Is it true that if he looks once...

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    Mar 23, 2011 4:39 AM GMT
    he's curious.

    And if he looks twice, he's interested?


    This hot guy in my school, damn it. We see each other, and the first time I saw him, I literally was fixated and our eyes met while I was walking towards where he sat.

    Fast forward two weeks later, I was coming into the elevator of my friend's condo and he was walking by the elevator and he looked in and our eyes met again.

    And that same day with my friend, we were at the lobby of the building and he came in and we were walking towards each other's general direction, and when we got closer, we both looked at each other.

    Please tell me there is something there, coz this guy looks like Jake Gyllenhaal.

    So you think I should pursue this thing? I see him all the time.
  • Buddha

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    Mar 23, 2011 4:45 AM GMT
    Uh well you don't have to rule out that he's not interested but... doesn't that idea apply if you look at each other twice at one given time, not overall? Else I'm apparentley interested in a lot of people.
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    Mar 23, 2011 5:06 AM GMT
    criduchat saidhe's curious.

    And if he looks twice, he's interested?


    This hot guy in my school, damn it. We see each other, and the first time I saw him, I literally was fixated and our eyes met while I was walking towards where he sat.

    Fast forward two weeks later, I was coming into the elevator of my friend's condo and he was walking by the elevator and he looked in and our eyes met again.

    And that same day with my friend, we were at the lobby of the building and he came in and we were walking towards each other's general direction, and when we got closer, we both looked at each other.

    Please tell me there is something there, coz this guy looks like Jake Gyllenhaal.

    So you think I should pursue this thing? I see him all the time.


    If you think this guy's hot sure you should give it a shot (especially if he looks like Jake Gyllenhaal). What's the worst that can happen? He says no?

    To answer your original question though, people look at each other all the time. I catch glances and occasional stares from guys at the gym but I hardly think twice about it. But if you really want to microanalyze the situation, pay attention to whether or not there was "heat" when he looks at you, or if he blushes and looks away. Those are your go signals. Good luck I'm rooting for ya!
  • alphatop

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    Mar 23, 2011 11:02 AM GMT
    Dude, just say Hi....He won't bite u....Not a big deal...
  • tuffguyndc

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    Mar 23, 2011 11:35 AM GMT
    well to keep you from having to face a guy who may be potentially straight here is what you do. if i were you, i would ask them out for a beer. i am not sure if you are into sports but if you are that is a great way to ask someone and to start a conversation with someone. i do not know what to tell you other than to go that route.
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    Mar 23, 2011 10:47 PM GMT
    Have you seen "He's just not into you"? Its the three second rule. If he looks for more than three seconds, he is into you.
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    Mar 23, 2011 10:51 PM GMT
    A poster already said this and he is right in my eyes... what is the worst thing that could happen?

    He says no. You get over it... You move on with your life.
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    Mar 24, 2011 2:06 AM GMT
    You bitches! icon_lol.gif just kidding

    I followed your advice and said "hi" to him by the photocopying machine. And it went like this:

    Me: Hi. (with the cutest smile I think I've ever flashed)

    Jake: "You need something?" (Burn!)

    Me: Uhmm..well...uhmm, yeah I need to make copies of my casebook"

    Gawd awful! Not only did I get burned, I ended up photocopying my own book!!!


    I'm not giving up though..imma give it another shot tomorrow..maybe by the vending machine.
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    Mar 24, 2011 2:10 AM GMT
    criduchat saidhe's curious.

    And if he looks twice, he's interested?


    This hot guy in my school, damn it. We see each other, and the first time I saw him, I literally was fixated and our eyes met while I was walking towards where he sat.

    Fast forward two weeks later, I was coming into the elevator of my friend's condo and he was walking by the elevator and he looked in and our eyes met again.

    And that same day with my friend, we were at the lobby of the building and he came in and we were walking towards each other's general direction, and when we got closer, we both looked at each other.

    Please tell me there is something there, coz this guy looks like Jake Gyllenhaal.

    So you think I should pursue this thing? I see him all the time.
    where do you people get your etiquette from? i mean really not everyone is interested you because they look at you. jeeze, sometimes people just start. if you think he is interested than ask him out. find out if he is gay by asking if he would be interested in going out for a beer
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    Mar 24, 2011 2:13 AM GMT
    jjltexas saidHave you seen "He's just not into you"? Its the three second rule. If he looks for more than three seconds, he is into you.


    THIS.
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    Mar 24, 2011 2:17 AM GMT
    Great rule to follow if you want to get in trouble.
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    Mar 24, 2011 2:18 AM GMT
    criduchat saidYou bitches! icon_lol.gif just kidding

    I followed your advice and said "hi" to him by the photocopying machine. And it went like this:

    Me: Hi. (with the cutest smile I think I've ever flashed)

    Jake: "You need something?" (Burn!)

    Me: Uhmm..well...uhmm, yeah I need to make copies of my casebook"

    Gawd awful! Not only did I get burned, I ended up photocopying my own book!!!


    I'm not giving up though..imma give it another shot tomorrow..maybe by the vending machine.



    Dude that's not how you approach a guy! Look at him with some eagerness, catch his glance, flash your million dollar smile, then say hi. Were you guys alone when you did this? It sounds like he works there?

    You ended up copying your own book? Oh goodness. What was wrong with copying just one or two pages?? Man that must have been an expensive ice-breaker. Yeah try again. By the second time you should know if he's interested or not. I did this once when I was in college. We were friendly with each other with small talks. I swear there was something there. I then realized that the guy I had my eye on already has a boyfriend. So I guess nothing could have happened from his end. Oh well.
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    Mar 24, 2011 2:22 AM GMT
    Hmmm... I've caught eyesight with lots of guys before and assumed things incorrectly... So I dunno. Take caution?
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    Mar 24, 2011 12:56 PM GMT
    Cityaznguy said

    Dude that's not how you approach a guy! Look at him with some eagerness, catch his glance, flash your million dollar smile, then say hi. Were you guys alone when you did this? It sounds like he works there?

    You ended up copying your own book? Oh goodness. What was wrong with copying just one or two pages?? Man that must have been an expensive ice-breaker. Yeah try again. By the second time you should know if he's interested or not. I did this once when I was in college. We were friendly with each other with small talks. I swear there was something there. I then realized that the guy I had my eye on already has a boyfriend. So I guess nothing could have happened from his end. Oh well.


    Well i ended up copying three pages (not the entire book)...

    ok..i'm going to class now, and I have my most awesome shirt on...i'll be giving it another try. I mean what could be worse than yesterday right?

    I mean, it could be worse...it might turn out he's a mormon from BYU..but thanks guys (for enabling my slutiness)

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    Mar 24, 2011 1:04 PM GMT
    sometimes ill look once at someone with a missing limb.
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    Mar 24, 2011 10:12 PM GMT
    hey guys...really bummed right now. I can honestly say that he's not into me icon_sad.gif

    let's just say we sat face to face for 2 hours and neither spoke a word, and just both rabidly typed in our MACs

    wow..i was being delusional

    but thanks guys for the input icon_cry.gif I'm gonna channel Taylor Swift and get over Jake somehow. screw this..i'm going to the gym and working out
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    Mar 24, 2011 10:24 PM GMT
    criduchat saidhey guys...really bummed right now. I can honestly say that he's not into me icon_sad.gif



    He probably had a small penis and was a Republican. At least, that's what I used to tell myself to handle rejection back in my single days.
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    Mar 24, 2011 10:40 PM GMT
    jjltexas saidHave you seen "He's just not into you"? Its the three second rule. If he looks for more than three seconds, he is into you.


    OMG I even look at some women for more than 3 seconds, and I am not into them, or even many of the guys I look at. I Has this little man crushing me at JB hi fi yesterday, I I gave him a good long look in the eyes as to say fuck off little man, and if he thought for one moment I was into him, her was delusional.
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    Mar 25, 2011 12:38 AM GMT
    criduchat saidhey guys...really bummed right now. I can honestly say that he's not into me icon_sad.gif

    let's just say we sat face to face for 2 hours and neither spoke a word, and just both rabidly typed in our MACs

    wow..i was being delusional

    but thanks guys for the input icon_cry.gif I'm gonna channel Taylor Swift and get over Jake somehow. screw this..i'm going to the gym and working out


    Trust me there will be other hot guys. The next Jake is just around the corner. Good luck I'm rooting for ya (for your future Jake, of course)!!
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    Mar 25, 2011 12:43 AM GMT
    Whoops. Sorry- I'm going to repost because I didn't read the follow-up. Sorry.

    Sorry to hear that he isn't gay after all, bud. But good luck. There are tons of hot gay guys out there, and good things come to those who wait.
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    Mar 25, 2011 12:44 AM GMT
    criduchat saidhey guys...really bummed right now. I can honestly say that he's not into me icon_sad.gif

    let's just say we sat face to face for 2 hours and neither spoke a word, and just both rabidly typed in our MACs

    wow..i was being delusional

    but thanks guys for the input icon_cry.gif I'm gonna channel Taylor Swift and get over Jake somehow. screw this..i'm going to the gym and working out


    just get him drunk icon_twisted.gif
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    Mar 25, 2011 3:23 PM GMT
    criduchat saidhe's curious.

    And if he looks twice, he's interested?


    This hot guy in my school, damn it. We see each other, and the first time I saw him, I literally was fixated and our eyes met while I was walking towards where he sat.

    Fast forward two weeks later, I was coming into the elevator of my friend's condo and he was walking by the elevator and he looked in and our eyes met again.

    And that same day with my friend, we were at the lobby of the building and he came in and we were walking towards each other's general direction, and when we got closer, we both looked at each other.

    Please tell me there is something there, coz this guy looks like Jake Gyllenhaal.

    So you think I should pursue this thing? I see him all the time.


    and if he looks 3 times he's already fucked you in his head... lol
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    Aug 17, 2011 3:33 AM GMT
    ok this is happening to me. I've worked out around this guy probably three times. he's young, looks new to lifting but he's damn cute, with little tough guy look to him and real pretty eyes.

    every time, EVERY TIME I go to the gym and he's there I catch him looking at me and every time we've met eyes at least once. one time, actually, he was leaving....walking down the hallway with me watching him, and as he turned the corner he looked back and we met eyes again.

    I can't just say "HI! icon_biggrin.gif" because we're both listening to music and seem preoccupied with out workouts, but then again I just wanna be like "wanna work out together??? icon_biggrin.gif??"