Gay relationship in the miltiary

  • omgazn

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    Apr 02, 2011 6:41 PM GMT
    I have only witness 2 gay military member in a relationship. I always wanted a relationship but i found it very hard with all the deployments and work. I feel like im destine to be alone.
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    Apr 02, 2011 11:16 PM GMT
    Very very few people can make a 1st-term military relationship work.
    Straights have been bitching about this for eons.
  • omgazn

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    Apr 03, 2011 12:26 AM GMT
    Really. Thank god I already finish my 1st already. Deciding if i wanna do a 2nd.
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    Apr 03, 2011 12:39 AM GMT
    I know quite a few people who are engaged in gay relationships from their 1st term and beyond in the military so it's very possible to do (straights do it). However, I am unclear on whether they are publicly out or not. That's not really business though.
  • KinesiologyMa...

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    Apr 03, 2011 5:00 AM GMT
    my cousin served in desert storm with a gay couple. But they were both deployed together
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    Apr 03, 2011 5:25 AM GMT
    subgLitch saidWith DADT repealed all those soldier boys are lookin' for nookie, lol.


    DADT hasn't actually been repealed yet. Still in the finalization process.
    However, 3 of my 4 boyfriends have all been in the military. Its pretty hard to maintain a relationship through 1 month of briefing 8 months of deployment 1 of debriefing and only like 1 and a half months actually together with the other half of the month being lost to travel time and what not. icon_neutral.gif
  • omgazn

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    Apr 03, 2011 3:08 PM GMT
    mnboy said
    subgLitch saidWith DADT repealed all those soldier boys are lookin' for nookie, lol.


    DADT hasn't actually been repealed yet. Still in the finalization process.
    However, 3 of my 4 boyfriends have all been in the military. Its pretty hard to maintain a relationship through 1 month of briefing 8 months of deployment 1 of debriefing and only like 1 and a half months actually together with the other half of the month being lost to travel time and what not. icon_neutral.gif


    I agreed. I'm guess i'm very intimate and i prefer to spend more then a month in a year for a relationship