19 and can't come

  • trentmro

    Posts: 2

    Apr 04, 2011 4:24 PM GMT
    i dunno if anyone's had this problem, but here it goes:

    i hit puberty around 11. within a year, i started having wet dreams pretty frequently. i've never successfully jacked off and no guy has made me come. the only time i ejaculate is from the wet dreams i have a few times a month.

    as you can imagine, it seriously blows. i WANT to come but whenever i masturbate i end up losing my hard on. at first it feels really good and sometimes i get to a point where i think i'm about to come, but then it stops feeling as good and i go limp.

    do i have to see a doctor or is there something i'm missing? is there something you're supposed to do to to let yourself come? i always hear about guys learning to delay their orgasms. how do i do the opposite?
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    Apr 04, 2011 5:48 PM GMT
    id like to know what factors decide whether you have wet dreams...i never had them and dont even leak. Have you tried using a massager? Most plug-in massagers come with attachments for massaging different parts of your body. scalp, back, soft areas like the neck. There is a cupped attachment that, while not originally intended for the purpose, is perfectly shaped to vibe the head of your penis. Id give that try.

    Id also recommend masturbating late at night. Maybe your body will be more ready if thats when you have wet dreams. As for those, iy sounds like you have them a LOT, but i never had them so I dont know.
  • Koaa2

    Posts: 1556

    Apr 04, 2011 8:04 PM GMT
    Find someone to masturbate with, who has been doing it, and you feel comfortable with and let him show you how and it should get you going. If not I think you need to see a sex therpaist or something like that to look at why you can't cum, it may be psychological. Good luck.