Why Straight ppl .. Hate / or keep away from Gay ppl ?

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    Mar 21, 2011 4:10 PM GMT
    Why do u think that happening ? In my Opinion .. cuz the Open relationships .. Straight ppl are afraid to contact with a gay so they affect on him and turn out to be a gay also ... if every guy had his BF that would happen

    Gay Reputation are ruined of that ... in ppl's opinion Gay = Sexual ppl = Sluts = Get away from them
  • tazzari

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    Mar 21, 2011 4:35 PM GMT
    Stupidity combined with lack of education and real thought. Fear of "the different". These make people want to shun us.

    Where I live there are a lot of very out people doing very good work in all the normal areas - and attitudes are changing fast.

    Have faith in yourself. if you live with honest and courtesy, people will respect you.

    Good luck!
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    Mar 21, 2011 4:38 PM GMT
    You sir are stupid.
    Straight people have open relationships too and tend to be extremely active sexually too.

    I haven't met too many people that dislike gay people once they get to know one.
    Its mostly the unknown factor. Once someone meets someone they like.can get along with that is gay they lose the hate.
    Now, when I say most I am not counting the politic/religious zealots.
  • BardBear

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    Mar 21, 2011 4:42 PM GMT
    Straight people don't hate us. THey don't fear us. Only the ones that make it on television and other media outlets do. When you watch television, those who scream the loudest are the ones where the camera is facing. The quiet ones? The ones who support us and have lives enough that they are doing their own thing and don't watch? Those are the ones who are in a majority and aren't saying much.

    Straight people have open relationships, moreso then probably the gay community. They even have a swingers' convention in Las Vegas. Think about that--those who want to preserve marriage don't protest that one bit.

    Weird, huh?

    Peace,
    Bardy
  • alexboy20201

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    Mar 21, 2011 4:46 PM GMT
    Me and You are From egyp And i Dont know Why Being gay is Forbidden that is stupid so Straight ppl in egypt will never Love us and we cant say to any one in our community that we Are Gay :S!
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    Mar 21, 2011 4:46 PM GMT


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    Mar 21, 2011 4:56 PM GMT
    Mahmoud, an Egyptian friend I knew that worked at the local video store went back to Egypt for a vacation. He knew I was gay and we spoke often on the subject. I asked him if he was going to a mosque when there and he said yes so I gave him a couple of questions for the Imam.

    1 If a couple had a way to know if their baby was gay before birth, what should they do? You wouldn't like the answer, which was to end the pregnancy.

    2 Can a gay person be a muslim?

    The Imam said no, there is no such thing as a gay muslim.

    3 How can a gay person become a muslim?

    Give up being gay, get married and have kids . Failing that, cut 'it' off. Guess what 'it' is? Many gay men cannot have sex with a woman because their penises will not get hard. icon_wink.gif
    Now I have no idea if this Imam was any good or an idiot, but there you have it.

    -Doug
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    Mar 21, 2011 5:01 PM GMT
    From the Qur'an:

    "Of all the creatures in the world, will ye approach males, And leave those whom Allah has created for you to be your mates? Nay, ye are a people transgressing (all limits)!" (26:165-166).

    "Would ye really approach men in your lusts rather than women? Nay, ye are a people (grossly) ignorant!" (27:55).

    "For ye practise your lusts on men in preference to women : ye are indeed a people transgressing beyond bounds." (7:81). "And we rained down on them a shower (of brimstone): Then see what was the end of those who indulged in sin and crime!" (7:84). "He said: "O my Lord! help Thou me against people who do mischief!"" (29:30).

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    Mar 21, 2011 5:05 PM GMT
    All straight people aren't like that, but some are. And some straight people will change their view once they meet a homosexual or find out one of their friends is a homosexual. Homophobia is very deeply ingrained into society these days. I have known straight guys over the years that talked about "fags" all the time and how they wouldn't want this guy to look at them because he is a "fag". They had no reason to think this way because its not like they had any bad experiences with gay people, that is just how they were raised.

    I think one day it will change. Its like racism. Its still ingrained in a lot of people, but it is definitely making huge progress. It will take time but it will get there eventually.
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    Mar 21, 2011 5:11 PM GMT
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    Mar 21, 2011 5:26 PM GMT
    Draper saidStraight people are more than 90% of the population. The gay sites that aren't even swinger sites (like this one) have an option for open relationships, unlike Match, Eharmony, and the 100's of other straight sites which don't include "open" as an option.



    Er, Draper, this is not a monogamous site like Eharmony, did you know that?


    This topic is an Egyptian claiming the reason gays there have problems is because of open relationships. It goes a lot deeper than that. It's simply the fact that homosexuality is condemned in the Qur'an, and not mildly. It's a heavily religious culture. Here's an example:


    "There were lurid accounts of what was alleged to have happened on the Queen Boat, including false reports of a gay wedding on board. The names and workplaces of the defendants were also put into print."

    http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/middle_east/1493041.stm

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    Mar 21, 2011 5:42 PM GMT
    Draper saidStraight people are more than 90% of the population. The gay sites that aren't even swinger sites (like this one) have an option for open relationships, unlike Match, Eharmony, and the 100's of other straight sites which don't include "open" as an option.


    YOu do realize those sites are for people looking for monogamous relationships..
    Thus they don't have those options.
    Arguments are made up of context and proof.
    Your context doesn't correlate with this forums argument and your proof is invalid.

    Dating site=/= Social site.
    Im surprised dating sites have any other relationship status than Single" or "Looking". However, most social networking sites have a variety of different relationship statuses.
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    Mar 21, 2011 5:47 PM GMT
    mnboy said
    Draper saidStraight people are more than 90% of the population. The gay sites that aren't even swinger sites (like this one) have an option for open relationships, unlike Match, Eharmony, and the 100's of other straight sites which don't include "open" as an option.


    YOu do realize those sites are for people looking for monogamous relationships..
    Thus they don't have those options.
    Arguments are made up of context and proof.
    Your context doesn't correlate with this forums argument and your proof is invalid.

    Dating site=/= Social site.
    Im surprised dating sites have any other relationship status than Single" or "Looking". However, most social networking sites have a variety of different relationship statuses.


    mnboy, I was rather enjoying the circles draper was taking himself in. icon_wink.gif
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    Mar 21, 2011 5:50 PM GMT
    meninlove said Mahmoud, an Egyptian friend I knew that worked at the local video store went back to Egypt for a vacation. He knew I was gay and we spoke often on the subject. I asked him if he was going to a mosque when there and he said yes so I gave him a couple of questions for the Imam.

    1 If a couple had a way to know if their baby was gay before birth, what should they do? You wouldn't like the answer, which was to end the pregnancy.

    2 Can a gay person be a muslim?

    The Imam said no, there is no such thing as a gay muslim.

    3 How can a gay person become a muslim?

    Give up being gay, get married and have kids . Failing that, cut 'it' off. Guess what 'it' is? Many gay men cannot have sex with a woman because their penises will not get hard. icon_wink.gif
    Now I have no idea if this Imam was any good or an idiot, but there you have it.

    -Doug


    Well as i know god will never create someone a gay ... i am sure there r factors did that ... we r not a disease and we r not having a mental problem but ... We r feeling just attracted to the same sex ... and it has factors ... none born gay .. and it has no treatment which is confusing me till now .. and if u r going to be religious .. then yeah maybe true u should quit being gay .. but i dun mean .. u act straight cuz u wont able to .. just try to get away from doing sex .. or ignore all that n go hell ... n i think i will do that ... :/
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    Mar 21, 2011 5:53 PM GMT
    KSUOWL saidAll straight people aren't like that, but some are. And some straight people will change their view once they meet a homosexual or find out one of their friends is a homosexual. Homophobia is very deeply ingrained into society these days. I have known straight guys over the years that talked about "fags" all the time and how they wouldn't want this guy to look at them because he is a "fag". They had no reason to think this way because its not like they had any bad experiences with gay people, that is just how they were raised.

    I think one day it will change. Its like racism. Its still ingrained in a lot of people, but it is definitely making huge progress. It will take time but it will get there eventually.


    Well yeah thats true but ... most i hear is rumors about gays like a disease u should get away from them or they will infect u with their mental disease lol .. here(at Egypt) .. most gays r like sluts .. they dun know what is love and they just want to have sex with anyone they like ... do u think ppl will accept that ?
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    Mar 21, 2011 5:54 PM GMT
    You aren't born gay but the process is nonetheless uncontrollable.
    You cannot stop being gay nor choose to be straight.
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    Mar 21, 2011 6:02 PM GMT
    "Well as i know god will never create someone a gay"

    How do you know this? Because a book told you?

    I'm christian and my 'book' says it's wrong too, but it also says a lot of other things are wrong and the book is wrong about these things. icon_wink.gif

    Your book was written by a man, and mine by men. Many have put words into God's mouth. icon_wink.gif

    The writer of your book and the writers of mine thought the world was flat.


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    Mar 21, 2011 6:06 PM GMT
    mnboy saidYou sir are stupid.
    Straight people have open relationships too and tend to be extremely active sexually too.

    I haven't met too many people that dislike gay people once they get to know one.
    Its mostly the unknown factor. Once someone meets someone they like.can get along with that is gay they lose the hate.
    Now, when I say most I am not counting the politic/religious zealots.


    And that's the reason why some ppl r called sluts .. i am not saying to just stay on one guy but ... if u didn't like ur partner just break up with him and move on .. but dun fool ur partner or push him to go open relationship

    and 99.9% of ppl i met .. they just dislike/hate gays ... and btw none knows i am a gay in my community .. calling them sluts with Odd feelings or something like that .. and i know where they got that
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    Mar 21, 2011 6:08 PM GMT
    "most gays r like sluts .. they dun know what is love and they just want to have sex with anyone they like ... do u think ppl will accept that ?"

    So how would gay men in your country know about two men being in love and having a life long relationship? Nowhere in your country can they see that and learn from it, unless they look outside their country and culture.

    In your country two men were arrested because others thought they had a gay wedding. Their names and workplaces were made public and they were subjected to medical tests to see if they had sex.

    Your culture hates two men monogamously in love.


    -Doug
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    Mar 21, 2011 6:16 PM GMT
    That's true .. thats why i am here .. but for me if i were them .. i wouldn't announce it at all ... 1st to save drama ... to keep away from haters that would harm me or my Bf ... i think announcing it will not increase our love or decrease it ..
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    Mar 21, 2011 6:40 PM GMT
    Like people have all said above, its ignorance and a lack of interaction with gay that make them scared.

    Where I live, which is obviously culturally different from the average place in Egypt, gay people are pretty numerous and most people you meet have known a gay person, whether from school, work or acquaintance or as an actual friend. They don't really get scared or uncomfortable around gay people.
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    Mar 21, 2011 6:47 PM GMT
    But there are many gay guys who distance themselves from heterosexuals too, because of their hate for them, it's not a one way street.

    I'm thankful I have many straight friends, from diffrent nations, and religions too.