REALLY PAINFUL

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    Mar 27, 2011 8:30 PM GMT
    And once again:

    People who committed to me in so many ways suddenly walk away when I no longer tick thier boxes cos I have come out as gay. Christians who seem to be so "loving" just end up walking away. wonderful testimony of commitment and faithfulness- dont say a word to me, just disappear, defriend me from facebook etc..

    I know they werent real friends in the first place but its still so painful and hurtful.

    Just cos Im attracted to men.
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    Mar 27, 2011 8:41 PM GMT
    even though there will be those who walk away, just think of all the great people who didn't stray. they know you now without the big secret, which will make those bonds that much stronger and closer.

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    Mar 27, 2011 8:59 PM GMT
    blactor saidAnd once again:

    People who committed to me in so many ways suddenly walk away when I no longer tick thier boxes cos I have come out as gay. Christians who seem to be so "loving" just end up walking away. wonderful testimony of commitment and faithfulness- dont say a word to me, just disappear, defriend me from facebook etc..

    I know they werent real friends in the first place but its still so painful and hurtful.

    Just cos Im attracted to men.

    Hmmmm....if they werent real friends anyway ... and you knew that....then your hurt is really an indictment of yourself. Are you really that needy for approval? You might want to ponder that about yourself.
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    Mar 27, 2011 9:04 PM GMT
    No, I mean that people will say "they werent real friedns in the first place" and all that.

    I miscommunicated the way i wrote it.
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    Mar 27, 2011 9:13 PM GMT
    F**k um...you got us babe.
    Maybe you'll be a better man than I have been when they come back around.
    Funny how people change as time shows them how short life is and how stupid they've been.
    Stay strong; you'll make better friends, honest friends, true friends.
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    Mar 27, 2011 9:21 PM GMT
    blactor said

    Just cos Im attracted to men.



    I doubt this is the case. Perhaps they find you annoying for other reasons... or perhaps it was just the fact that you decided to come out of some illusionary closet to let everyone know you have sex with men? I would delete any friend of mine who did that on facebook as well. Ain't no bitches gonna steal my spotlight. I'm the token gay boy and nobody else can be.
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    Mar 28, 2011 12:33 AM GMT
    LaughingMyAssOff said
    blactor said

    Just cos Im attracted to men.



    I doubt this is the case. Perhaps they find you annoying for other reasons... or perhaps it was just the fact that you decided to come out of some illusionary closet to let everyone know you have sex with men? I would delete any friend of mine who did that on facebook as well. Ain't no bitches gonna steal my spotlight. I'm the token gay boy and nobody else can be.


    that was uncalled for...

    I had several good friends and family members leave my life when I came out as well. Its upsetting but its even more painful when repeatedly denying your truth...
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    Mar 28, 2011 6:06 AM GMT
    Well,

    LaughingMyAssOff is behaving like a total asshole and idiot. Hence I've put him on ignore. Very sad some people on this forum lack compassion- probably cos all the steriods they have taken have numbed the small brains they have anyway.
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    Mar 28, 2011 6:18 AM GMT


    Fuck 'em......icon_wink.gif
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    Mar 28, 2011 6:20 AM GMT
    Forget them, man. They can go suck a big one.
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    Mar 28, 2011 6:28 AM GMT
    turbobilly said

    Fuck 'em......icon_wink.gif


    agree