Role-Reversal Stuffs...

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    Mar 28, 2011 9:08 PM GMT
    often times people associate the bottom or the top with other types of roles...like the top being the big spoon, the bottom being the little etc...

    Is there anyone who does the opposite?

    For example, i'd say i'm primarily bottom, but i only like to big-spoon, even if they're taller or bigger or whatever.

    anyone else in the same boat?
  • sbwlguy

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    Mar 28, 2011 9:31 PM GMT
    i'm the bottom but i'm not a woman at all. i like to be the man.

    (joke)
  • sbwlguy

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    Mar 28, 2011 11:43 PM GMT
    how tall are you? i'm 6'6. also rarely with guys my height.
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    Mar 29, 2011 4:03 AM GMT
    Top and bottom has nothing to do with roles outside of the bedroom. You can relate them and extend them (as yourname2000 has stated), but it is not a standard that the bottom is the woman and the top is the man.

    Top means you insert, bottom means you receive.

    Check out my thread:

    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/1436857/


    You will enjoy reading it... it talks about stereotypes and how they should not be used...
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    Mar 30, 2011 9:18 PM GMT
    I am vers but the guy I am seeing likes to "play" the top. He wanted me to be the big spoon a couple of times but since he is taller it makes me feel awkward so now I just lay on my back and he lays his head on my chest.

    I guess you could say he is a top away from bed (he likes to pick me up over his head), but the roles reverse when we get into bed.
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    Mar 31, 2011 7:44 AM GMT
    By experience, my ex was a "bottom" even though we never had sex... but I've always played the fair role of Big or Little Spoon. I like to hold and be held.

    When I finally did break up with him, had sex with another vers guy, we actually flip flopped our spoon status in between sessions of sex and I really enjoyed it. Plus we were about the same height and build. It was... strangely nice.