Guy at work... need some advice!!

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    Apr 05, 2011 6:59 PM GMT
    Ok, so there is this guy at work that I am really interested in. But he keeps sending me alot of mixed messages.

    I was content to just admire from afar, and work on being friends because I didnt think he was interested.

    Last week, he invited me out for drinks, and we ended up spending the whole night dancing, kissing and just having a great time. Also met alot of his friends, who are really cool.

    Then at work the next couple of days it was like it had gone back to us just being friends. Then I was speaking to one of his friends, and she told me she thought he was seeing someone.

    So at this point I decided to just go back to being friends, and forgetting the night ever happened.

    Now I am confused again, as he is messaging me alot, and inviting me out for drinks with him and his friends, and was getting jeleous when I wouldnt come out because I was catching up with a friend.

    I just want to find out if he is interested, as I am really interested in him, but at the same time, I dont want to just come out and ask him because things may get awkward at work.

    Anyone thats ever been in this situation got any advice?
  • sbwlguy

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    Apr 05, 2011 7:03 PM GMT
    sounds like he wants to maintain a professional standard at work, which is understandable. you don't exactly want to be flirting outrageously for everyone to see in the corridor, do you?

    just ask him straight up if he's seeing someone else because you like him.

    simples.
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    Apr 06, 2011 4:27 AM GMT
    jaysus my man...........ask him!.........................Keithicon_wink.gif
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    Apr 06, 2011 4:34 AM GMT
    Possible control issue seems to be evident.

    Play by his terms or else!!icon_eek.gif