Being SINGLE and ENJOY it

  • alphatop

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    Apr 04, 2011 2:18 AM GMT
    I've came across many threads that are related to issue of being single. In most of them, guys are whining or bitching like being single is plague. Not everyone is desperate to have another relationship, and I am certainly not. What I don't understand is why such a despair? I mean, being single gives you opportunity to learn more about yourself, right? The more desperate you are to have another bf, chances for that to happen are getting slimmer and slimmer.
    If you are single, how do you feel about that? Desperate, relaxed? Thoughts?
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    Apr 04, 2011 2:35 AM GMT
    after a successful 27 year straight marriage, i'm in no rush for another one, can't imagine one topping that one, Right now, i'm enjoying my own company........................keithicon_wink.gif
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    Apr 04, 2011 2:52 AM GMT
    I enjoy being single for sure. Its gotten a bit harder though because all my friends used to be single and we would just be all single together, but now almost all of them are in serious relationships so I have had to cope with that. I still like it though. People should use single time for self growth rather than just being sad about not having a boyfriend.
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    Apr 04, 2011 4:17 AM GMT
    well i just got out of a relationship so its hard to re-adjust to things. though not having to be here at a certain time or all that making schedules mesh crap is nice, i have time for just me. unfortunately im in the "alone with my thoughts" phase, so im going to have to find a way to take my mind off things. I wudnt want to jump into another relationship at all right now, though im also not the hookup type either so i will be alone for quite sometime.
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    Apr 04, 2011 4:26 AM GMT
    There are definitely pros and cons to be single and being in a relationship. I miss the companionship and regular sex of a relationship but definitely enjoy my freedom. I'm enjoying the single life while I have it because I know it won't last forever.
  • mybud

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    Apr 04, 2011 4:28 AM GMT
    I agree ....no one wants a bitchy ..clingy...resentful..partner...Presently...I'm not dating anyone serious....I'm I depressed about it ....Hell nahhhh..My life is full and happy...My future mate will only enhance an already charmed existence...BUD
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    Apr 04, 2011 4:30 AM GMT
    im recently single, at first i didnt know how to feel, upset alot, But now i feel liberated! i agree with you 100% icon_smile.gif if your happy, your happy! single or otherwise .
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    Apr 04, 2011 4:33 AM GMT
    I agree with the comments here the flexibility to have your own time and explore yourself more, but do miss the companionship, of having someone sometimes.