HOW DO YOU INTRODUCE THE IDEA OF CLEANING TO THE GUY YOU ARE SEEING?

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    Apr 04, 2011 4:29 PM GMT
    There is this freshman kid that I'm seeing and being completely new to the gay scene, he doens't know much about the prep process, mind you that he came from a suburban MA. He hasn't hooked up alot either so it kind of makes it difficult to tell him about the "cleaning" process before having sex. So, how do you teach him without sounding like being a direct dick "Hey, you need to go clean up before we have sex" First of all, I am not offended by his body. I'm just particular about being squeaky clean. What are the specific words I need to use to suggest him about it without offending himicon_mad.gif

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    Apr 04, 2011 4:31 PM GMT

    If you are offended by his body odor or something like that...you
    SHOULD say: "Hey, you need to go clean up before we have sex"
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    Apr 04, 2011 6:59 PM GMT
    Suggest that you and he shower together. Another option is to be direct about it and tell him to make sure he's clean (e.g., "I'd love to lick you all over tonight, could you make sure iyou're super clean down there baby?").
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    Apr 04, 2011 9:28 PM GMT
    Ooo...shower together. That sounds like fun. Thanks. icon_smile.gif