Sexually expressive

  • Profire

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    Mar 23, 2011 2:56 AM GMT
    How sexually expressive are you?
    (and no, not the 'YES...FUCK YA...THIS FEELS SO GOOD....FUCK YA" while your coming)

    Do you talk about sex with your bf, do you make comments such as "I am so horny tonight" or "I just want to fuck tonight", is sex talk a regular part of your every-day communication/discussions, do you send sexy text messages to your bf?

    My bf (well, ex-bf) and I had different sexual communication styles and it was tough at times trying to align my communication style vs his.
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    Mar 23, 2011 2:57 AM GMT
    Fuck no, I never talk about sex with anyone anywhere. It's like sex doesn't even exist in my life.

    *crosses fingers behind back and giggles*
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    Mar 23, 2011 3:01 AM GMT
    Talking about sex never turns me on.

    My ex used to send me messages all the time and talk to me on the phone dirty, but it never did anything for me. Maybe because I stopped loving him.

  • BardBear

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    Mar 23, 2011 11:01 AM GMT
    My husband doesn't do subtle. I've had to crank it up a bit after a while.

    Peace,
    Bardy
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    Mar 23, 2011 11:22 AM GMT
    hauptstimme saidMy ex used to send me messages all the time and talk to me on the phone dirty, but it never did anything for me. Maybe because I stopped loving him.


    Bleak!

    I like sex talk most of the time, have a laugh with it, be fun and flirty and a bit dirty - but other times it can be a bit jarring, like if you are in the car having a conversation about a member of the family and then suddenly apropos of absolutely nothing a sexual comment or invitation is made... that's not so fun!

    Also with a guy I think sex 'play' is good, where you aren't actually having sex or going to have sex but you tease each other, mess around, like grab them from behind (both clothed) and grind into them saying something like "Mmm, what a juicy fresh peach!" or walk past giving their ass/dick a bit of a grope or sexy wrestling. It doesn't have to be to initiate sex, it's just a show of appreciation that you like what you see, I guess.
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    Mar 23, 2011 1:06 PM GMT
    All I can talk about is sex. Sex, sex, sex. I'm shallow.
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    Mar 23, 2011 4:16 PM GMT
    In the bedroom or on a hookup site, I've got sex quite the brain. Otherwise, I seldom get overtly sexual in my conversation.