holes that are too tight

  • sbwlguy

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    Mar 28, 2011 5:11 PM GMT
    how often to you come across guys with holes that are too tight to fuck?

    pretty much been a bottom since i started having sex but recently started experimenting with topping. hooked up with two guys recently, in the space of a month, who i simply couldn't get my cock into.

    frequent phenomenon?
  • swedeinusa

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    Mar 28, 2011 5:39 PM GMT
    Sort of frequent, especially with beginners. But generally the guy/top should devote more time to foreplay and general loosening up ie. fingering, rimming, dildo play etc. Also, try to relax and your hole should relax naturally. icon_smile.gif Happy fucking!
  • rnch

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    Mar 28, 2011 5:46 PM GMT
    invest in some high quality poppers.

    10-15 seconds after a quick inhale, even the tighest hole will loosen up.

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    Mar 29, 2011 12:26 AM GMT
    Did you have a boner? If your dick is only semi-hard or not hard at all, you won't be able to poke that hole even if it's the most cavernous, loosest manhole on earth.
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    Mar 29, 2011 5:18 AM GMT
    I've had that problem myself, trying to take guys. The whole relaxing part does wonders. icon_redface.gif
  • Beeftastic

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    Mar 29, 2011 6:35 AM GMT
    I've run into a few. A small toy helps to get things started. Popper can help if you are into them.
  • MikemikeMike

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    Mar 29, 2011 6:47 AM GMT
    swedeinmiami saidSort of frequent, especially with beginners. But generally the guy/top should devote more time to foreplay and general loosening up ie. fingering, rimming, dildo play etc. Also, try to relax and your hole should relax naturally. icon_smile.gif Happy fucking!


    Agreed you gotta get the guy dialated and so into it!!
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    Mar 29, 2011 7:01 AM GMT
    yourname2000 saidWhere there's a will, there's a way!

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    (It's a shoe horn)

    But yeah, loosen a guy up with a bit of foreplay, and he'll be stretching his hole so wide, you'll be more worried about falling in. icon_biggrin.gif


    HAHAH... icon_biggrin.gif
  • MikemikeMike

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    Mar 29, 2011 7:06 AM GMT
    yourname2000 saidWhere there's a will, there's a way!

    shoehorn.jpg
    (It's a shoe horn)

    But yeah, loosen a guy up with a bit of foreplay, and he'll be stretching his hole so wide, you'll be more worried about falling in. icon_biggrin.gif


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  • rangeli

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    Apr 03, 2011 5:55 AM GMT
    rnch saidinvest in some high quality poppers.

    10-15 seconds after a quick inhale, even the tighest hole will loosen up.

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    are you saying poppers would loosen me? i have been so frustrated when a guy cannot enter me....i think theres " tight", and then theres me....
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    Apr 03, 2011 5:59 AM GMT
    If they've never experimented on themselves... I can see this as being a problem.
  • rangeli

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    Apr 03, 2011 6:07 AM GMT
    tomcat89 saidI've had that problem myself, trying to take guys. The whole relaxing part does wonders. icon_redface.gif


    u r sooo right about the relaxing. there has been a couple times that i felt relaxed for whatever reason, and i could just tell and feel how much i loosened....and when ur loosened like that it feels like ur hole is like a pussy, and you can actually want him to fuck u hard
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    Apr 03, 2011 10:39 AM GMT
    Ahahaha .... My rear is one tough place to gain access...Even if penetrated my rear will no sooner push a guys dick out..And this when I am relaxed.

    A guy must have special skills for such an access icon_lol.gif
  • rnch

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    Apr 03, 2011 1:38 PM GMT
    ronang said
    rnch saidinvest in some high quality poppers.

    10-15 seconds after a quick inhale, even the tighest hole will loosen up.

    icon_cool.gif


    icon_twisted.gif


    icon_wink.gif
    >


    are you saying poppers would loosen me? i have been so frustrated when a guy cannot enter me....i think theres " tight", and then theres me....






    yup!
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    Apr 04, 2011 12:22 AM GMT
    DOMINUS saidDid you have a boner? If your dick is only semi-hard or not hard at all, you won't be able to poke that hole even if it's the most cavernous, loosest manhole on earth.


    Some great visuals popped in my head...roflicon_twisted.gif