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Where do you find good guys to date?

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    QUOTE Mar 30, 2011 2:20 PM GMT
    So I've tried Ok Cupid, Match, Chemistry, Yahoo, and even the new version of Eharms Compatible partners sites. I've had at one time a profile on Connexion, Real Jock, BM, Gay.com, and yes sad to say Manhunt( 1 week).

    And for some reason guys do not respond to my compliments and messages, and no one of suitable stature initiates towards me in that capacity.

    I don't drink so I don't just go to bars and clubs to have a drink at happy hour or a night cap before going home. I do however love to play darts, but it's kind of weird being that weird guy who comes in buys a ginger ale and plays darts by himself( though I don't really mind)

    Where do guys meet good non flaky, handsome guys to date?

    I am at a loss and at my whits end.
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    QUOTE Mar 30, 2011 3:46 PM GMT
    Where do you find good guys to date?

    Addams Family Values: (1993)

    Debbie: Where do you find these Addams men?

    Morticia: It has to be damp.


    OK, so the OP is a drop-dead hunk, prime of his life, professional dancer in NYC. We should all have such problems!

    I'd advise him to do hit the gay clubs, and show off his dancing skills. You don't have to drink, you know, you can just have a plain Coke or Sprite. I know, pricey way to have them, but we're talking investment here, and entertainment.

    Circulate, circulate, circulate. You use those online social sites when you live in East Podunk (as I've done), and don't have other options. When you live in NYC and have his assets, you go out your front door.
  • Chackers Posts: 149
    QUOTE Mar 30, 2011 4:13 PM GMT
    Art_Deco saidWhere do you find good guys to date?

    Addams Family Values: (1993)

    Debbie: Where do you find these Addams men?

    Morticia: It has to be damp.




    Ok nothing to add to the thread other than i love the Addams family movies.
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    QUOTE Mar 30, 2011 4:48 PM GMT
    dchoco saidSo I've tried Ok Cupid, Match, Chemistry, Yahoo, and even the new version of Eharms Compatible partners sites. I've had at one time a profile on Connexion, Real Jock, BM, Gay.com, and yes sad to say Manhunt( 1 week).

    And for some reason guys do not respond to my compliments and messages, and no one of suitable stature initiates towards me in that capacity.

    I don't drink so I don't just go to bars and clubs to have a drink at happy hour or a night cap before going home. I do however love to play darts, but it's kind of weird being that weird guy who comes in buys a ginger ale and plays darts by himself( though I don't really mind)

    Where do guys meet good non flaky, handsome guys to date?

    I am at a loss and at my whits end.


    You are an attractive man living in a big city. While the internet can be a good supplement to dating and meeting people, try branching out and joining social groups. If there is a sport that interests you, you can join the team. Thats a great way to meet new people.

    Remember, every time you see someone new, dont think of it as a potential date. That is really pigeonholing the experience and person into a narrow prospect. If you have an open mind and realize that this person can be a date, a new friend, a business prospect, or he can even be the guy who introduces you to your next date.

    Try that approach, I take that when going out and doing things in the city, and I find it attracts more guys than going out and looking for new people.

    Also, I am not a big drinker as well, so I go to the local coffee shops, the gym, the park, and so forth.

    Give it a shot man.
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    QUOTE Mar 30, 2011 6:44 PM GMT
    dchoco saidWhere do guys meet good non flaky, handsome guys to date?
    At strip joints...granted the dates only last one night, but at least they're handsome and don't flake.
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    QUOTE Mar 30, 2011 6:50 PM GMT
    come to toronto.
    problem solved.
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    QUOTE Mar 30, 2011 7:14 PM GMT
    dchoco saidSo I've tried Ok Cupid, Match, Chemistry, Yahoo, and even the new version of Eharms Compatible partners sites. I've had at one time a profile on Connexion, Real Jock, BM, Gay.com, and yes sad to say Manhunt( 1 week).

    And for some reason guys do not respond to my compliments and messages, and no one of suitable stature initiates towards me in that capacity.

    I don't drink so I don't just go to bars and clubs to have a drink at happy hour or a night cap before going home. I do however love to play darts, but it's kind of weird being that weird guy who comes in buys a ginger ale and plays darts by himself( though I don't really mind)

    Where do guys meet good non flaky, handsome guys to date?

    I am at a loss and at my whits end.


    Maybe all the good guys are shorter? You should "lower" your standards!
  • YamoLat Posts: 8
    QUOTE Mar 31, 2011 10:37 PM GMT
    free advice... never with a guy in a chat place... always dirty and sensual... never serious...
    rather to c and meet real people in real live out the computers!!!