There are so many hot guys in the world, how can anyone be in a monogamous relationship?

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    Mar 24, 2011 6:13 PM GMT
    Just wanted to ask this, as I have no intention of a relationship anytime soon. Well at least not until i've made my way through a few hundred hot guys ;)
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    Mar 24, 2011 6:30 PM GMT
    You are a HO!! Full stop icon_confused.gif
  • TrentGrad

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    Mar 24, 2011 6:44 PM GMT
    What kind of facetious question is this?

    It's like saying "there are so many delicious, fatty foods in the world...how can anyone be content eating responsibly?"

    The natural answer to both questions is: because it's important to them!
  • slimm

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    Mar 24, 2011 9:49 PM GMT
    You are right there are a lot of really hot guys in the world. On that note though just because they are hot does not mean you have to sleep with them. A fantasy about the person can be much hotter and if you have a guy that doesnt mind role playing you can take the experience to the next level. ust be safe until you find the one guy that you cant pass up.
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    Mar 25, 2011 3:17 AM GMT
    It's only okay to down people who have sex outside of monogamous relationships around here?
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    Mar 25, 2011 3:19 AM GMT
    somethingdifferent more like somethingslutty amirite?
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    Mar 25, 2011 3:20 AM GMT
    Slow down, 100s??? I just need one good guy.
    Never had a guy!
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  • XxXxXxAZNxXxX...

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    Mar 25, 2011 3:27 AM GMT
    I know this sounds corny and totally chiche, but I think I would settle for the perfect guy for me that is caring, kind, smart, fun, and intelligent rather than a bunch of other guys. But that might be just a fantasy TT-TT
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    Mar 25, 2011 3:35 AM GMT
    I believe in a world that..

    There are many hot guys.

    From that, there are some that just hate.

    From that, there are some more that are not interested.

    From that, there are only some that are interested, but for the wrong reasons.

    Now.. that left us with only a few that are actually interested for the right reasons.

    Within those few, there are one or two that we can "click" personality with and make it last.

    I believe that once I'm lucky enough to find that person, monogamous relationship is out of the question of "can" or "cannot". And I think I might have found one recently.. icon_twisted.gif
  • TheAlchemixt

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    Mar 25, 2011 3:38 AM GMT
    Ho alert, ho alert emergency 911.
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    Mar 25, 2011 3:42 AM GMT
    You won't have to worry because no one would want to be in a monogamous relationship with you after you have had sex with hundreds of guys
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    Mar 25, 2011 3:49 AM GMT
    If you seriously want a TRUE relationship and not a joke kind of one, THEN you can see pass all of the hot bods and attractive faces, and truly appreciate the the person who u are with. When you are able grow and to learn things about yourself, like what you REALLY want in a relationship and become totally committed. Then you could see why some people are capable of being monogamous.
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    Mar 25, 2011 3:51 AM GMT
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    Just because there is plenty doesn't mean you can have it all.
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    Mar 25, 2011 4:05 AM GMT
    _Mohammed_ said2bpj6p.gif

    Just because there is plenty doesn't mean you can have it all.


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  • awm55

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    Mar 25, 2011 4:07 AM GMT
    KSUOWL saidYou won't have to worry because no one would want to be in a monogamous relationship with you after you have had sex with hundreds of guys


    ditto
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    Mar 25, 2011 4:09 AM GMT
    atl2atx85 said
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    Just because there is plenty doesn't mean you can have it all.


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    Mar 25, 2011 4:10 AM GMT
    Once I start dating a guy I notice how other guys just don't seem as hot and for me I don't care how hot you are if there is a connection missing I'm not going to have sex with you in the frist place. Also the fact that I know I have a man at home, who loves me and wants to have sex over and over and that I have a deeper connection with then anyone else, how could I not be monogamous with him?
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    Mar 25, 2011 4:11 AM GMT
    Simon78928 saidOnce I start dating a guy I notice how other guys just don't seem as hot and for me I don't care how hot you are if there is a connection missing I'm not going to have sex with you in the frist place. Also the fact that I know I have a man at home, who loves me and wants to have sex over and over and that I have a deeper connection with then anyone else, how could I not be monogamous with him?



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    Mar 25, 2011 4:16 AM GMT
    I get a kick out of watching all these "ho-haters" post their dribbles about the openly promiscuous.
    Maybe that's why I have no sympathy in threads where people say "we only dated three months and he broke up...wtf!"
    I mean, those of you who "date" one guy for a few months, then replace him with another every few months...y'all go through more guys than I do, and I'm a completely open slut. The only difference is that y'all mask your sluttiness behind those words "omg but I 'loved' him!!!" Sorry, three months is not love...that's lust...and it's no fucking better than those of us who openly admit we want sex more than a relationship.
  • joarky123

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    Mar 25, 2011 4:19 AM GMT
    Personally, I am a relationship kind of guy. but to each his own man.

    if somebody wants to go sleep with as many people as they can, then let them. they'll have to suffer any consequences. whats' it matter to other people if he's not hurting us or depriving us of one of our freedoms and liberties?
  • awm55

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    Mar 25, 2011 4:19 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidI get a kick out of watching all these "ho-haters" post their dribbles about the openly promiscuous.
    Maybe that's why I have no sympathy in threads where people say "we only dated three months and he broke up...wtf!"
    I mean, those of you who "date" one guy for a few months, then replace him with another every few months...y'all go through more guys than I do, and I'm a completely open slut. The only difference is that y'all mask your sluttiness behind those words "omg but I 'loved' him!!!" Sorry, three months is not love...that's lust...and it's no fucking better than those of us who openly admit we want sex more than a relationship.


    Well if someone gets with a new person every three months that is about 4 guys a year, that is hardly slutty. If this is faster than the rate you sleep with guys maybe you think you are a bigger slut than you actually are haha

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    Mar 25, 2011 4:20 AM GMT
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    paulflexes saidI get a kick out of watching all these "ho-haters" post their dribbles about the openly promiscuous.
    Maybe that's why I have no sympathy in threads where people say "we only dated three months and he broke up...wtf!"
    I mean, those of you who "date" one guy for a few months, then replace him with another every few months...y'all go through more guys than I do, and I'm a completely open slut. The only difference is that y'all mask your sluttiness behind those words "omg but I 'loved' him!!!" Sorry, three months is not love...that's lust...and it's no fucking better than those of us who openly admit we want sex more than a relationship.


    Well if someone gets with a new person every three months that is about 4 guys a year, that is hardly slutty. If this is faster than the rate you sleep with guys maybe you think you are a bigger slut than you actually are haha

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    awm... your posts turn me on...or maybe my testosterone is at it's peak icon_twisted.gificon_twisted.gificon_twisted.gificon_twisted.gificon_twisted.gif
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    Mar 25, 2011 4:21 AM GMT
    heybreaux saidI guess it is all about your perspective. You are 18, you will change, but for now enjoy whatever you decide.

    Supposedly, heroin makes you feel absolutely wonderful, until it wears off, though I have never tried it.



    I think heybreaux makes a very valid point and you should follow his suggestion of doing heroin
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    Mar 25, 2011 4:23 AM GMT
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    I'm digging the hairy 70's man candy
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    Mar 25, 2011 4:24 AM GMT
    awm55 said
    paulflexes saidI get a kick out of watching all these "ho-haters" post their dribbles about the openly promiscuous.
    Maybe that's why I have no sympathy in threads where people say "we only dated three months and he broke up...wtf!"
    I mean, those of you who "date" one guy for a few months, then replace him with another every few months...y'all go through more guys than I do, and I'm a completely open slut. The only difference is that y'all mask your sluttiness behind those words "omg but I 'loved' him!!!" Sorry, three months is not love...that's lust...and it's no fucking better than those of us who openly admit we want sex more than a relationship.


    Well if someone gets with a new person every three months that is about 4 guys a year, that is hardly slutty. If this is faster than the rate you sleep with guys maybe you think you are a bigger slut than you actually are haha

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    I average 2-4 "new" guys every year, and very seldom is there a 2nd hookup (usually because they're traveling through).
    As far as the locals go, they know up front that it's all about sex.
    The reason I don't hookup with strangers more often is because I've got three FWB's that's I've been seeing for a few years...and they also know it's all about the sex, as we always share hookup stories when we're together.
    Show me a "LTR" that lasts that long around here where both guys can talk openly with each other. icon_cool.gif