Worst first date?

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    Mar 27, 2011 3:24 AM GMT
    While I was living in san diego, a very handsome guy asked me if I wanted to come over for dinner and a movie (can't remember what he said what he had made, but it sounded fancy). Well... I say sure! And make my way over to his house. Knock on the door and two big older bears answer the door. I say, "Uh.... is so and so here?" They get him and he takes me in... right to his bedroom with candles lit. I was like "Ooooooh uuuuhhh thanks but no thanks" And left, he walked me out, was fairly on the edge of crying, but I really didn't want to get into things with a guy I hadn't met other than online. It was a pretty weird first date.

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    Mar 27, 2011 3:26 AM GMT
    ^ frightening
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    Mar 27, 2011 3:29 AM GMT
    Oh, and I am also pretty sure I've been a pretty bad date occasionally too. When I first started dating I was still homophobic. One guy I took out to the gaslamp district was VERY cute, we had a good dinner and went and saw a movie. However, during conversation, I made several sterotypical references to gay things and "oh how oh how he must relate to that" was pretty stupid on my part. icon_rolleyes.gif

    OMG That lady is such a bitch, I bet you have to deal with a lot of those where you work huh!!
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    Mar 27, 2011 3:32 AM GMT
    Christ that must have been awkward. I would have done the same. I'm not down with the the whole meet and fuck first date thing.
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    Mar 27, 2011 3:34 AM GMT
    Met him online. Lived 2 hours away. Met in a Target and it was around Halloween time so I put on a costume to laugh at myself and he found me, instantly judged me... Constantly talked... about himself. I barely got a word in. Whenever another person greeted him his voice went up by a lot...

    I almost left dinner because I was so fed up with him as a whole being a douche, saying a bunch of judgmental insecurities and then heckling me for not wanting to kiss him.




    And It was my first date... ever.
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    Mar 27, 2011 3:49 AM GMT
    date? who does taht?
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    Mar 27, 2011 3:54 AM GMT
    Pato_Rico saiddate? who does taht?

    This guy!
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    Mar 27, 2011 3:56 AM GMT
    TrevorMark said
    Pato_Rico saiddate? who does taht?

    This guy!
    Yeah but you're weird in a good way, so you don't count. icon_razz.gif
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    Mar 27, 2011 4:05 AM GMT
    paulflexes said
    TrevorMark said
    Pato_Rico saiddate? who does taht?

    This guy!
    Yeah but you're weird in a good way, so you don't count. icon_razz.gif

    ...I know. I know. I'm different.
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    Mar 27, 2011 4:06 AM GMT
    A guy showed up half baked to a first date of mine once. It felt like a 10 minute pause for him to answer any question of mine and when he did he couldn't even follow up with a question of his own. Worst date ever.
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    Mar 27, 2011 4:07 AM GMT
    TrevorMark said
    paulflexes said
    TrevorMark said
    Pato_Rico saiddate? who does taht?

    This guy!
    Yeah but you're weird in a good way, so you don't count. icon_razz.gif

    ...I know. I know. I'm different.
    I'm more differenter. The closest thing I've had to a "date" is a few days ago when a coworker and I went out for sushi, hung out at the beach, then went back to his new place and hung pics on the wall.

    We even hugged as I was leaving, as he said "oh thank you for the wonderful date, sweetheart." icon_lol.gif
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    Mar 27, 2011 4:10 AM GMT
    Chainers saidA guy showed up half baked to a first date of mine once. It felt like a 10 minute pause for him to answer any question of mine and when he did he couldn't even follow up with a question of his own. Worst date ever.



    You mean he didn't offer you any? Stingy asshole!
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    Mar 27, 2011 4:10 AM GMT
    Chainers saidA guy showed up half baked to a first date of mine once. It felt like a 10 minute pause for him to answer any question of mine and when he did he couldn't even follow up with a question of his own. Worst date ever.


    Happened to me once mid 20s. He insisted that he smoked a bowl before we ate. I declined.

    On the other end of the spectrum:
    When I was 18 I took a few hits of acid before a date. Well, when I asked him what he did for a living over dinner (btw I didn't eat anything) he told me he was a drug counselor. OUCH!!!
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    Mar 27, 2011 4:15 AM GMT
    Chainers saidA guy showed up half baked to a first date of mine once. It felt like a 10 minute pause for him to answer any question of mine and when he did he couldn't even follow up with a question of his own. Worst date ever.


    Haha, I went on a date with a guy that seemed really cool when we first met, but on our first dinner date he was a douche to the waiter. Neither of us had anything to say that the other found interesting. I stepped outside to take a few hits from the pipe, and when I came back, the date went much better. We both decided to do other things after dinner.
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    Mar 27, 2011 4:17 AM GMT
    paulflexes said
    TrevorMark said
    paulflexes said
    TrevorMark said
    Pato_Rico saiddate? who does taht?

    This guy!
    Yeah but you're weird in a good way, so you don't count. icon_razz.gif

    ...I know. I know. I'm different.
    I'm more differenter. The closest thing I've had to a "date" is a few days ago when a coworker and I went out for sushi, hung out at the beach, then went back to his new place and hung pics on the wall.

    We even hugged as I was leaving, as he said "oh thank you for the wonderful date, sweetheart." icon_lol.gif

    It wasn't romantic, but it was very date like from the explanation. lmao.
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    Mar 27, 2011 4:18 AM GMT
    the guy SHAT the entire date..tells me he gets IBS every date and he came back from the bathroom telling me he took so long it dribbled down his leg.
    THE WORST.
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    Mar 27, 2011 4:24 AM GMT
    ^ Wow...
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    Mar 27, 2011 4:37 AM GMT
    My worst date was when my ex invited me to a dinner party hosted by his family for a Republican running for office (in O.C. as you might have guessed), and since he's not out, the entire night, he introduced me to his parents and guests as his "research partner."

    We couldn't kiss, hold hands. And when I tried to put my arms around him (nothing malicious, just like a buddy hug), he jerked and I ended up spilling champagne on myself.


    P.S. And I had to wear a bowtie to this event. It was not cute.
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    Mar 27, 2011 4:40 AM GMT
    criduchat saidMy worst date was when my ex invited me to a dinner party hosted by his family for a Republican running for office (in O.C. as you might have guessed), and since he's not out, the entire night, he introduced me to his parents and guests as his "research partner."

    We couldn't kiss, hold hands. And when I tried to put my arms around him (nothing malicious, just like a buddy hug), he jerked and I ended up spilling champagne on myself.


    P.S. And I had to wear a bowtie to this event. It was not cute.

    That's not a date, that's moral support since he felt out of place. That fucking sucks!
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    Mar 27, 2011 4:43 AM GMT
    She got sick & ralphed in a trashcan, in the loby of The Oakland Paramount Theatre. (I was str8 back them; so glad I've grown up now ;-) )
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    Mar 27, 2011 6:07 AM GMT
    ha ha ha ha ha I am sorry for laughing but that sounds hilarious. i mean really he actually almost cried? wow, i am sorry to hear about your bad date. that sucks
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    Mar 27, 2011 8:18 AM GMT
    I just had a 1st date with a guy that blew his fucking nose over & over at the dinner table, I cant stand that shit! Go to the bathroom!
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    Mar 27, 2011 8:53 AM GMT
    Nothing really traumatic but was very quiet....had nothing to say....boring.....icon_neutral.gif
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    Mar 27, 2011 9:10 AM GMT
    God, where to begin... once I had a date with a guy who thought he was psychic or something and he kept telling me how miserable my life is and how I am going to kill myself in two years icon_eek.gif Then he concluded that my family was a disaster and I probably got abused as a kid... stuff like that. I showed him a middle finger and told him "Analyse this" icon_biggrin.gif seriously...

    Also once I went out with a guy who showed his dick on the street while he was with me... I actually started laughing and left icon_lol.gif

    God, I miss dating... lately I don't have time, there are always great stories
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    Mar 27, 2011 10:20 AM GMT
    My first date started with us having a glass of wine (he had a little more.) We then took the bus and train to Cologne, where we went from one bar to another, with this guy getting more and more drunk. On the way back on the train, he put his head on my shoulder, held my hand so tight it started to hurt, and when the conductor came by and there was a problem with his (company sponsored) train ticket, he got all pissy and abusive towards the conductor. When we got back, he asked me to spend the night, but I was so annoyed and pissed, I went home instead. Oh, and because he was so drunk, he could not punch his PIN into the ATM in Cologne, meaning I ended up paying for his binge.