Have Always Been Single ...

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    Mar 22, 2011 2:14 AM GMT
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    I've pretty much always been single - and was wondering if any other guys have experienced this.

    I like rugged ... sexy , masculine guys - and I refuse to settle until I find the right person.

    Most (all) of my friends are str8 ... and i never really fit in with gay guys. Gay bars I go to sometimes but not even that often ... nothing that attractive is ever at a gay bar.

    I feel like alot of people in my personal/professional life are getting engaged, married, falling in love ... i dont think that matters as much to gay guys. its like one big party all the fuckin time ... alot of flakes and dudes that are cocky.

    should I be depressed about this? I want to wake up next to a hot guy every morning. and i don't think there's anything wrong with that. just has to be natural.
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    Mar 22, 2011 2:20 AM GMT
    I'm exactly your age and I've been single my entire life too. I'm not depressed about it, and live life to make a better person out of me and to try to give to others and maybe make their lives a little better too.

    Ok that sounded corny. But it's true.
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  • masculumpedes

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    Mar 22, 2011 4:06 AM GMT
    I'm currently single......and dating.....never give up icon_wink.gif
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    Mar 22, 2011 4:24 AM GMT
    I can say that there are truly masculine gay guys out there. Just last week, I met a guy in my dinky college town and he completely flies under the gaydar- loves south park, works in law enforcement, loves baseball, etc. They masculine gay guys are out there, but you'd have to look deeper to find them. Good luck, rugged.
  • BeerIsYummy

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    Mar 22, 2011 4:25 AM GMT
    I'm 27 as well and have always been single. Don't be depressed about it, but don't feel it's wrong if you feel bad once in a while. Yeah it can be kind of a downer sometimes to see my friends coupling up and I can't get past a handful of dates, but then I remember that so much of my life is really great. Every time I get a wedding invitation, I think of how much I like my job. Every time I get excluded by my coupled up friends because they're doing a "couples only" night, I remind myself how much I like school.

    In the end, I know I'll be happy, even if I never go on another date. And I think that's pretty great. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Mar 22, 2011 4:31 AM GMT
    Have you heard of meetup.com? It's a site comprised of special interest groups throughout the world. It doesn't have anything to do with cruising the meat market unless it specifies. These 2 look good.

    http://www.meetup.com/lgbtfriends-70/

    http://www.meetup.com/blazenyc/

    The 2nd one looks like it may be up your alley. Explore it with the intention of meeting some friends and maybe that'll put you on the right path.
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    Mar 22, 2011 4:34 AM GMT
    cold saidWelcome to every 5th forum post.
    Ain't that the fucking truth! icon_lol.gif
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    Mar 22, 2011 5:49 AM GMT
    I read your profile and know way more about what you don't like than what you like.
    Take time to develop likes, you'll be more positive in your life, and more attractive to others.
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    Mar 22, 2011 6:50 AM GMT
    I think you and kitesurfer1978 should get together. You might get along.
  • Webster666

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    Mar 22, 2011 8:23 AM GMT
    You need to test drive a few different cars before you find the one you'll be happy with.
    Just looking at the brochures isn't the same.
  • tuffguyndc

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    Mar 22, 2011 8:39 AM GMT
    dude, i agree with you. i just figured, maybe it is supposed to be that way. everytime, i meet a handsome, masculine, and athletic guy he is in another city or is he is already in a relationship or he is way to involved into the gay scene for me. anyhow, you are young dude and have plenty of time. i say just enjoy the ride for the moment
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    Mar 22, 2011 1:02 PM GMT
    thanks for all your responses - its good to hear from all of you. icon_smile.gif