Cuddling vs Sex

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    Apr 03, 2011 1:38 AM GMT
    Which one is more sexy?

    I think kissing+cuddling is hotter than sex.

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    Apr 03, 2011 1:44 AM GMT
    Apparently you've never had really, really good sex...


    But cuddling and kissing is ridiculously cute and a great pre-sex activity if it's so willed. :O
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    Apr 03, 2011 1:45 AM GMT
    Depends, what's the temperature.
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    Apr 03, 2011 1:54 AM GMT
    Aiden19 saidDepends, what's the temperature.
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    Apr 03, 2011 2:01 AM GMT
    TrevorMark saidApparently you've never had really, really good sex...


    What an unfair and nasty thing to assume, or even imply.

    Great sex is just that, great. But cuddling is solely about intimacy and bonding and a connection, since orgasm has usually already been reached. We can give ourselves orgasms just as well as any guy can, but the thing about sex is that it creates intimacy and a physical bond, which I think is cemented by the body contact and tenderness of cuddling, kissing, pillow talk, etc.

    Men can have sex with people they're not even attracted to solely for the release, but I don't think anyone would cuddle with someone they weren't attracted to or didn't like. So I'm a big fan of cuddling!
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    Apr 03, 2011 2:07 AM GMT
    Bunjamon said
    TrevorMark saidApparently you've never had really, really good sex...


    What an unfair and nasty thing to assume, or even imply.

    Great sex is just that, great. But cuddling is solely about intimacy and bonding and a connection, since orgasm has usually already been reached. We can give ourselves orgasms just as well as any guy can, but the thing about sex is that it creates intimacy and a physical bond, which I think is cemented by the body contact and tenderness of cuddling, kissing, pillow talk, etc.

    Men can have sex with people they're not even attracted to solely for the release, but I don't think anyone would cuddle with someone they weren't attracted to or didn't like. So I'm a big fan of cuddling!


    I actually agree.

    But I'm one of the people who don't have sex for the sole purpose of release because I can. icon_razz.gif Plus great sex release for me isn't the same as masturbating to an amazing fantasy or porn. It's a work in process with someone I care for. So even if there's a fumble during it, or we're just doing foreplay... there's a lot of smiling while kissing and laughing.

    I don't know I guess. They're both something I thoroughly enjoy with whomever I'm with.
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    Apr 03, 2011 3:03 AM GMT
    I enjoy both. Kissing during sex is fun, and kissing while cuddling after the sex is awesome as well. Hard for me to decide.
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    Apr 03, 2011 4:07 AM GMT
    TheGuyNextDoor saidI had to think Long and Hard about this one.....
    You ask which is more sexy... Let's see.. an XTube of some really HOT guys getting it on.. or a video of 2 guys spooning.
    I'll just say this, in video form, I'll take sex. In still photos, it's spooning.
    In my bed I'm going to vote for sex,, yet I am a champion cuddler and adore kissing if you hadn't noticed!
    What? you asked what I thought was sexier.
    Now, if we're talkin' intimate or loving,, that changes my answer altogether...icon_wink.gif


    First.. Tony I bet you thought long and hard while you watched Xtube.

    I have to agree and go with good sex. Because the cuddeling doesn't make up for bad sex. It just leaves me frustrated. But it's great to have kissing and cuddeling for the times between sex. And I'm a big fan of both icon_smile.gif
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    Apr 03, 2011 4:23 AM GMT
    TheGuyNextDoor said
    hehe... I got yer Long and HARD! and lets not forget thick as shit please!


    You already teased me once today! icon_twisted.gif You're pushing all the right buttons today mister.
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    Apr 03, 2011 5:15 AM GMT
    TrevorMark saidApparently you've never had really, really good sex...


    But cuddling and kissing is ridiculously cute and a great pre-sex activity if it's so willed. :O




    Actually, you're right! I really need good sex haha icon_razz.gif