Night Club First Date

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    Mar 23, 2011 7:56 PM GMT
    I haven't been on many dates with guys, but i met this guy last frienday at a club. For the first date he wnts to go back to the same club... umm...

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    Mar 23, 2011 9:10 PM GMT
    Well do you guys have something else planned besides the same club? Maybe a dinner or meet up for drinks before you guys go? In Clubs it is hard to talk and you ultimately want to get to know this guy right?
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    Mar 23, 2011 10:37 PM GMT
    Cityaznguy saidWell do you guys have something else planned besides the same club? Maybe a dinner or meet up for drinks before you guys go? In Clubs it is hard to talk and you ultimately want to get to know this guy right?


    I Know Right... he's a pool beer and pizza kinda guy... i like pool too
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    Mar 24, 2011 7:45 AM GMT
    Hello Friends...

    Dating is the one that makes every boy and girl excited...In the late 80s and 90s the meaning of dating is different as compare to 21st century......On my first date i too visited a nightclub cum bar with my partner Sara....As i already told you that it was my first date with her,so i was a bit nervous..but after a long talk we have a couple dance and also come closer....After the night we both are feeling very different and till the date we are together and will soon get married..

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    Mar 24, 2011 8:02 AM GMT
    The_Dollarwine saidI haven't been on many dates with guys, but i met this guy last frienday at a club. For the first date he wnts to go back to the same club... umm...

    Good idea / Bad idea

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    Bad idea. It sounds tacky as hell and I think it speaks volumes about the dude and his imagination or rather lack of. I'm not saying he needs to take you to a 5 star restaurant or anything like that but to take you back to the same place where he met you as a date just raises a flag in my head. If he does then don't expect too much and don't expect a 2nd date.

    So he's a beer and pizza kind of guy. Ok. Challenge him to step out his element for just one date. It won't kill him.
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    Mar 24, 2011 1:04 PM GMT
    yourname2000 saidIt would actually be a warning sign to me...like doesn't this guy have any other interests AT ALL???


    I agree, it's a bit weird. Suggest something else to him as an alternative - dinner and a movie, open-mic night at a bar, a mountain hike or beach walk...anything where you can actually get to know each other.
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    Mar 24, 2011 1:06 PM GMT
    I think you should take him back to your place and fuck his brains out.
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    Mar 25, 2011 3:47 AM GMT
    Is that the only club where you're at? I mean, is bottle service that good?

    Bad idea...for so many reasons.
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    Mar 25, 2011 3:52 AM GMT
    Come on.. He can't do better than that?
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    Mar 25, 2011 3:53 AM GMT
    I read this and all I thought was "el oh el"
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    Mar 25, 2011 4:26 AM GMT
    I always thought clubbing on the first date is like planning for failure. Tried it, and the guy ended up getting drunk therefore becoming totally irrational and stupid. Plus, with all the noise and what else goes on, it's more difficult to make a connection than somewhere more low key.
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    Mar 25, 2011 4:46 AM GMT

    going on any date to any club is a bad idea in my opinion..

    red flaaag.
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    Mar 25, 2011 6:49 AM GMT
    LOL terrible idea. Red flags flying up in so many different directions. Is he going to be focusing on you? Are you two able to talk and connect? Is he a club rat? Can he even function outside of a club? etc ....

    I think you already know this is a bad idea, but just want confirmations from others. Always trust your instinct man.
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    Mar 25, 2011 3:21 PM GMT
    criduchat saidIs that the only club where you're at? I mean, is bottle service that good?

    Bad idea...for so many reasons.


    i think he realized that me and some of the staff were friends... so he's thinking he'll be getting free entry & drinks too

    ha! not... i sure hope that not the expectation