Question, what is it for you personally that draws you to men?

  • inuman

    Posts: 733

    Mar 29, 2011 12:06 PM GMT
    So for the last few years I have been keeping a mental track record of when I ask another gay person, either it be male or female, what was the first moment you looked at another of the same sex and what was it about that person that made you realize you were gay and liked the same sex?

    I always ask this when I meet someone in the flesh because I have this weird theory about what makes us keep coming back for the men or in some cases women ( if I recall there are a few women on this site... ) and its that one thing we first saw on our first crush that made us realize that we liked the same sex.

    For me it was when I was about 13 and I saw this guy a few years older then me wearing he's wet briefs just from changing in the change room at our local swimming pool. It hugged his ass so well I get wood just from looking at it icon_razz.gif

    Since then I've always loved men asses in all forms, shapes & sizes, its my draw to a man, its what makes me love men. icon_cool.gif
  • docbailey2005

    Posts: 361

    Mar 29, 2011 6:08 PM GMT
    Everything. the ideal that you should be friends with the person you fall in love with makes sense. I love sports and hanging with a man. Love the masculinity , the mental strength , his scent. Having a good friend with benefits is extremely appealing too me. A man i can go to the sports bar,a game, a walk, fishing ,camping with and then make good love just makes so much sense to me.