helios01 saidI feel so .... i cant even describe it
he said it wasnt me that he needed to be a lone.....
BS!!! how do you deal with that?
i was just getting over the fact that it ended.... now this
was i that easy to get over?
thanks for listening..
That quickly could mean he may have already been cheating, this guy lined up before you split. Or perhaps the "rebound effect" in which case the permanence is doubtful. You'll know more with time, assuming you stay in touch with him.
But really, it's no longer important. Now you turn your gaze, and your interest, elsewhere. At only 22, you have the luxury of time. You can date, you can sample, you can have fun.
One of the things I've learned is to exploit the place where you live. "Place" in terms of both your location, and also your age.
At 22, you can do things I can never do. So do them! The gay world is yours. Don't let it take charge of your life, as happens to some, but certainly enjoy it. You won't be a single 20-something forever. And later, when you're 30+, and 40+, etc, you'll do the things those guys do.
You've got the gay world by the balls, my man. Don't let yourself be detoured by this bump in the road.