fell in love with a stranger :(

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    Mar 29, 2011 3:51 PM GMT
    Have you ever fall in love with someone you dont know ?


    idk what but i never felt like this around anyone since high school


    It all started yesterday i was at the store next to the gym. The guy that was inline behind me started talking to me and made little jokes about some magazine , and i thought to myself wow he is really cute i wish i could see him again.

    later on that day i went to the gym and i started working on my arms and when i looked over he was on the bench next to me he smiled and i got nervous and left. I started to run on the treadmill and we kept making eye contact and i would look over and smile and i saw him smiling to but i was to nervous to do anything

    So i went to sauna and a few min later he came in in his boxers and just sat next to me .. i was so nervous i could not even look at him so i left

    i wish i could turn back time and tell him that i thought he was the hottest guy in the world or say something

    I THINK I HAVE A PROBLEM icon_sad.gif
  • masculumpedes

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    Mar 29, 2011 3:59 PM GMT
    No, but I've kissed a few guys I didn't know...icon_wink.gif
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    Mar 29, 2011 4:02 PM GMT
    Just get over your fear of rejection and ask him out already. If he's that hot he might not be available for much longer. Some other guys will just snatch him up and you'd be kicking yourself in the nuts. Go for it.
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    Mar 29, 2011 4:16 PM GMT
    i would of but idk when i will see him again it could be weeks icon_sad.gif
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    Mar 29, 2011 6:28 PM GMT
    It is easy to fall in love with a stranger because you only see the qualities of him that you like. When you know someone, all the good and the bad, thats how you know its real love.

    Yes, there have been guys I wish I talked to just to see where it would go in the past, but I just get over it and find the next guy.
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    Mar 29, 2011 8:41 PM GMT
    were is the like button lol icon_smile.gif
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    Mar 29, 2011 9:23 PM GMT
    lol is that your way of saying you like my post?
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    Mar 29, 2011 9:51 PM GMT
    Chainers saidlol is that your way of saying you like my post?


    Yes, I'm sure it is icon_smile.gif

    And for the OP: I guess it's safe to assume that he goes to the gym the same time as when you saw him. So try going to the gym at the same time. If you have the feeling someone's smiling, look around? I'm not sure.

    And it has happened to me a couple of times icon_razz.gif
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    Mar 30, 2011 2:47 AM GMT
    vla8 said
    Chainers saidlol is that your way of saying you like my post?


    Yes, I'm sure it is icon_smile.gif

    And for the OP: I guess it's safe to assume that he goes to the gym the same time as when you saw him. So try going to the gym at the same time. If you have the feeling someone's smiling, look around? I'm not sure.

    And it has happened to me a couple of times icon_razz.gif


    wow he knows me like a im an open book icon_smile.gif
  • laguna07

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    Mar 30, 2011 2:55 AM GMT
    So,maybe he thought you were playing "hard to get" instead of thinking you were shy. And maybe he will keep trying to meet you. If you know anything about fishing, you don't jerk the pole when you get a bite, or you lose the fish. Give him some line and play with him a little...hehehe icon_smile.gif
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    Mar 30, 2011 4:41 AM GMT
    I've had a few crushes.

    I don't think I could love anyone that I haven't known for at least a few months.
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    Mar 30, 2011 4:43 AM GMT
    laguna07 saidSo,maybe he thought you were playing "hard to get" instead of thinking you were shy. And maybe he will keep trying to meet you. If you know anything about fishing, you don't jerk the pole when you get a bite, or you lose the fish. Give him some line and play with him a little...hehehe icon_smile.gif

    wow that was amazing icon_smile.gif
  • alphatop

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    Mar 30, 2011 4:48 AM GMT
    So, why are you complaining?? That guy obviously tried to flirt with you, and you chickened outicon_confused.gif If I was him, I would assume that u are either insecure, or playing hard to get, or just freak...
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    Mar 30, 2011 4:53 AM GMT
    "I THINK I HAVE A PROBLEM"

    lol, yes you do, and many us including me had it as well. Learn from this one and do differently next time, because trust me there will be a next time, (either with this guy or another). icon_wink.gif

    So next time, when you see him, grab your proverbial inner bull by the horns and go for it.

    -Doug

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    Mar 30, 2011 4:55 AM GMT
    AntoNomad saidSo, why are you complaining?? That guy obviously tried to flirt with you, and you chickened outicon_confused.gif If I was him, I would assume that u are either insecure, or playing hard to get, or just freak...

    lmao wow ouch i was really nervous i didn't know what to say to him i mean i really wanted to talk to him but i just chickened out ... I always chicken out ... my last boy friend had to put me in a head lock to ask me out while we were wrestling .... idk i just try to walk away from situation that im scared of


    i guess im just scared of rejection idk
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    Mar 30, 2011 4:56 AM GMT
    meninlove said "I THINK I HAVE A PROBLEM"

    lol, yes you do, and many us including me had it as well. Learn from this one and do differently next time, because trust me there will be a next time, (either with this guy or another). icon_wink.gif

    So next time, when you see him, grab your proverbial inner bull by the horns and go for it.

    -Doug


    i will try
  • alphatop

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    Mar 30, 2011 5:05 AM GMT
    tonylavon734 said
    AntoNomad saidSo, why are you complaining?? That guy obviously tried to flirt with you, and you chickened outicon_confused.gif If I was him, I would assume that u are either insecure, or playing hard to get, or just freak...

    lmao wow ouch i was really nervous i didn't know what to say to him i mean i really wanted to talk to him but i just chickened out ... I always chicken out ... my last boy friend had to put me in a head lock to ask me out while we were wrestling .... idk i just try to walk away from situation that im scared of


    i guess im just scared of rejection idk
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    I would NOT reject you, on the contrary. You need to work on your self esteem...
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    Mar 30, 2011 5:32 AM GMT
    Hahaha some people have all the luck in the world and dont know what to do with it lol

    But i understand.. I mean obviously you wont get rejected if you guys are getting smiley with each other lol .. Just wave with a smile or something if you see him again.. he doesn't sound like the shy type lol after you do that he might start a convo with you.. you might shit a brick (since you get so nervous).. but at least you got to speak with him.. lol