How do you deal with family member and old friends you know over the years and cut you off on everything you can think of! I should know!

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    Mar 15, 2011 12:55 AM GMT
    Dear RJ,

    Hello, How do you deal with rudely family members and old friends you know over the years and later found out your ""GAY""! Then tell you your NOT worth having you as a family member and old friends you know over the years? How you deal with it?

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    Mar 15, 2011 12:56 AM GMT
    I just told them to go fuck themselves, but then again I can be pretty fucking cold to assholes...regardless of how long I've known them.
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    Mar 15, 2011 12:59 AM GMT
    Cut them off and move on. If they want to be associated with you then just move on. Its not your fault your gay. Its there fault for being so little minded.
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    Mar 15, 2011 1:04 AM GMT
    A_1991 saidCut them off and move on. If they want to be associated with you then just move on. Its not your fault your gay. Its there fault for being so little minded.


    but it is his fault for deciding to tell all of his family and friends he's gay...icon_biggrin.gif
    He could of kept it to himself, but he was so overjoyed with being GAY he felt the need to come out I guess. I'm sure if I told my MUSLIM parents I'm Christian they'd flip and not want to be around me either...
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    Mar 15, 2011 1:08 AM GMT
    What do you mean?
    If they cut you out of their lives, what else is there to do?

    You move on without those toxic people in your life. Find people who bring love and positive energy into your life and that you can do to their lives.
  • PersianRebel

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    Aug 27, 2012 6:31 AM GMT
    I'd say ' fuck you and kiss my ass ' !
    People who never accepts Humanity ad never respect other human beings
    they are not worthy

    I'm gay and having sex and have emotions for same-sex

    maybe a freak but I'm a human after all

    I don't bully,hurt , Robb money ,
    sell drugs or just hurt other humans

    people who do that should be not worthy

    even if no one in this fucking world accepts me
    even if I'm lonely
    I still got God by my side
    I have like 10 friends
    they are my real family

    people who I live evey day and give me
    money
    but never feel me and understand me
    and even judge me and
    label as a gay
    and never support any of my desires

    they aren't family
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    Aug 27, 2012 6:44 AM GMT
    The same way I deal with every other problem:

    With murder!

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  • PersianRebel

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    Aug 27, 2012 11:15 AM GMT
    I just came out of closet
    my princaple asked if i was gay
    and I proudly said yes
    and he tried to get to know me
    after 1 hour talk how he find out how I live
    and who I really am
    he said he'd never judge people like me
    and he was proud of the human I was
    And for the first time
    someone listend to me and tried to know me
    not for sex, not for info
    just like he tried to get know a human being

    he didn't tried to change me or label me and judge me
    he knew how hard my life is

    he never said I was a freak to nation or anti-social
    he said I was human that's what matters
    and I'm not a bad person

    it feels amazing ! I had tears in my eyes

    my parents never accepted me and never will (think so)
    but my princeaple of my art school accepted ms as a Gay

    wowwww
    he was so supportive and I felt great
    actually kind of unknown

    I never knew how it feels
    to be accepted by a random guy
    I thank him and God who let me feel like this
    and shame on my family
    who I'm a stranger to them
    and they are just like strangers and room mates to me

    such a Disapointment !