SLEEPING OVER.

  • Manolo_01130

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    Mar 27, 2011 11:41 PM GMT
    When a guy asks you to sleep over his place. What would make him want you too? (i.e. you do sleep over.) what is the reasoning behind it? Adding, this is the first actual time being in this situation.
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    Mar 27, 2011 11:53 PM GMT
    he wants to get in your pants, all night long.
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    Mar 27, 2011 11:55 PM GMT
    Do you perfer to sleep alone or w someone else usually....as long as they don't snore I love a guy wrapped up in my arms or vice versa for the night, just feels good. Sure usually sex is involved beforehand but overall find guys want me to spend the night b/c we are getting closer and that is just another step along the way to a deeper relationship.
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    Mar 27, 2011 11:58 PM GMT
    If your friend is straight it doesn't mean a whole lot. If he is gay he may like you.
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    Mar 28, 2011 12:52 AM GMT
    a friend asked me that one time...i ended up giving him a bj :p i snored in retaliation icon_twisted.gif
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    Mar 28, 2011 12:59 AM GMT
    LMFAO this reminds me of this dumb bitch (beauty pageant girl) who once tried to give me advice on flirting.
    I didn't know what to do about texting this guy and she was like "All you have to do is send a text saying "Hey baby wanna have a sleepover?""
    I was like "um sorry but that doesn't work on people who aren't beauty pageant sluts."

    Me and my friends make fun of it by texting each other with HAY BB WONNA HAV A SLEPOVER???
  • nubScotty

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    Mar 28, 2011 1:05 AM GMT
    Likely some level of interest on their part, whether or not sex is expected when you spend the night is another story. I spent the night at a guys house this past week where no sex was involved, nor expected. Granted I woke him up with a bj the next morning icon_wink.gif.

    I think it all depends on the relationship between the two of you, and what each of you expect out of it.
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    Mar 28, 2011 1:05 AM GMT
    Why broadcast it over the internet? Just let him come all over. Oops I meant come over.
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    Mar 28, 2011 1:06 AM GMT
    canuckguy19 saidhe wants to get in your pants, all night long.


    Yes! This!

    Just remember that there is a fine line between cuddling and holding somebody down so that they can't get away.
  • Celticmusl

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    Mar 28, 2011 1:08 AM GMT
    So you two can do each other's hair and talk about boys.
  • cityguy39

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    Mar 28, 2011 1:21 AM GMT
    That first planned nite over is part of the getting to know you phase if your dating. You can find out quite a bit spending the nite, is his phone constatly going off all nite, does he have nice sheets, do his pets have the run of the place including his bed, does he snore. You can find out quite a bit if you don't sleep too hard lol.


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    Mar 28, 2011 1:24 AM GMT
    GAMRican saidJust remember that there is a fine line between cuddling and holding somebody down so that they can't get away.


    LOL. I think I just pissed my pants.
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    Mar 28, 2011 1:25 AM GMT
    He wants BUTT SECSicon_eek.gif or just a cuddle buddy? Perhaps a dinner companion and then maybe he just wants to watch a game, talk cheap and enjoy a cold draft... All sound do-able!
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    Mar 28, 2011 2:36 AM GMT
    SoCalScotty saidLikely some level of interest on their part, whether or not sex is expected when you spend the night is another story. I spent the night at a guys house this past week where no sex was involved, nor expected. Granted I woke him up with a bj the next morning icon_wink.gif.

    I think it all depends on the relationship between the two of you, and what each of you expect out of it.


    HaHa. The first time I was with another guy was at a sleepover. We'd gone out a few times and kissed but I wasn't sure I was ready for guy sex! icon_lol.gif
    Anyhow, we planned to spend the day together so we agreed he's stay over. He was very patient - said we didn't have to do anything I wasn't comfortable with,etc. Of course, after we were in bed together for a while, I gave in - my introduction to guy sex! icon_wink.gif
  • acousticpunk

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    Mar 28, 2011 8:05 AM GMT
    Celticmusl saidSo you two can do each other's hair and talk about boys.



    HA HA HA! Smartass! I love it...
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    Mar 28, 2011 8:15 AM GMT
    SoCalScotty saidLikely some level of interest on their part, whether or not sex is expected when you spend the night is another story. I spent the night at a guys house this past week where no sex was involved, nor expected. Granted I woke him up with a bj the next morning icon_wink.gif.

    I think it all depends on the relationship between the two of you, and what each of you expect out of it.



    Growwwwwlllll,,,,,,,,sleepover? icon_wink.gif
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    Mar 28, 2011 8:46 AM GMT
    howser_hunter saida friend asked me that one time...i ended up giving him a bj :p i snored in retaliation icon_twisted.gif


    Hey Howser_Hunter...whatter you doin tonight? I was thinkin...maybe, I could cook, you grab a bottle of wine... Maybe stay Over?? I mean, if you wanted icon_wink.gif



    But seriously, 24 year old, without coming down on you, if you Act Naive around him (as if you wouldn't know what to do on a man 2 man sleepover)... you might get eaten alive. I mean, YOU have an agenda too, right? don't leave it all up to him. if you remain too passive, you'll show up and do whatever, and he'll probly go with it too. hit it and quit it, then lose respect cuz you're too easy. show him you know what you want, and you'll establish dating boundaries. if you just wanna fuck, fuck. if you're feeling cuddly, cuddle. he's being assertive by inviting, so i think he wants an assertive answer... Not Just "Ummm, I dunno" (as a vers dude's dude, i HATE that)

    This is all just hypo-babble. Make it what You want to make it.
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    Mar 28, 2011 2:44 PM GMT
    GAMRican said
    Just remember that there is a fine line between cuddling and holding somebody down so that they can't get away.


    Hey, GAM...wanna cuddle? icon_twisted.gif
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    Mar 30, 2011 9:12 PM GMT
    canuckguy19 saidhe wants to get in your pants, all night long.


    This is soooo not always the case...

    Ive have been seeing a guy for about a month now, and have slept over I would say about 2 weeks of it. Although I have been sleeping naked almost every night of it we still have yet to bump uglies. I am by no means complaining though because most nights I have slept like a fucking baby.

    Some guys just wanna cuddle I suppose icon_lol.gif
  • rf_dal

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    Mar 30, 2011 9:28 PM GMT
    Nothing wrong with just wanting a cuddle icon_smile.gif