I don't know why this keeps happening? extention (Am I wrong for this?)

  • Jericophantom...

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    Apr 02, 2011 12:54 PM GMT
    So last week I had kissed my bestfriend despite him having a boyfriend and last night he tried to cap me off because right now he hasn't had sex with his boyfriend for quite some time and I havent taken care of myself down there icon_rolleyes.gif he said he was trying without cheating and I was so hard to say no cause I wanted so bad......while it was happening the right minded part kept telling him you have a boyfriend, you don't need to do this, you dont really need sex, etc....so at the end of the night I still hadnt and he felt guilty as hell I promised to keep it between us

    Did he cheat?
    Did I allow him to cheat?
    Is it obvious from this that I want him that bad?
    Should we still be friends?
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    Apr 02, 2011 1:07 PM GMT
    Depends on your definition of cheating.

    Things for certain:
    -He's not into his boyfriend. Why are they even trying?
    -Of course you can still be friends.
  • Jericophantom...

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    Apr 03, 2011 7:17 PM GMT
    I hate to come between two people whom are involved but our mutual friends can't deny we have chemistry I dont wanna be a home wrecker
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    Apr 03, 2011 7:27 PM GMT
    If you really cared about him from the perspective of a best friend, then you would have been able to control your sexual desires with him and tell him "No, as a friend, I can't have sex with you if you are feeling guilty. Talk to your bf about fooling around with others to get his opinion on it. If you are not into him, then break up with him, otherwise, we should not be doing it as you are feeling guilty about it."

    Also, a question to make you think a little...would he come up to you and kiss you first knowing he has a bf?




  • Jericophantom...

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    Apr 07, 2011 3:42 PM GMT
    No,,when we see eachother its like gravity is pulling us together and he gets to grinning and me smiling we do a signature handshake hug and start the adventure
  • tuffguyndc

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    Apr 07, 2011 3:48 PM GMT
    technically you did cheat. however you only made out so it can be forgiven by most. secondly, your friend needs to either end it with his current boyfriend or he needs to put some distance between you two because you are only going to make things worst.
    not to mention, you are breaking up what the bf could think of as a happy home and if he is like most people he is not going to like it and come after you. dude, in the end you are the one who is going to be standing on the outside looking like a fool