Parliment House over in Orlando is huge...and can also be a bit much for some one kinda new to the scene. However, I think your concern is different--what about yourself don't you like that you can find fault with "the scene?"
In other words, don't go there to judge. Don't go there to use it as a litmus test for an entire culture. Go there, instead, to be with your friends, listen to music and to dance.
Don't go there for hook-ups or stare.
If you meet someone, bully for you! Excellent! What an unexpected surprise!
As for love and other things? Go ahead and do those things you like. Go to the beach. Go surfing. Join a book club. Take up a knitting group. Meet those men who have similar interests and that'll be much better for you.
I did the club thing. But I met the man whom I would marry through chatting on similar boards elsewhere-over completely different topics other than being gay.
I'll tell you about it sometime.