Introduced by a gay couple to their handsome "friend". The couple introduce us and we hit it off as any strangers can. we all four chat it up and it seems me and the friend are paired off a bit in terms of where we stand. A half hour of this goes by and I find out in conversation he is straight.....UGH!!!

    Ok, so we all four move out on the heated patio to be able to chat. Me and the gay couple discuss how awesome another patio bar is in the summer and our straight friend thinks it would be a hoot to go this summer. The straight friend sez something about my physique.....I have no idea how to respond....he sez it was "a compliment, btw". I and the gay couple also mention how last year at the patio bar there were two hot guys that were twins and it caused quiet a commotion.

    So next flirtation: The gay couple decides they are going to another bar and they are taking their straight friend with them. The straight guy starts talking me into going and sez "me and my sexy twin will be there, you coming?".......damn......right then and there I thought of "Just one of you will be all the incentive I need"....but of course I have no idea how to respond....he is straight....

    I finally figured out I'm going to flirt right back next time, and I will be ready for it! You hear me straight men of the word? I am no longer afraid of flirting with you!

    Anyone else have similar experiences? Oh yeah, and why do straight guys seem sooooo much better at flirting?
  • Celticmusl

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    Mar 13, 2011 10:25 PM GMT
    cold saidI swear all your topics concern your complicated love life...



    Au contraire, mon frere. The complications of having no love life. icon_wink.gif
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    Mar 13, 2011 10:42 PM GMT
    Celticmusl saidOk, I've learned my lesson. This is the third handsome straight guy in as many months, that has gotten my attention and then flirts with me. I'm sure I look like a deer in oncoming headlights. They are usually a friend or coworker of a gay friend I know. I've had the notion to flirt back but then I think "uh oh....I'm going to be THAT gay friend that hits on his gay friend's straight friends where everyone just cringes."

    Friday night at a mixed bar.....picture it: Introduced by a gay couple to their handsome "friend". The couple introduce us and we hit it off as any strangers can. we all four chat it up and it seems me and the friend are paired off a bit in terms of where we stand. A half hour of this goes by and I find out in conversation he is straight.....UGH!!!

    Ok, so we all four move out on the heated patio to be able to chat. Me and the gay couple discuss how awesome another patio bar is in the summer and our straight friend thinks it would be a hoot to go this summer. The straight friend sez something about my physique.....I have no idea how to respond....he sez it was "a compliment, btw". I and the gay couple also mention how last year at the patio bar there were two hot guys that were twins and it caused quiet a commotion.

    So next flirtation: The gay couple decides they are going to another bar and they are taking their straight friend with them. The straight guy starts talking me into going and sez "me and my sexy twin will be there, you coming?".......damn......right then and there I thought of "Just one of you will be all the incentive I need"....but of course I have no idea how to respond....he is straight....

    I finally figured out I'm going to flirt right back next time, and I will be ready for it! You hear me straight men of the word? I am no longer afraid of flirting with you!

    Anyone else have similar experiences? Oh yeah, and why do straight guys seem sooooo much better at flirting?


    Whatever you decide to do... Know that transitioning gay men to a gay lifestyle is NOT YOUR JOB TO DO... Give them the utmost respect and hear them out cause I honestly don't believe you have done that yet. Be a leader, not a follower.
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    Mar 13, 2011 11:51 PM GMT
    Well this so called straight friend? Yup,, sounds like given the opportunity he'd be straight into your bed in a flash
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    Mar 14, 2011 12:03 AM GMT
    UPRYTE said
    Celticmusl saidOk, I've learned my lesson. This is the third handsome straight guy in as many months, that has gotten my attention and then flirts with me. I'm sure I look like a deer in oncoming headlights. They are usually a friend or coworker of a gay friend I know. I've had the notion to flirt back but then I think "uh oh....I'm going to be THAT gay friend that hits on his gay friend's straight friends where everyone just cringes."

    Friday night at a mixed bar.....picture it: Introduced by a gay couple to their handsome "friend". The couple introduce us and we hit it off as any strangers can. we all four chat it up and it seems me and the friend are paired off a bit in terms of where we stand. A half hour of this goes by and I find out in conversation he is straight.....UGH!!!

    Ok, so we all four move out on the heated patio to be able to chat. Me and the gay couple discuss how awesome another patio bar is in the summer and our straight friend thinks it would be a hoot to go this summer. The straight friend sez something about my physique.....I have no idea how to respond....he sez it was "a compliment, btw". I and the gay couple also mention how last year at the patio bar there were two hot guys that were twins and it caused quiet a commotion.

    So next flirtation: The gay couple decides they are going to another bar and they are taking their straight friend with them. The straight guy starts talking me into going and sez "me and my sexy twin will be there, you coming?".......damn......right then and there I thought of "Just one of you will be all the incentive I need"....but of course I have no idea how to respond....he is straight....

    I finally figured out I'm going to flirt right back next time, and I will be ready for it! You hear me straight men of the word? I am no longer afraid of flirting with you!

    Anyone else have similar experiences? Oh yeah, and why do straight guys seem sooooo much better at flirting?


    Whatever you decide to do... Know that transitioning gay men to a gay lifestyle is NOT YOUR JOB TO DO... Give them the utmost respect and hear them out cause I honestly don't believe you have done that yet. Be a leader, not a follower.




    When a guy sez he's straight, regardless of his confusingly beguiling interactions with me, I show him the utmost respect by accepting him as being straight, period. exclamation point, new paragraph.

    I wish humans were easy to categorize in terms of being straight, gay, bi, etc....but I think our sexuality is far more complex than this.