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    Mar 22, 2011 2:11 AM GMT
    If u want 2 break up with some1 u think deserves better, @ d same time u dont want him 2 b hurt emotionally. what do u guys do? ; i really suck @ putting words 2gether, & i really dont like hurtin som1's feelings(i would know how he would feel if i did).he deserves better, im too kind & carin 4 him, &i dont want 2 see/hear him sad. i think he is gettin a cold feet. dis is seriously givin me so much emotional pain. hurtin some1 u really love by breaking up with him; but u dont want 2 cuz u might hurt him.
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    Mar 22, 2011 2:39 AM GMT
    I think you need to allow him to determine what he deserves, if I read that correctly. You are breaking up with him because you think he deserves better? It's good to care about someone that deeply but I think you might be sabotaging a good thing. I might be wrong though.
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    Mar 22, 2011 2:42 AM GMT
    _KiwiM0nst3r_ said i really suck @ putting words 2gether


    Try using less numbers to make complete words

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    Mar 22, 2011 2:53 AM GMT
    cold said
    Ariodante said
    _KiwiM0nst3r_ said i really suck @ putting words 2gether


    Try using less numbers to make complete wods


    haha! Muphry's Law strikes again.


    indeed it does

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    Mar 22, 2011 2:58 AM GMT
    _KiwiM0nst3r_ saidIf u want 2 break up with some1 u think deserves better, @ d same time u dont want him 2 b hurt emotionally. what do u guys do? ; i really suck @ putting words 2gether, & i really dont like hurtin som1's feelings(i would know how he would feel if i did).he deserves better, im too kind & carin 4 him, &i dont want 2 see/hear him sad. i think he is gettin a cold feet. dis is seriously givin me so much emotional pain. hurtin some1 u really love by breaking up with him; but u dont want 2 cuz u might hurt him.
    Just show him this thread.
    Once he sees your typing skills, he'll feel relieved that he doesn't have to spend the rest of his life with...that.
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    Mar 22, 2011 2:59 AM GMT
    If you think he deserves better but don't want to say so, try this:
    sleep with someone else, and make sure he finds out. Then he'll be the one to do the work of breaking up.

    I did this once and it worked like a charm. Just be ready to deal with some major bad karma.
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    Mar 22, 2011 3:02 AM GMT
    _KiwiM0nst3r_ saidIf u want 2 break up with some1 u think deserves better, @ d same time u dont want him 2 b hurt emotionally. what do u guys do? ; [i really suck @ putting words 2gether , & i really dont like hurtin som1's feelings(i would know how he would feel if i did).he deserves better, im too kind & carin 4 him, &i dont want 2 see/hear him sad. i think he is gettin a cold feet. dis is seriously givin me so much emotional pain. hurtin some1 u really love by breaking up with him; but u dont want 2 cuz u might hurt him.


    this
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    Mar 22, 2011 3:07 AM GMT
    The whole "I'm breaking up with you because you deserve better" thing is bullshit. What does that even mean? Just tell him it's not working for you.
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    Mar 22, 2011 3:10 AM GMT
    unfounded7 saidThe whole "I'm breaking up with you because you deserve better" thing is bullshit. What does that even mean? Just tell him it's not working for you.


    This.
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    Mar 22, 2011 3:11 AM GMT
    I'm sorry Wikipedia articles are not a valid citation source. Post dismissed!
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    Mar 22, 2011 3:17 AM GMT
    cold saidmuphry's law
    About 19,400 results (0.06 seconds)

    icon_lol.gif


    Alright.

    I will do something completely unprecedented.

    I MADE A STUPID POST AND IT CAME BACK TO BITE ME IN THE ASS.

    POST WAS STUPID.

    ASS WAS BITTEN.
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    Mar 22, 2011 3:22 AM GMT
    Ariodante saidI MADE A STUPID POST AND IT CAME BACK TO BITE ME IN THE ASS.


    I'm glad you did. I learned about Muphry's Law tonight. Make me chuckle.
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    Mar 22, 2011 5:07 AM GMT
    ty for the negative replies. in case some of u guys didnt know, im using my PSP to post this, so i only have limited space. dont hate cuz some of my words r in numbers. i dont give a shit if u hate on me icon_smile.gif
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    Mar 22, 2011 5:17 AM GMT
    _KiwiM0nst3r_ saidty for the negative replies. in case some of u guys didnt know, im using my PSP to post this, so i only have limited space. dont hate cuz some of my words r in numbers. i dont give a shit if u hate on me icon_smile.gif
    btw good 1st impression 2 some1who didnt do anytin to u. murphy's law? psh. i know english tyvm,if u were typin n my PSP u would post like wat i did. so bitch pls,oh i dont get karma.im kind
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    Mar 22, 2011 5:21 AM GMT
    _KiwiM0nst3r_ saidmurphy's law? psh. i know english tyvm,if u were typin n my PSP u would post like wat i did. so bitch pls,oh i dont get karma.im kind


    If you had been paying attention, you may have realized the Muphry's Law comment wasn't directed at you, hater.
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    Mar 22, 2011 5:35 AM GMT
    _KiwiM0nst3r_ saiddont hate....i dont give a shit if u hate on me

    kinda contradictory, ain't it?
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    Mar 22, 2011 5:55 AM GMT
    Bailing because U decided he deserves better, is a chicken way of ducking out of responsibility and of avoiding "commitment"....re-examine your reasons and real motivation......at least be honest with yourself and with him. Let him decide when you are not who he deserves....bet it won't take long...Good Luck!
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    Mar 22, 2011 6:46 AM GMT
    Sporty_g saidBailing because U decided he deserves better, is a chicken way of ducking out of responsibility and of avoiding "commitment"....re-examine your reasons and real motivation......at least be honest with yourself and with him. Let him decide when you are not who he deserves....bet it won't take long...Good Luck!


    yeah.....thats a good point there.

    He even said to me himself that " i dont deserve him cuz im too kind". since My family life got even more hard to control, my contact to him got even smaller( i can only use my PSP to send messages...). I have my real reasons and i know my motivation. Like the other ppl who replied, they just ramble on and on and they dont even know my situation or even understand me. like what i say to some ppl who hate and judge: "Know me b4 u talk shit". icon_confused.gif .. yeahh..i get it all the time cuz they hate that they dont have what i have.
    I already have enough ppl hatin on me cuz of my opinions and stuff, so give me a break ppl. (oh im replying on COMPLETE WORDS NOW CUZ IM ON THE LAPTOP!). just irritates me that you certain ppl would show how mean you are to ppl like me(who is kind, sensitive and knows how to be a good friend and not bitches(no offense) ).

    @ paulflexes, its ok if u go bitchy on me paul! u know i respect ya!!!!!icon_biggrin.gif
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    Mar 22, 2011 6:48 AM GMT
    yourname2000 said
    _KiwiM0nst3r_ said
    _KiwiM0nst3r_ saidty for the negative replies. in case some of u guys didnt know, im using my PSP to post this, so i only have limited space. dont hate cuz some of my words r in numbers. i dont give a shit if u hate on me icon_smile.gif
    btw good 1st impression 2 some1who didnt do anytin to u. murphy's law? psh. i know english tyvm,if u were typin n my PSP u would post like wat i did. so bitch pls,oh i dont get karma.im kind

    Oh shit...this was one of those girl things, wasn't it...

    "I don't need you to solve my problems.....I just NEED you to listen."

    Fuck....I was always awful at that game....I knew there was a reason why I was gay. icon_lol.gif


    lol. examine my personality and words and try to understand, then thats the time you reply. lol
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    Mar 22, 2011 6:48 AM GMT
    bigeasydude said
    _KiwiM0nst3r_ saiddont hate....i dont give a shit if u hate on me

    kinda contradictory, ain't it?



    .....no comment....ppl are bitchy/mean , i have no problems on that, its who they are icon_smile.gif.
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    Mar 22, 2011 7:38 AM GMT
    yourname2000 said
    _KiwiM0nst3r_ said
    yourname2000 said
    _KiwiM0nst3r_ said
    _KiwiM0nst3r_ saidty for the negative replies. in case some of u guys didnt know, im using my PSP to post this, so i only have limited space. dont hate cuz some of my words r in numbers. i dont give a shit if u hate on me icon_smile.gif
    btw good 1st impression 2 some1who didnt do anytin to u. murphy's law? psh. i know english tyvm,if u were typin n my PSP u would post like wat i did. so bitch pls,oh i dont get karma.im kind

    Oh shit...this was one of those girl things, wasn't it...

    "I don't need you to solve my problems.....I just NEED you to listen."

    Fuck....I was always awful at that game....I knew there was a reason why I was gay. icon_lol.gif


    lol. examine my personality and words and try to understand, then thats the time you reply. lol

    Haha! --exactly why the hell would I want to work that hard for you? icon_lol.gificon_lol.gif

    Look...I gave you a heartfelt response already based on the meager info in your post. And you pissed on it.

    This is RJ....You get to start forum threads. You don't get to decide how people will respond. Maybe you would be happier with Facebook....you can pick your "yes men" there.

    You want me to write the perfect content for you? --simple solution: pay me. I blow smoke up worse lookin' asses than yours everyday....for money.

    For free, you get what you got. Sorry...it is what it is. icon_wink.gif



    Thanks for bein straightup icon_smile.gif. icon_smile.gif
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    Mar 22, 2011 8:12 AM GMT
    How can either of you find "Mr. Right" if you're stuck with the wrong guy ?
    It sounds as if breaking up would do both of you a favor.
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    Mar 22, 2011 9:11 AM GMT
    Webster666 saidHow can either of you find "Mr. Right" if you're stuck with the wrong guy ?
    It sounds as if breaking up would do both of you a favor.
    its also his decision, turns out he wants me to cuz he is not into serious relationships right now(he is having family drama now). so ill totally respect his decision
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    Mar 22, 2011 10:01 AM GMT
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    _KiwiM0nst3r_ said
    Webster666 saidHow can either of you find "Mr. Right" if you're stuck with the wrong guy ?
    It sounds as if breaking up would do both of you a favor.

    its also his decision, turns out he wants me to cuz he is not into serious relationships right now(he is having family drama now). so ill totally respect his decision

    Whoa, whoa, whoa....wait.....please read that again: "...turns out he wants me to(o) 'cos he's not into serious relationships right now...."

    Come on, man....is that really what you signed up for?? --seriously....W666's (mmmm...love that guy) advice may be EXACTLY what you need to take to heart: is this relationship really what you want longterm? ---it sounds like there's a "best before" date on your relationship and you're just waiting until you're dumped because you think that's your lot in life. This is YOUR life....you don't need to serve a guy (at least, not if he's not serving you.)

    What do YOU want?



    I want:

    1.) Him always checking on me, ,sending me sweet thougthful messages
    2.) Him always supporting me.
    3.) Him being happy and not always sad.
    4.) Him knowing that he is not alone and that im always there to cheer him up.

    ..I just want to be happy(like REALLY happy and joyful) and knowing that everything is goin to be alright. oh that's why i posted the reply on W666 cuz i sent an email to my other buddy to ask him whats up with him and stuff(he(my buddy) is also the one that helps me get a hold of him when he is bz; using his cellphone and telling me what he said to him so that he will tell me what he said too. So sorry if i didnt make it more elaborate, anyway. overall, i think its best if I break up with him cuz he is not having a stable life right now(cuz of really personal problems, thats what my buddy said). icon_confused.gif
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    Mar 22, 2011 10:03 AM GMT
    yourname2000 said
    _KiwiM0nst3r_ saidThanks for bein straightup icon_smile.gif. icon_smile.gif


    cool, man..."truce" icon_smile.gif

    And I really do hope you find the answer you're looking for.


    Truce, and yeah. I already found it 2hours ago(through my buddy-friend). He helps me keep contact(let me know the updates) with my boyfriend when im bz.