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    Apr 03, 2011 9:02 PM GMT
    How do you deal with your boyfriend if he just stops talking to you?
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    Apr 03, 2011 9:17 PM GMT
    Is he still your boyfriend or is this a result of a break up ? If the later, what caused it.
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    Apr 03, 2011 9:23 PM GMT
    Tickle him.
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    Apr 03, 2011 9:24 PM GMT
    I need some more information to answer your question.

    Does he have laryngitis?
    Did his cell phone call drop?
    Was he giving you the silent treatment for something?

    How long has it been since he last talked (or texted or emailed or imed) to you?
    How long do you normally go without communicating?
    Do you know of any reason why he would not communicate with you?
  • BardBear

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    Apr 03, 2011 9:26 PM GMT
    Remove the tape from his mouth?

    Peace,
    Bardy
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    Apr 03, 2011 9:55 PM GMT
    Yes, you guys, he's still my boyfriend.
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    Apr 03, 2011 9:58 PM GMT
    New2Chattanooga saidHow do you deal with your boyfriend if he just stops talking to you?
    Use less chloroform next time.
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    Apr 03, 2011 9:58 PM GMT
    Nothing out of the ordinary happened. He just stopped talking to me.
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    Apr 03, 2011 10:01 PM GMT
    paulflexes said
    New2Chattanooga saidHow do you deal with your boyfriend if he just stops talking to you?
    Use less chloroform next time.


    haha funny, but this is serious. I cried for the second night in a row because of this and I'm definitely not the crying type.
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    Apr 03, 2011 10:02 PM GMT
    TheGuyNextDoor saidSo,,is he giving you the silent treatment because something you did or he thinks you did?
    Tell us more if you want us to give you good/sound advice....icon_cool.gif


    As I stated above, there was nothing out of the ordinary going on. This "silent treatment" or whatever this is he's giving me was totally unprovoked.
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    Apr 03, 2011 10:03 PM GMT
    OH GEEZ...
    Your killing me...
    Okay,
    tell him to straighen up,
    bend him over and F**k the H**l outta him..
    Nuff said
    Now he'll speak..
    Just kidding, but give me something to work with here.. PLEASE..
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    Apr 03, 2011 10:06 PM GMT
    JustaguyinAZ saidOH GEEZ...
    Your killing me...
    Okay,
    tell him to straighen up,
    bend him over and F**k the H**l outta him..
    Nuff said
    Now he'll speak..
    Just kidding, but give me somrthing to work with here.. PLEASE..


    I don't think that there's anything else I could possibly tell you that would be of any significance with regards to this situation.
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    Apr 03, 2011 10:09 PM GMT
    Not enough info. Are you living together? If not, is he giving you the silent treatment when you go out together? How about some background, or history?
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    Apr 03, 2011 10:14 PM GMT
    No, we don't live together, but we're usually together every day except for Wednesday morning through Friday night. But for the past week, we have not seen each other and he hasn't responded to my phone calls or text messages. I know he's at least sane because he's on Facebook every night.
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    Apr 03, 2011 10:15 PM GMT
    We've been together for a year now.
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    Apr 03, 2011 10:15 PM GMT
    Okay.. it sounds like he's immature and acting like a little baby playing games.. Your better than that, break up and move on..
    Lot's of fish in the sea, and your a handsome young man..
    Go..
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    Apr 03, 2011 10:19 PM GMT
    JustaguyinAZ saidOkay.. it sounds like he's immature and acting like a little baby playing games.. Your better than that, break up and move on..
    Lot's of fish in the sea, and your a handsome young man..
    Go..


    Thank you icon_smile.gif

    And I'm really not ready to dump him just yet. I want to give him a chance to get his act together. I guess I'll give him three more days.
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    Apr 04, 2011 2:46 AM GMT
    He cheated on you, or his feelings have changed and he can't bear to face you and tell you either of these. Just a guess.
    Go to his place. Wait out of sight, and text him saying you're on your way over to talk about things because you can't handle the silence anymore.
    This way if he texts you saying he's not home, you're already there to know if he is or not.
    If you watch him leave, and then get that message, you know he's going to great lengths to avoid you, and you need to stop wasting your time.
    He'll come around when he wants to (if ever).
    If he doesn't respond to you about your coming over, and he's home, confront him. If you catch him red handed with another guy, there's your answer. If you show up and he refuses to speak to you even then, then there's nothing left to discuss. End it, and if he snaps out of it down the road and you're still interested/single, you can deal with him then.
    Personally if I broke up with someone behaving like this I don't think there would be a second time around.
    Good luck icon_smile.gif
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    Apr 04, 2011 2:51 AM GMT
    Never had one so I couldn't answer this deep soul-searching question.
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    Apr 04, 2011 3:01 AM GMT
    Wait, is this an appreciation thread to that great 90's movie with Salma Hayek and Matthew Perry? Nevermind.

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  • tuffguyndc

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    Apr 04, 2011 3:04 AM GMT
    do you live together? if not, i just move on
  • LJay

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    Apr 04, 2011 3:19 AM GMT
    Make clear to him that you will be there when he decides to break the silence. Then leave him alone and go about your own business. It is possible that he is really worried about something. Give him space.

    If he makes a move, fine. If not, then it's over

    Sad. Hurts. But it happens.
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    Apr 04, 2011 3:21 AM GMT
    MnKid84 saidTickle him.


    I like this idea! icon_twisted.gif
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    Apr 04, 2011 6:36 AM GMT
    jerbear89 saidGo to his place. Wait out of sight, and text him saying you're on your way over to talk about things because you can't handle the silence anymore.icon_smile.gif


    This is great! Do you recommend bush or shrub?

    LJay saidMake clear to him that you will be there when he decides to break the silence. Then leave him alone and go about your own business. It is possible that he is really worried about something. Give him space.

    If he makes a move, fine. If not, then it's over

    Sad. Hurts. But it happens.


    This sounds like a much better solution! Everything will work out for the best bud.
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    Apr 04, 2011 6:59 AM GMT
    If he is your boyfriend and he has been living with you, then dump him if he has not been talking to you at all or texting you.

    What is his reason for not talking to you about something?

    If he cares about you and he saw you do something that hurt his feelings he would tell you.

    If he did something he is not proud of, he would tell you because you are his BF.

    Only thing is if he cheated on you, or lost interest in you...then I would see why he is being silent.

    so dump his ass.