Immigration in every country often brings a fair list of pro and cons and the United States is not any different from any other. The list of problems emerging the United States, especially in the past few decades, reflects these issues. In modern society, the role of same sex equality and the acknowledgement of same sex marriages is minimal and in the very least, a fight within every state, county, local town and city; however, the United States is still a destination for many couples.
In America's federalist society, every state determines and decides on the fate of its people. This has always been a unique and very special quality of the American justice, legislative, and executive system down to the topic of marriage equality. The difficulty to have men and women of the legal courts to recognize same sex relationships is a difficult argument to establish within the confinements of American religion. Legal codes created to establish local municipalities, small towns, and procreate limit the establishment and security to same sex marriages. However, many states recognize human rights on a range of topics and issues. With the United States young, bullish, and at times, immature perspective on social issues, I strongly believe the recognition of same sex marriages will happen for all people in the future.
On the topic of immigration, immigration is a weird conundrum of battles established in the past fifty years to limit the number of people enter without appropriate documentation. Immigration law supports the proper identification and record keeping of the federal government to secure its borders and identify the total number of people in the country. Originally, it derived from the Department of Labor to identify the number of people supporting the American economy and seeking the American dream; unfortunately, the ideal of American capitalism eroded into a mechanical ploy to push people outside of the American borders and establish an "us" and "they" perspective. It does not help that this deployment of such an ideal has been heightened with growing contention on the southern American border.
Unfortunately, I do not have a recommendation on this topic, but simply note and believe equality will happen, but for same sex lovers, play the game safely and try your best. It's a broken system, but some people are trying to fix it.