Why are you NOT Verified?

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    Mar 18, 2011 4:12 AM GMT
    Why are there so many people on this site who are not verified? All you have to do is take a picture holding a sign and it is a very simple way to prove you are who you say you are. The picture you use to verify yourself can be private and thus you can remain “discreet” (which is stupid in the first place) so there is no excuse no to get verified.

    Why are you NOT Verified?
  • ev0520

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    Mar 18, 2011 4:49 AM GMT
    They have not lost mine and i did it once lol
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    Mar 18, 2011 4:52 AM GMT
    Yes if you delete the picture you got verified with then you loose the status, they say this in the instructions...plp need to learn to read.
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    Mar 18, 2011 4:52 AM GMT
    What's the point? There are Verified profiles that are fake.

    Besides, I've met a handful of RJ guys in person. So technically, I already am verified. icon_lol.gif
  • TrentGrad

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    Mar 18, 2011 4:54 AM GMT
    Simon78928 saidWhy are there so many people on this site who are not verified? All you have to do is take a picture holding a sign and it is a very simple way to prove you are who you say you are. The picture you use to verify yourself can be private and thus you can remain “discreet” (which is stupid in the first place) so there is no excuse no to get verified.

    Why are you NOT Verified?


    Why is it important?

    So I can put together a "buddy list" of people I don't know and will likely never meet?

    So I can vote for the "man of the day," even though the only thing I know of that person is what they choose to share and tell me?

    Don't get me wrong: if you want to get verified and share your photos, there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. However there is also nothing wrong with people who choose not to share as much either.

    Moreover, is getting verified really proof that you are who you say you are? What's to stop someone from having a hot friend stand in for them?
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    Mar 18, 2011 4:54 AM GMT
    shawnathan saidSome people complain about having to verify several times because RJ keeps losing the picture or something.


    Sounds fishy... "Yes, I would like to be verified but RJ just keeps losing my picture and de-verifying every time I do"

    Thought when I took the picture for verifying I felt a little awkward LOL.
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    Mar 18, 2011 4:55 AM GMT
    never got around to doing it. oh well
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    Mar 18, 2011 4:57 AM GMT
    I don't get how RJ would lose the picture. You either have it or not. Technology in this regard isn't that difficult. It only took ONE time. icon_eek.gif

    I think some guys are not ready to show their face on this site, cause they may be testing the waters. Or maybe being verified doesn't mean anything to some guys. No biggy. But big round of applause to those who have been verified.
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    Mar 18, 2011 5:44 AM GMT
    although i have strived to be consistent in word, thought, and deed,

    (and fail rather magnificently)

    i don't even know if i am verified to me.

    why would it matter if the vast majority of rjers,

    most of whom do not care if i live or die,

    who ignore my clumsy attempts to reach out to them,

    did not think i was real either?
  • activeboy90

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    Mar 18, 2011 5:50 AM GMT
    never got around to it, I can prove I'm real in an instant to those I want to know I'm real, maybe ill take a pic sometime..

    .just for you icon_smile.gif
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    Mar 18, 2011 5:51 AM GMT
    Mixture of a pinch of laziness, followed by not getting around to doing it, due to something happening at that point in time (i.e. studying, chores, something that's a tad bit more important on the to-do list).
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    Mar 18, 2011 7:02 AM GMT
    jprichva said
    Cogitor said
    most of whom do not care if i live or die,
    who ignore my clumsy attempts to reach out to them

    You can't be serious. You're smart, you're funny, and you're sexy. Who would ignore you?


    People who aren't into smart and funny. For some, if you're anything more than merely sexy, they run for the hills. icon_confused.gificon_lol.gif

    Oh, and then there's the whole ethnic thing. Because everyone knows white is preferable. (Most don't come out and say it, but they really don't have to. The rest of us are not that naive.)

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    Mar 18, 2011 7:04 AM GMT
    too big of a hassle lol
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    Mar 18, 2011 7:10 AM GMT
    mo23 saidtoo big of a hassle lol



    lololol exactly
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    Mar 18, 2011 7:13 AM GMT
    Haha umm... because I dont feel like writing Realjock 123 backwards so it shows up forward in my picture... haha yes I'm that lazy

    also I feel like I'm not super duper hott where my identity needs to be confirmed

    lastly, I have no professional pictures that would need verification most of mine are from photobooth
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    Mar 18, 2011 7:17 AM GMT
    I'd verify some guys in thus site all night long. icon_exclaim.gif
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    Mar 18, 2011 7:18 AM GMT
    dekiruman saidI'd verify some guys in thus site all night long. icon_exclaim.gif

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    Mar 18, 2011 7:26 AM GMT
    Ariodante said
    dekiruman saidI'd verify some guys in thus site all night long. icon_exclaim.gif

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    Mar 18, 2011 7:28 AM GMT
    dekiruman said
    Ariodante said
    dekiruman saidI'd verify some guys in thus site all night long. icon_exclaim.gif

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    Mar 18, 2011 7:32 AM GMT
    Ariodante said
    dekiruman said
    Ariodante said
    dekiruman saidI'd verify some guys in thus site all night long. icon_exclaim.gif

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    Mar 18, 2011 7:33 AM GMT
    ^ <=O!!!
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    Mar 18, 2011 7:42 AM GMT
    [quote][cite]CosmosGuy said

    People who aren't into smart and funny. For some, if you're anything more than merely sexy, they run for the hills. icon_confused.gificon_lol.gif

    Oh, and then there's the whole ethnic thing. Because everyone knows white is preferable. (Most don't come out and say it, but they really don't have to. The rest of us are not that naive.)

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    There's some truth to this.
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    Mar 18, 2011 7:44 AM GMT
    snowboarder said
    mo23 saidtoo big of a hassle lol



    lololol exactly


    I am real though..... I exist
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    Mar 18, 2011 8:14 AM GMT
    dekiruman said
    Ariodante said
    dekiruman saidI'd verify some guys in thus site all night long. icon_exclaim.gif

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    I think I might even get verified tonight icon_surprised.gif