dchoco saidSo I've tried Ok Cupid, Match, Chemistry, Yahoo, and even the new version of Eharms Compatible partners sites. I've had at one time a profile on Connexion, Real Jock, BM, Gay.com, and yes sad to say Manhunt( 1 week).
And for some reason guys do not respond to my compliments and messages, and no one of suitable stature initiates towards me in that capacity.
I don't drink so I don't just go to bars and clubs to have a drink at happy hour or a night cap before going home. I do however love to play darts, but it's kind of weird being that weird guy who comes in buys a ginger ale and plays darts by himself( though I don't really mind)
Where do guys meet good non flaky, handsome guys to date?
I am at a loss and at my whits end.
You are an attractive man living in a big city. While the internet can be a good supplement to dating and meeting people, try branching out and joining social groups. If there is a sport that interests you, you can join the team. Thats a great way to meet new people.
Remember, every time you see someone new, dont think of it as a potential date. That is really pigeonholing the experience and person into a narrow prospect. If you have an open mind and realize that this person can be a date, a new friend, a business prospect, or he can even be the guy who introduces you to your next date.
Try that approach, I take that when going out and doing things in the city, and I find it attracts more guys than going out and looking for new people.
Also, I am not a big drinker as well, so I go to the local coffee shops, the gym, the park, and so forth.
Give it a shot man.