Falling in love, how does it feel?

  • Nayro

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    Mar 22, 2011 12:02 AM GMT
    Hey!

    So I think I have never really been in love with someone. How does it feel? Is it like in the movies that some guy really sweeps you off your feet? How would you describe it and when was your first time you really fell in love?
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    Mar 22, 2011 12:41 AM GMT
    I don't think we can choose who we love, but we choose who we fall in love with.

    Being in love is unconditionalicon_smile.gif
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    Mar 22, 2011 12:45 AM GMT
    Like ten tons of bricks falling from the sun landing on your heart.
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    Mar 22, 2011 12:55 AM GMT
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    Mar 22, 2011 1:05 AM GMT
    I really get a special feeling in my stomach, especially when I think of seeing him next time.
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    Mar 22, 2011 2:30 AM GMT
    Its crazy, it changes your emotions , all you can do is think about them. When your around them its like you dont know what to say, you get really nervous and your heart ......its just knows when your around him because it hurts or you get this weird felling in your stomach like some one punched you

    and you get scared some times because you never know if they feel the same way
    well thats probably just me idk

    and i hate it because i always fall in love with hard to figure out guys , like i never know they are gay, bi or str8 ... they are just questionable guys
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    Mar 22, 2011 2:30 AM GMT
    It's tough to do over again.. and again.
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    Mar 22, 2011 2:31 AM GMT
    cold said

    I think being in love is about connectedness. You feel so close to the person that they become part of your life. You think about them when you're making decisions, you think about them when you go to bed, when you wake up in the morning and everything you see seems to remind you of them. You can tell them anything or do anything and they still want to be right there with you. When you see something funny or experience something great, you think about telling them or doing it again with them.



    If u just met a guy and you feel this is it love at first sight???
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    Mar 22, 2011 2:32 AM GMT
    cold saidI think there's the honeymoon stage, love and then there is being 'in love'. In my experience you can love someone and fall in or out of being in love with them.

    I think being in love is about connectedness. You feel so close to the person that they become part of your life. You think about them when you're making decisions, you think about them when you go to bed, when you wake up in the morning and everything you see seems to remind you of them. You can tell them anything or do anything and they still want to be right there with you. When you see something funny or experience something great, you think about telling them or doing it again with them.

    I've only been 'in love' once and I don't claim to be an authority on it - this was just my experience.


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    Mar 22, 2011 2:38 AM GMT
    like falling into an ocean of warm feathers. Unless the person doesnt love you back, then its like falling and not hitting anything icon_cry.gif
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    Mar 22, 2011 2:38 AM GMT
    Still waiting for that day!
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    Mar 22, 2011 2:42 AM GMT
    Daelin saidHey!

    So I think I have never really been in love with someone. How does it feel? Is it like in the movies that some guy really sweeps you off your feet? How would you describe it and when was your first time you really fell in love?


    go to an olympic diving pool go up as hig as you think you hav the guts to past the first two platforms. now close your eyes and free fall backwards. pay attention to all those feelings...

    now remove the fear and the splash, but not the feeling in your body of being weightless... the feeling in your gut, and the holding your breath thing. because when you're in love he'll do things that take your breath away, the simplest things. then you'll feel that feeling in your gut again (insert warm feathers feeling here too).

    but don't forget the fear.. because if you feel things start to go wrong, that how scared your going to be...

    that's when you're in love buddy
  • DrewT

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    Mar 22, 2011 2:44 AM GMT
    For me, it's like being kicked in the gut repeatedly. And then I tell him I like him, and when he says no, it's like being kicked in the gut repeatedly.

    One of the reasons I'm happy I don't like any guys right now.
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    Mar 22, 2011 2:44 AM GMT
    cold saidI think there's the honeymoon stage, love and then there is being 'in love'. In my experience you can love someone and fall in or out of being in love with them.

    I think being in love is about connectedness. You feel so close to the person that they become part of your life. You think about them when you're making decisions, you think about them when you go to bed, when you wake up in the morning and everything you see seems to remind you of them. You can tell them anything or do anything and they still want to be right there with you. When you see something funny or experience something great, you think about telling them or doing it again with them.

    I've only been 'in love' once and I don't claim to be an authority on it - this was just my experience.


    ^ This.

    I'd just add that the honeymoon stage or new love is a lot like lust, and hard to differentiate the two.

    Love, long-term love, is a bit like an arm or a leg. You just can't imagine life without it.
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    Mar 22, 2011 3:15 AM GMT
    throwing up in a good way or a knife in your heart(in a good way too).
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    Mar 22, 2011 3:33 AM GMT
    Like the heavens opened up to you, and you feel that there's a magic around you. You feel anything is possible, and you can die for that person and still be happy.
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    Mar 22, 2011 3:46 AM GMT
    Daelin saidHey!

    So I think I have never really been in love with someone. How does it feel? Is it like in the movies that some guy really sweeps you off your feet? How would you describe it and when was your first time you really fell in love?


    lol, by now you're thinking it's different for everyone? icon_wink.gif The sole example you provided above can happen, all right, and it can happen years after you get together. It happened when we met. We were both busy sweeping each other off each other's feet (blinks romantically, lol). Things eventually calmed, and a few years later bam, again. then again. It was all about whatever life was throwing us at the time, and how we navigated it as two rather than one. The effect is quite amazing. Different from courtship, yet the same in some aspects.

    Now that couldn't have made sense.

    O.o sorry, tired.

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    Mar 22, 2011 3:48 AM GMT
    "Love is an emotion experienced by the many and enjoyed by the few." George Jean Nathan

    Basically everyone falls in love... but only a few stay in love.

    To me the emotion of love is met when no matter where you are in the world, you feel intimate emotions towards the person.
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    Mar 22, 2011 3:58 AM GMT
    cold saidI think there's the honeymoon stage, love and then there is being 'in love'. In my experience you can love someone and fall in or out of being in love with them.

    I think being in love is about connectedness. You feel so close to the person that they become part of your life. You think about them when you're making decisions, you think about them when you go to bed, when you wake up in the morning and everything you see seems to remind you of them. You can tell them anything or do anything and they still want to be right there with you. When you see something funny or experience something great, you think about telling them or doing it again with them.

    I've only been 'in love' once and I don't claim to be an authority on it - this was just my experience.


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    Mar 22, 2011 4:00 AM GMT
    Feels amazing.....while it lasts. Then afterwards, no so great.
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    Mar 22, 2011 4:11 PM GMT
    There's not just one feeling--there's a "cacophony" of feelings for lack of a more appropriate word. For example, my bf's presence in the same place--even if he's not within a foot of me--makes me breathless. Another example, when I look into his eyes, my heart begins to race. Etc., etc., etc.,
  • Avron88

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    Mar 22, 2011 5:13 PM GMT
    I have never been in love with someone.

    So I also don't know the feeling. And I'm almost 23.
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    Mar 22, 2011 8:08 PM GMT
    when people talk about being "in love", i mostly think they mean the highs and rush of infatuation.

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    Mar 22, 2011 8:16 PM GMT
    gag.
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    Mar 22, 2011 8:23 PM GMT
    _KiwiM0nst3r_ saidthrowing up in a good way or a knife in your heart(in a good way too).


    Is there a good way to throwing up? lol