Just something ive been wondering

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    Apr 02, 2011 3:37 AM GMT
    Hey guys, im 5"6 and 140 pounds. Not that its hard for guys to be bigger than me seein as im small. But just wondering if there's any luck to find men sorta like the bear type or just alot bigger then me in height and weight to date?
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    Apr 02, 2011 6:36 AM GMT
    Well nothing is impossible to find mate icon_smile.gif Good luckicon_smile.gif
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    Apr 02, 2011 6:39 AM GMT
    It is def. possible to find what you are looking for. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Apr 02, 2011 6:41 AM GMT
    Tons of threads on the subject. Complicated to boil it down to a simplified answer. But the condensed consensus, is no.
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    Apr 02, 2011 6:42 AM GMT
    Ariodante saidTons of threads on the subject. Complicated to boil it down to a simplified answer. But the condensed consensus, is no.

    +1

    Technically, I could count as I am above the 200 lb marker, have body hair and am 6'2", but we're not counting me.
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    Apr 02, 2011 6:44 AM GMT
    Aww don't be mean ya all icon_smile.gif
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    Apr 02, 2011 6:44 AM GMT
    Ariodante saidTons of threads on the subject. Complicated to boil it down to a simplified answer. But the condensed consensus, is no.


    Yes!! I love a challenge icon_twisted.gif
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    Apr 02, 2011 2:35 PM GMT
    There are plenty of big muscular dudes (even "bears") who are into shorter guys, but you have to have some "beef" or muscle, PLUS you have to have a very masculine "fuck you" physical appearance and attitude, PLUS you need to be a top or dominant top. You will find that many of these big muscular dudes are actually sub or sub-curious and bot or bot-curious.
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    Apr 02, 2011 5:22 PM GMT
    Thanks for the responses...Hopefully the guys who say it was possible were right... cause those are the type of men i dream about with Lol.. But then again i love all men....
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    Apr 02, 2011 5:25 PM GMT
    If you build it, they will come......?
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    Apr 02, 2011 5:51 PM GMT
    If there's a will...there's a way...start the hunt
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    Apr 02, 2011 6:16 PM GMT
    andrew_111 saidHey guys, im 5"6 and 140 pounds. Not that its hard for guys to be bigger than me seein as im small. But just wondering if there's any luck to find men sorta like the bear type or just alot bigger then me in height and weight to date?


    Just wondering, do you have an iphone or an android?
    Get the Growler and Scruff apps, both catering to bears, cubs, hairy men.
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    Apr 02, 2011 6:27 PM GMT
    DOMINUS saidThere are plenty of big muscular dudes (even "bears") who are into shorter guys, but you have to have some "beef" or muscle, PLUS you have to have a very masculine "fuck you" physical appearance and attitude, PLUS you need to be a top or dominant top. You will find that many of these big muscular dudes are actually sub or sub-curious and bot or bot-curious.



    NOT NECESSARILY.
    I hang around with a lot of bears, lots of them my buddies.
    You dont need to put up a front, just be yourself; theyll respect you and like you much more.
    A lot of them do appreciate the more meatier built. Im glad ive built my body to the point were they call me their 'muscle pup.' And im short too (5'5") so i get attention, lol!
    And from hanging around with the Bear community, i find that theyre not any different from your average gay man. Some of them bottom, alot of them top, and ive met a few who are vers. Which is great with me!
    Anyway, relax, and be yourself. Youll get your bear.
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    Apr 02, 2011 6:34 PM GMT
    Attraction boils down to more than just how you look. At the end of the day there is not a be all end all who is attracted to who. It is all up to the individual.
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    Apr 03, 2011 4:26 PM GMT
    GigoloAssassin said
    DOMINUS saidThere are plenty of big muscular dudes (even "bears") who are into shorter guys, but you have to have some "beef" or muscle, PLUS you have to have a very masculine "fuck you" physical appearance and attitude, PLUS you need to be a top or dominant top. You will find that many of these big muscular dudes are actually sub or sub-curious and bot or bot-curious.



    NOT NECESSARILY.
    I hang around with a lot of bears, lots of them my buddies.
    You dont need to put up a front, just be yourself; theyll respect you and like you much more.
    A lot of them do appreciate the more meatier built. Im glad ive built my body to the point were they call me their 'muscle pup.' And im short too (5'5") so i get attention, lol!
    And from hanging around with the Bear community, i find that theyre not any different from your average gay man. Some of them bottom, alot of them top, and ive met a few who are vers. Which is great with me!
    Anyway, relax, and be yourself. Youll get your bear.



    Yay lol, ur response just made me believe there is a bear out there for me..
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    Apr 03, 2011 4:29 PM GMT
    Absolutely, if you have a bit of fur or facial hair you won't have too many issues at all. You will fit right in, you otter know this by now.