"Allow other members to see if I visited their profile"...umm?

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    Mar 26, 2011 8:22 PM GMT
    That's indirectly asking:
    "Would you like to stalk other members on RJ without having to create another account?"
    My opinion: It should be removed.

    To be honest though, I could care less... Want to hear your opinions on this.

    Discuss.

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    Mar 26, 2011 8:25 PM GMT
    You are not stalking me enough.

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    Mar 26, 2011 8:28 PM GMT
    Lostboy saidYou are not stalking me enough.



    oh really? icon_twisted.gif

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    Haha j/k I think if someone actually checked that box they are officially admitting they have no balls.


    I think it is important for others to know that I looked at their profile... then if they are interested in me we can chat...

    otherwise how would you ever meet someone online like that?
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    Mar 26, 2011 8:38 PM GMT
    Agreed. I feel that,for most people here, we are friendly and welcome guys who are interested in platonic and romantic relationships. With this interest though comes respect,respect for us to accept or decline the message without them having a fit about it.

    Now,there are some shy guys that are afraid of rejection but they shouldnt be. They should be confident among fellow guys that understand the struggles and feelings that they are going though.

    Wow. That was deep
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    Mar 26, 2011 8:58 PM GMT
    Nope. Based on past threads, there are quite a few douchebags here that get offended if someone '"unattractive" views their profile, even once, accidentally.

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    Mar 26, 2011 9:18 PM GMT
    xrichx saidNope. Based on past threads, there are quite a few douchebags here that get offended if someone '"unattractive" views their profile, even once, accidentally.

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    Not the same...

    What are you referring to is if I get offended that you viewed my profile - but what I am talking about is the case where you can view me but I will not know you viewed me.

    In your case, a person can just block and tada!, whereas in my case, members I don't even know exist can be looking at me.

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    Mar 26, 2011 9:19 PM GMT
    WhatsLeft saidAgreed. I feel that,for most people here, we are friendly and welcome guys who are interested in platonic and romantic relationships. With this interest though comes respect,respect for us to accept or decline the message without them having a fit about it.

    Now,there are some shy guys that are afraid of rejection but they shouldnt be. They should be confident among fellow guys that understand the struggles and feelings that they are going though.

    Wow. That was deep


    Hit the nail on the head!
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    Mar 26, 2011 9:22 PM GMT
    _Mohammed_ saidThat's indirectly asking:
    "Would you like to stalk other members on RJ without having to create another account?"
    My opinion: It should be removed.

    To be honest though, I could care less... Want to hear your opinions on this.

    Discuss.



    i just viewed you, Mohammed.

    bwa ha ha ha...icon_twisted.gif
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    Mar 26, 2011 11:33 PM GMT
    I just viewed your profile.
    I like the feature.
    Just because I click a person's profile doesn't mean I want to fuck them...however, many people seem to think that everyone who views them wants to fuck, and will send an email asking why I viewed their profile without saying anything (well, that used to happen till I found this feature).
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    Mar 26, 2011 11:43 PM GMT
    _Mohammed_ saidThat's indirectly asking:
    "Would you like to stalk other members on RJ without having to create another account?"
    My opinion: It should be removed.



    No, I don't think it should be removed. Most sites out there you can't see who viewed you. Being able to do that is usually a feature of dating sites and hook up sites. I don't really think of RJ as either of those.
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    Mar 27, 2011 12:47 AM GMT
    _Mohammed_ said

    Hit the nail on the head!


    Thanks. I try icon_redface.gif haha

    Really though,I understand. Some people just like to creep,or even worse secretly look at you after you looked at them. icon_eek.gif I have the confidence to view you openly so why not give me the same treatment?......Then again,some guys you rather have secretly view you then send you a message.haha
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    Mar 27, 2011 1:10 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidI just viewed your profile.
    I like the feature.
    Just because I click a person's profile doesn't mean I want to fuck them...however, many people seem to think that everyone who views them wants to fuck, and will send an email asking why I viewed their profile without saying anything (well, that used to happen till I found this feature).


    Lol Paul...
    You are assuming that everyone who you view expects you to want to fuck them.

    This feature has no use other than to promote stalking...

    Which is viewing people without them noticing...that`s the definiton..geez.