Water Sports.....OMG! I am SO blonde! OOPS!

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    Mar 25, 2011 6:48 AM GMT
    ....So the guy I have been dating for the last month, sends me an e-mail at work and asks me when we can give "water sports" a try....Being a little slow and a bit distracted and busy at work, I said that sounds fun....we could try a few at the gym in the pool, tonight......
    I got a very strange reply, and he told me "ummmm, try again!".... when it finally dawned on me what he was asking.....I apologized and said we should talk when I get home.....I met him at his house, and he met me at the door, NUDE( I REALLY LIKED THIS!) and the den had been coated in plastic.....we talked and played around. While I am open minded on this, I get "stage fright" and literally can't squeeze a drop out!....He was really disappointed.....that I couldn't go and was even more unhappy when I declined him going on me..... he is about 15 years younger than me, and has a slightly wilder side than I do anymore.....Is this a normal request, or a way to test limits and see what it takes to drive me away.....how do I relax enough to at least give him the shower he wants? This is just a little out of my usual practices and I guess I need a few pointers......HELP, please!
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    Mar 25, 2011 8:07 AM GMT
    Drink so much water beforehand that the desire to piss will overcome any stage fright you have. It'll also be nicer for the guy, I don't think watersports people like acrid gold piss, more like the pale yellow watery stuff.
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    Mar 25, 2011 8:43 AM GMT
    I have two words: Lite Beer icon_smile.gif

    I am definitely pee shy, I couldn't let go with anyone but a very close boyfriend. It's actually a mark of closeness in a relationship for me when I can stand and pee with the bf in the bathroom!

    So I don't think it's weird! I am not against playing with watersports, but only in the shower where you can wash off right away!
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    Mar 25, 2011 8:54 AM GMT
    If you're really not into it, just tell him. You shouldn't force yourself to do something you're not comfortable with just to please him. It IS a fetish after all, not a 'standard' thing.
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    Mar 25, 2011 2:05 PM GMT
    I cannot understand why any guy who is prepared to ram his dick up another guy's ass gets all shy when it comes to piss. As far as I know, it is a lot more safe than sh#t!

    Relax and have fun!
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    Mar 26, 2011 9:36 PM GMT
    Be thankful that your boyfriend is honest enough and comfortable enough with you to raise the issue of golden showers. Your "boyfriend" is telling you without any ambiguity that he wants to play with (and in) piss. He "coated" the den in plastic. That requires effort and preparation. Your "boyfriend" didn't do all that to test you. Wake up and smell the piss! You should treasure him even more because it would appear that he trusts you enough to reveal his fetish/proclivities. If you're not comfortable with his scenario, tell him that in no uncertain terms. Hopefully, he'll understand and appreciate your honesty. If you're vacillating because you're not quite sure what to make of it, give it a good old college try and see where it leads. You might just enjoy it. If you feel like you'd like to try again, drink several glasses of water before the scene. You might also try having some caffeine (e.g., coffee) which is a diuretic. Also practice relaxing your muscles so that when you're ready to turn on the faucet the water will just flow naturally.
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    Mar 26, 2011 11:26 PM GMT
    Sporty_g said...how do I relax enough to at least give him the shower he wants?
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