DOMINUS saidThere are plenty of big muscular dudes (even "bears") who are into shorter guys, but you have to have some "beef" or muscle, PLUS you have to have a very masculine "fuck you" physical appearance and attitude, PLUS you need to be a top or dominant top. You will find that many of these big muscular dudes are actually sub or sub-curious and bot or bot-curious.
I hang around with a lot of bears, lots of them my buddies.
You dont need to put up a front, just be yourself; theyll respect you and like you much more.
A lot of them do appreciate the more meatier built. Im glad ive built my body to the point were they call me their 'muscle pup.' And im short too (5'5") so i get attention, lol!
And from hanging around with the Bear community, i find that theyre not any different from your average gay man. Some of them bottom, alot of them top, and ive met a few who are vers. Which is great with me!
Anyway, relax, and be yourself. Youll get your bear.