Date with a friend.... ..... a problem? was it even a date? help?

  • helios01

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    Apr 05, 2011 4:27 AM GMT
    Hey guys omg i am so happy icon_smile.gif
    I went out with a pretty cool guy!! We went to the olive garden and we ordered the same thing. We talked for two hours that felt like half an hour..... omg it was so amazing i have not been happy in over a month ^_^
    he was so cute and smart and polite .....
    BUt its my bestest best friend's ex >)< i feel like a bad friend icon_sad.gif
    My other problem is if the guy may have just thought it was a night out not a date.... ugh! and i dont want to be an idiot and ask him if it was...
    but i think about how happy i am!!!!!
    ANd also i got my #DS in aqua icon_smile.gif

    any help is much appreciated icon_smile.gif

    thank you for listening imma go sing along to glee and be gay lol

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  • helios01

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    Apr 05, 2011 11:19 AM GMT
    any 1 0-o
  • hdurdinr

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    Apr 05, 2011 11:27 AM GMT
    I think you need to talk to your best friend about the possibility that you like his ex. It might be a bit awkward. Even if he says it's no problem be prepared for him to be guarded with you with his next boyfriend he might have issues trusting you in the future if he is even a little bit insecure - but honestly who isn't?
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    Apr 05, 2011 6:45 PM GMT
    helios01 said...BUt its my bestest best friend's ex >)< i feel like a bad friend ... />


    i always wondered...why would my "best friend" even WANT to go out with my ex? I mean ... my best friend is the one that I would cry on and bitch and moan to ABOUT my ex! icon_rolleyes.gif

    If you were MY best friend I would 1) wonder if you were even listening to me when I was talking about him or 2) were some freak for wanting him! Either way - you can have him.

    now back to your question...ask him to go out to eat again. Whether it was a "date" or not - you had two hours of fun conversation. Everyone deserves some fun...
  • helios01

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    Apr 06, 2011 6:28 AM GMT
    FRONT2BACK said
    helios01 said...BUt its my bestest best friend's ex >)< i feel like a bad friend ... />


    i always wondered...why would my "best friend" even WANT to go out with my ex? I mean ... my best friend is the one that I would cry on and bitch and moan to ABOUT my ex! icon_rolleyes.gif

    If you were MY best friend I would 1) wonder if you were even listening to me when I was talking about him or 2) were some freak for wanting him! Either way - you can have him.

    now back to your question...ask him to go out to eat again. Whether it was a "date" or not - you had two hours of fun conversation. Everyone deserves some fun...


    well they dated years ago..... and now they are friends but he said he had feelings for him once after,,,, he actually got suspicious bcuz we (his ex and i) started talkin on facebook a lot.... he said "its okay i dotn care if you two are fooling around".... but just the fact that he confronted me about it made me think other wise.... i dont know if he would even tell me the truth about how he feels.... i mean.... idk..... cuz before he and his ex dated u liked his ex..... i had a major crush on him... but he chose my friend so.... such a complex story.... b

    on another note... His ex messaged me to catch a movie next monday... I dont want to count my eggs before they hatch. lol but im kinda exited....