Hanging out with gays makes you gay?

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    Mar 30, 2011 2:08 PM GMT
    Recently I had some people questioning me about my friends sexuality. The reason being that we hang out so much... and me being gay.
    We meet pretty much every day and hang out in the evening. But hey, we are friends and last time I checked friends like each others company, regardless of sexual preferences.
    I was kind of pissed of by this. But I guess to them Gay/Straight friends do not compute.
    What do you think?
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    Mar 30, 2011 2:16 PM GMT
    You have straight friends right? When you hung out with them a lot did it make you straight? icon_smile.gif
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    Mar 30, 2011 2:28 PM GMT
    I have several straight (and not just straight-wannabe) male friends who hang out with me and my gay friends and none of the straight boys really cares that I and my gay friends bat for the other team. Nor do the people who know about us give a can of shit. And that may well be because we blend together--i.e., you really can't tell who's gay and who's not gay. In any event, why should it matter?
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    Mar 30, 2011 2:29 PM GMT
    I think you're always going to have those who wonder if it's more than it is and if it turns out that it is more, they'll be first in line to say "I knew it, told you". Something about getting credit that they had it all figured out first.

    Next time someone asks, tell them "Oh yeah he's str8 but I'm not sure about me anymore".

    It is funny that when a gay guy hangs with a str8 guy, they wonder if the str8 guy is gay but they never wonder if the gay guy might be str8 (but being gay is a choice!). I think Cityaznguy is asking the right question here! LOL

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    Mar 30, 2011 2:30 PM GMT
    DOMINUS said And that may well be because we blend together--i.e., you really can't tell who's gay and who's not gay.
    You mean your str8 friends where heels and a boa too? Wow!
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    Mar 30, 2011 2:38 PM GMT
    eb925guy said[quote][cite]DOMINUS said[/cite And that may well be because we blend together--i.e., you really can't tell who's gay and who's not gay.
    You mean your str8 friends where heels and a boa too? Wow![/quote]

    LOL! You're cute! I'm going to Pleasant Hill to beat you up! LOL!icon_lol.gif
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    Mar 30, 2011 2:39 PM GMT
    Tell them ya'll are both fucking the shit out of each other so much that he'll never even so much as glance at another female. Then tell them if they keep "questioning" that they'll turn gay too, so they better STFU while they can.
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    Mar 31, 2011 2:50 PM GMT
    nice one!
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    Mar 31, 2011 2:55 PM GMT
    I spend my entire life hanging out and working with straight guys, and living the straight life........didn't make a bit of difference about who I was/am................Keithicon_wink.gif
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    Mar 31, 2011 3:15 PM GMT
    Homowardbound saidI spend my entire life hanging out and working with straight guys, and living the straight life........didn't make a bit of difference about who I was/am................Keithicon_wink.gif


    and it won't make a difference in them either... just tell that to the people who question u and your friends...
  • unicoman1

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    Mar 31, 2011 3:17 PM GMT
    I hang out with people that I like.. good vibes good people.. Gay/Str8... its indifferent. To be with people doesn't make you anything but choosy.. and as friends go, you should be!
  • rnch

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    Mar 31, 2011 3:31 PM GMT
    your doner DNA makes you gay.

    hanging out with gay guys might give a str8 guy some tolerance and empathy...but as for "turning gay"....jayysussss...... icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Mar 31, 2011 3:39 PM GMT
    *sighs*

    It's like suggesting hanging out with straights will make you straight.

    Nope.

    -Doug
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    Mar 31, 2011 3:42 PM GMT
    Haha that is funny. The only thing that will happen to straight people if they hang out with gays is that they will (hopefully) become more accepting.
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    Mar 31, 2011 3:48 PM GMT
    This is news? Of course that's how it happens. Happen to me. I was completely hetero, abducted by a "man clan" for a few months, then later a "gaggle of gays" for a couple of weeks, and TA-DAH, now I'm a homo! (And it didn't hurt at all).
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    Mar 31, 2011 4:05 PM GMT
    All my friends are straight due mostly to common interests and occupation. All of them still have wives and kids / grandkids or will have. Didn't turn any of them gay.
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    Mar 31, 2011 4:10 PM GMT
    I hang out with mostly straight men, and I am not straight.

    Why does it only work one way?
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    Mar 31, 2011 4:37 PM GMT
    Chainers saidI hang out with mostly straight men, and I am not straight.

    Why does it only work one way?

    This.
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    Apr 06, 2011 5:01 PM GMT
    DOMINUS said
    eb925guy said[quote][cite]DOMINUS said[/cite And that may well be because we blend together--i.e., you really can't tell who's gay and who's not gay.
    You mean your str8 friends where heels and a boa too? Wow!


    LOL! You're cute! I'm going to Pleasant Hill to beat you up! LOL!icon_lol.gif[/quote]

    Bring it on baby! This could be fun icon_smile.gif
  • Hammer89

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    Apr 07, 2011 2:24 PM GMT
    Well, you know, it is contagious so you just have to be careful how much you hang with the homosexuals. Too much and you're bound to catch it. icon_wink.gif