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  • dubcwarrior

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    Mar 16, 2011 6:35 PM GMT
    Why when you're trying to find gay/bi friends for actually friends about 98% of the time even though they say they are just wanting friends they just want to get into your pants?
  • Timbales

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    Mar 16, 2011 6:36 PM GMT
    men are pigs
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    Mar 16, 2011 6:45 PM GMT
    Come to Canada and you will see a difference in that percentage who just want sex... more people def. want long-term relationships up here and not OPEN relationships (which is an oxymoron - I know what OPEN relationships are and they work for some, just give them a different name to be honest).

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    Mar 17, 2011 2:17 AM GMT
    It's called friends with benefits for a reason.
    If they just say they're looking for sex, they sound like sluts.
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    Mar 17, 2011 2:27 AM GMT
    Make friends with guys that you're not attracted to. Problem solved. icon_wink.gif
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    Mar 17, 2011 2:27 AM GMT
    Do you have a big dick that shows through your tight denim jeans? If you do, that's why.
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    Mar 17, 2011 2:53 AM GMT
    And, lord knows, we dont want any of them getting in our pants! ... icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Mar 17, 2011 2:56 AM GMT
    IT IS NOT IMPORTANT... You are obviously growing... Allow that to happen without speculating what comes after. You are not there for the hereafter yet, so why worry about it?
  • LEANDRO_NJ

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    Mar 17, 2011 3:01 AM GMT
    dubcwarrior saidWhy when you're trying to find gay/bi friends for actually friends about 98% of the time even though they say they are just wanting friends they just want to get into your pants?



    I'll tell you what the solution is! just weed out the bad ones from the good ones, and try to sorround yourself with good people, even if you may not find them attractive! and also don't be afraid to let your friends know of your boundaries when it comes to friendship!


    Leandro ♥
  • dubcwarrior

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    Mar 17, 2011 2:07 PM GMT
    thanks guys
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    Mar 17, 2011 2:16 PM GMT
    dubcwarrior saidWhy when you're trying to find gay/bi friends for actually friends about 98% of the time even though they say they are just wanting friends they just want to get into your pants?
    Why would you specifically prefer gay/bi friends if you're NOT wanting sex from them?
    Friends are supposed to be friends, regardless of their sexual orientation.
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    Mar 17, 2011 2:20 PM GMT
    dubcwarrior saidWhy when you're trying to find gay/bi friends for actually friends about 98% of the time even though they say they are just wanting friends they just want to get into your pants?



    Do what straight men and women do. Some of them have the same complaint. Guys want to be friends with girls and girls with guys.

    So, what do they do? They just say no and concentrate on being friends. The real ones stick around and the ones only interested in sex move on.

    -Doug
  • dubcwarrior

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    Mar 18, 2011 8:43 PM GMT
    @paulflexes: I think you misunderstood what i was saying. I have all kind of friends not just gay or bi I am saying that when i try to make gay or bi friends it starts out as friendship but then later down the road they always want more. I don't specifically target gay or bi guys
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    Mar 18, 2011 8:49 PM GMT
    meninlove said

    So, what do they do? They just say no and concentrate on being friends. The real ones stick around and the ones only interested in sex move on.

    -Doug



    This. Finally a post that deserves to be plastered on a wall.