Advise Please =) - The EX

  • buckled

    Posts: 165

    Mar 17, 2011 10:13 PM GMT
    So I've been dating this guy for like 3 and a 1/2 weeks now.

    First off) usually people are pretty easy for me to read; however, I cannot read him at all.. which makes me want to pursue him more.

    BUT

    He hangs out with his ex (now his best friend) a lot.. so I brought it up the other night asking if he still had feelings for him.
    He stated that he didn't, but then he said if a couple years down the road he and his ex were still single he could see something happening.

    To me, I read that as "Ok, I am going to date and see if my ex ever falls for me again"

    2) He said that.. in a month or so when we introduce each other to friends that he did NOT want me to become good friends with his friends and vice versa.
    I asked if he said that because he didn't want to deal w/ the mutual friend thing if something went wrong (in our relationship.. which we aren't even in yet).
    And he said yes.
    RED FLAG?!

    Should I just call it off now before I put myself into a stupid situation?

    (There were a couple other minor things... but not necessary to point out)

    I like him.. but I just don't know if I'm wasting my time (never had to deal w/ this situation)
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    Mar 18, 2011 3:14 AM GMT
    Yes, yourname called it.
    That he doesn't want you to meet his friends because he's already planning on the breakup is the issue.
    He seems to treat you like a placeholder-- someone to pass the time until he finds someone who he is willing to have a relationship.
    He pretty much told you that he doesn't want you in his life, so move on and find a better guy who values you.