BISEXUALITY

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    Mar 23, 2011 7:19 PM GMT
    Does bisexuality exist.... Is a bisexual man a man who is actually totally gay but is in denialicon_question.gificon_idea.gif
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    Mar 23, 2011 7:25 PM GMT
    You are ignorant.
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    Mar 23, 2011 7:28 PM GMT
    mnboy saidYou are ignorant.


    I'm more shocked that the mentality "bi=gay" has traveled all the way to South Africa.
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    Mar 23, 2011 7:39 PM GMT
    Well, its wrong with my post- why is it ignorant to you and are discrbing it as a mentallity.
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    Mar 23, 2011 7:57 PM GMT
    DodgedBullet said
    mnboy saidYou are ignorant.


    I'm more shocked that the mentality "bi=gay" has traveled all the way to South Africa.


    icon_surprised.gif If I can tell you one thing about South African, and South Africans at large is that we dont sit on the fence-we call a spade a spade. And lastly, we dislike people who cant decissions.
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    Mar 23, 2011 8:04 PM GMT
    mnboy saidYou are ignorant.


    and you are no better with your name calling, in an attempt to repress. so what did you add, by being a bitch?
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    Mar 23, 2011 8:05 PM GMT
    VirtualBoi saidWell, its wrong with my post- why is it ignorant to you and are discrbing it as a mentallity.


    You have done no wrong, other than ask a legitimate question, one where you have people with issues and insecurities don't want asked or talked about.
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    Mar 23, 2011 8:13 PM GMT
    Oh yes bisexuality certainly does exist! And yes it includes many men in denial, I have a bisexual brother with a wife and kids, and he hates the fact I know he like to play with the lads from time to time, and not in sport either, but maybe thats why he plays sport to be in the locker roomicon_wink.gif But he is not a homosexual in denial, he is not gay and never will be. He is just in denial he like to play with the lads too, as well women. Oh he is also one of those bisexual men who look down on us pure homosexuals as being less a man too, because he does the nasty with women makes him a real man; giggles.

    No a true gay man, would never ever do the nasty with a women, as it is just not in us, that what separates us from our half brothers the bisexuals.

    yes many may come out at 50 or 60 and be in a full time homosexual relasionship, but they still are not gay as they are bisexual, and bisexual, is neither or either.

    Just saying.
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    Mar 23, 2011 8:41 PM GMT
    Is a person with two jobs a fence-sitter too? Pick only one job and do it.

    Is someone bi-racial a fence-sitter? You are only allowed to be one race. Pick the dominant race and only be that.

    Does the color purple not exist in South Africa? You got to either be red or blue, not something new that is part red and part blue.


    When you get a little older, you'll see that things in the universe doesn't just exist as A or B.
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    Mar 23, 2011 8:46 PM GMT
    True_Blue_Aussie said
    mnboy saidYou are ignorant.


    and you are no better with your name calling, in an attempt to repress. so what did you add, by being a bitch?


    Name calling?
    He is ignorant. Get over it. If he wasn't ignorant then I would be name calling.
    I know the truth hurts.

    Is everything someone says that doesn't agree with you either name-calling, insulting, or being a bitch?
    Seems that way. You like to give but cannot handle receiving.

    Also, there are very, very, very "true homosexuals" or heterosexuals. Most people are bisexual with a strong preference to the other/same sex.
    Think of it as a scale, 1-10, one being hetro and ten being homo. The average person who identifies as homo has a rating from 8-9.9 same with the other end of the scale(.9-2).
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    Mar 24, 2011 5:51 AM GMT
    Bisexuals do or have swung both ways!

    gays only swing one way; we would never do the nasty with a women; never.
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    Mar 24, 2011 7:20 AM GMT
    I think it's more of a sliding scale... I've been with a girl once and I was turned on, but I still identify closer to "gay"..? Whatever floats my boat I guess icon_smile.gif
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    Mar 24, 2011 12:24 PM GMT
    True_Blue_Aussie saidOh yes bisexuality certainly does exist! And yes it includes many men in denial, I have a bisexual brother with a wife and kids, and he hates the fact I know he like to play with the lads from time to time, and not in sport either, but maybe thats why he plays sport to be in the locker roomicon_wink.gif But he is not a homosexual in denial, he is not gay and never will be. He is just in denial he like to play with the lads too, as well women. Oh he is also one of those bisexual men who look down on us pure homosexuals as being less a man too, because he does the nasty with women makes him a real man; giggles.

    No a true gay man, would never ever do the nasty with a women, as it is just not in us, that what separates us from our half brothers the bisexuals.

    yes many may come out at 50 or 60 and be in a full time homosexual relasionship, but they still are not gay as they are bisexual, and bisexual, is neither or either.

    Just saying.


    I agree. To add, I have also noticed that bisexual men don't get descriminated against as much as gay men do. Bisexual men give society hope that they will change and become straight. And FEAR of discrimination is also the main reason why so many men remain in the closet for their whole lives. So men who do classify themselves as bisexuals do so to EXCLUDE themselves and do think they are more macho then gay men.
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    Mar 27, 2011 1:25 PM GMT
    Well i'm a bisexual and have some concerns about your "gay in denial" concept too. I used to have fun and fuck well with girls but it tends to get boring very easily and when watching porn i prefer watching solo gay porn instead of straight ones (sometimes i watch lesbian ones too i don't know why). I
    haven't been in a relationship with a man yet, but the experience with girls to me it seems like "short period".
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    Mar 27, 2011 2:53 PM GMT
    VirtualBoi said
    DodgedBullet said
    mnboy saidYou are ignorant.


    I'm more shocked that the mentality "bi=gay" has traveled all the way to South Africa.


    icon_surprised.gif If I can tell you one thing about South African, and South Africans at large is that we dont sit on the fence-we call a spade a spade. And lastly, we dislike people who cant decissions.


    They have made a decision. They're bisexual. I don't see the problem.
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    Mar 27, 2011 6:32 PM GMT
    And on that note, who the hell are "we"?
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    Mar 28, 2011 1:35 AM GMT
    I'm gay but do have the occasional itch or craving to be with a girl sexualy. I do still find girls attractive but of course prefer men. So in a sense im not gay all the way! icon_question.gif
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    Mar 28, 2011 4:23 AM GMT
    Give the guy a break. He did ask a question. As for me, I consider myself bisexual and my sexual history bears that out. For me, there are specific things that I love about men and specific things I love about women. For me, I can never get what I love about men from women and vice versa. Nothing in life is ever black and white, especially sexuality.
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    Mar 30, 2011 6:19 PM GMT
    Yes bisexuality definately exists. I identify completely as bisexual. I agree with the percentage, or sliding scale. nearly everyone has some degree, some percentage, or curiousity about both sexes. In my case, I am split 50/50. I would not choose a partner based on their gender alone, being equally attracted to qualities in both.