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  • RHUK

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    Apr 04, 2011 11:36 PM GMT
    So I was watching TV today and these two guys were talking about sex and kissing and my mum walks in and goes

    "Eurgh, is that two men kissing? How disgusting."

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    Apr 04, 2011 11:43 PM GMT
    That's unfortunate. Does she know that you are gay? I can't imagine she was thinking too much about how her comment would effect you if she does.
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    Apr 04, 2011 11:44 PM GMT
    If my mom did that, I'd tell her to STFU and go back to her room.
  • RHUK

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    Apr 04, 2011 11:49 PM GMT
    Naa my family are the only people Ive not told, and I was thinking about just telling her over dinner the other day, but shes scared me back into the closet.

    Its not like I even care that much what she thinks, I just cant deal with the tension and awkwardness that telling her would cause
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    Apr 04, 2011 11:52 PM GMT
    RHUK saidNaa my family are the only people Ive not told, and I was thinking about just telling her over dinner the other day, but shes scared me back into the closet.

    Its not like I even care that much what she thinks, I just cant deal with the tension and awkwardness that telling her would cause
    But can you deal with the persistent emotional pain and turmoil of hiding it from her for the rest of your life?
    The tension and awkwardness goes away after a while...the pain doesn't.
  • RHUK

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    Apr 06, 2011 12:12 AM GMT
    paulflexes said

    But can you deal with the persistent emotional pain and turmoil of hiding it from her for the rest of your life?
    The tension and awkwardness goes away after a while...the pain doesn't.


    I know youre right, its just knowing how to say it. I think I'm just going to walk through the door with a (hot) boyfriend one day and introduce her icon_razz.gif
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    Apr 06, 2011 12:16 AM GMT
    RHUK said
    paulflexes said

    But can you deal with the persistent emotional pain and turmoil of hiding it from her for the rest of your life?
    The tension and awkwardness goes away after a while...the pain doesn't.


    I know youre right, its just knowing how to say it. I think I'm just going to walk through the door with a (hot) boyfriend one day and introduce her icon_razz.gif


    uhh... i feel bad for that guy

  • musicdude

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    Apr 06, 2011 12:24 AM GMT
    RHUK saidSo I was watching TV today and these two guys were talking about sex and kissing and my mum walks in and goes

    "Eurgh, is that two men kissing? How disgusting."

    Emotionally crippling.icon_neutral.gif


    that's when you turn to her and say "what are you doing out of the kitchen?"