Age and Who leads in bed

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    Apr 02, 2011 10:40 AM GMT
    So guys, does age play a role for you in terms of who leads in bed.

    I'm 27 and verse but often enough guys who I've bottomed for are younger than I am

    Its not an issue at all for me as I'm an adult, but then again as I grow older, I don't expect younger guys to be attracted to me, let alone to top me because of my age.


    Thoughts in this matter you guys?

    Its strange to ask, but I'm just curious to know

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    Apr 02, 2011 10:46 AM GMT
    No. Age has nothing to do with who leads in bed. I topped Jon (who was 31 y/o) and he topped me.

    Also, I was the one with the "whip"...

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    and he loved that.
  • alphatop

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    Apr 02, 2011 1:08 PM GMT
    I don't see how can you relate age and top/bottom issue. They had nothing to do with each other. If you are top in your 20s, you'll be top in your 40's. Same goes for bottoms.
  • mybud

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    Apr 02, 2011 6:02 PM GMT
    My opinion age has nothing to do with it.....It's about who is more dominate...If you exercise control in the beginning your mate will instinctively know what animal desires need to be fullfilled....Speakin for myself I use gentle firmness...It works like a charm......BUD
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    Apr 02, 2011 7:18 PM GMT
    I agree with the rest of the comments. I am vers, but I enjoy being with a man a couple of years older than I am. I can be dominant or submissive, just flow with the situation. But although one might be older than I, I still show my dominance off and top them and there is no issue. It shouldn't be an issue. As long as your having safe fun and both are enjoying it.
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    Apr 02, 2011 7:20 PM GMT
    mybud saidMy opinion age has nothing to do with it.....It's about who is more dominate...If you exercise control in the beginning your mate will instinctively know what animal desires need to be fullfilled....Speakin for myself I use gentle firmness...It works like a charm......BUD


    Hehehe I may use that to lash out, grrrrr icon_twisted.gif
  • swimbikerun

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    Apr 02, 2011 7:22 PM GMT
    Fivealive said...as I grow older...

    lol the boy says as he grows 'older'
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    Apr 02, 2011 7:26 PM GMT
    swimbikerun said
    Fivealive said...as I grow older...

    lol the boy says as he grows 'older'


    ok ok, Its as I age.....icon_rolleyes.gif

    But thanks for the grammatical correction
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    Apr 02, 2011 8:03 PM GMT
    Some people may consider that it does.

    However, basic personality and taste is not necessarily dictated by age. You are yourself with your own ideas and concepts of life, no matter how old you are.

    As adults, the age/status related things that mattered socially as children or in high school, or even collage, no longer need matter. As adults we are all on the same level of equal choice, equal opportunity, etc. As a new adult, you may need an adjustment period in which to come to terms with this. These adjustment periods are longer for some people. Some people never fully adjust and still hold, at least somewhat, to the age and status related ideas they had as children.

    The reason for all of this is that as a child, you're limited by your stage of development and the fact that you are not really in control of your own life just yet. As adults, we achieve the power to make our own decisions, including the choice to allow others to make our decisions.

    I've dated men of all ages, from 21 to near 60. A top may be a top, no matter how old he his. Some guys like older, some younger. Some don't care about age - I'm one of them.

    Those who limit themselves with fixed ideas about what they like, don't like or can or cannot accept, miss out on a lot of truly great experiences. The best thing to do is to take each situation, each person, each opportunity and evaluate it within its own context.

    Remember, experience can tell you a lot, but experience comes from the past, which is always only partially relevant to current circumstances. Using the knowledge you gain from experience, but not the experience itself, per se, along with current, present-time perception can most often tell you what you need to know. The trick is, to distinguish between the two, which most people, observably, have great difficulty doing.

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    Apr 02, 2011 8:18 PM GMT
    I don't think age is a factor in the role of the bed. If you guys are attracted to one another and each are willing to please one another however then it really shouldn't matter unless you it to.