how to turn a haning out into a date?what should i at the first date?

  • liljay

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    Mar 28, 2011 9:01 AM GMT
    have anyone have any experiance?
    i'm not sure what should i expect when i hang out with a guy i like and i loved before and i just need some help like what you do at your first date and what makes him wanna see me even more
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    Mar 28, 2011 10:00 PM GMT
    Just be yourself. Go do something that interests both of you. Make it social and not sexual and see where it goes. Basic dating 101. If he likes hanging with you and shows an interest in continuing to get together then think about broaching the subject of actually making it a date (ie: movies and dinner), if he says no way, then be friends and start looking elsewhere for dating.
  • joselitoo

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    Mar 28, 2011 10:04 PM GMT


    Actually when you're just hanging out you do something what friends do lol yea hard do explain
    but when u want a date, you first have to ask if the guy wants to go out with you like in a restaurant or cinema bla

    when he agrees then u need a nice location with a "romantic" flair in the air
    and keep eye contact

    dont talk about stuff like sports, computergames etc.

    try to talk about yourself or ask him questions about him

    i think thats the thing what makes a date to know each other better

    when you're talking about stuff which has no comparison to your lives or personalities then i would say its not a date its hanging out and having fun

    when i used to date my BF i did the same we went to bars/restaurants and it worked lol
  • MSUBioNerd

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    Mar 28, 2011 10:16 PM GMT
    Accept that the first date with a friend will be a little weird since you already know a decent amount about them, so the usual first date questions will be things that you already know.

    Fundamentally, though, be sure he *knows* it's a date. It might be a little awkward for you to say, but include the word date when you ask him. If you already hang out regularly, he may not notice anything unusual about the two of you going out to dinner or something, and may have no idea that you're considering it a date.
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    Mar 28, 2011 10:32 PM GMT
    flirt, but most importantly just enjoy the time with them.. trust me, if in your mind you keep asking "is this a date??" you wont be able to enjoy your company.... just make everything "light and flirtatious" if that makes sense icon_smile.gif
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    Mar 29, 2011 12:43 AM GMT
    Already great advise, one last thing...do not set high expectations of what should be or should not be...enjoy the company and the moment.icon_biggrin.gif
  • liljay

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    Mar 29, 2011 1:49 PM GMT
    flirt is good but how to flirt him in a good and succeful way? i don't really know how to, any example?
    and also how can i make sure he knows it's a date after we hang out for a while time. that;s the most diffcult thing for me. need alot of helps