Um, you meet guys by not looking for them, believe it or not. Let me explain: Do what you truly enjoy. Join clubs, do sports, go to the gym. And you'll meet men there with similar interests. They may not be marrying man material--but they might know someone, so don't write them off your short list because they don't fit your image of the marrying-man.
Secondly, I met the man I would wed by giving up, if that makes sense. I had decided, after a horrible, terrible, no-good, very bad break up (my first serious relationship almost led me to court), to just not find a man. They weren't worth it. Instead, I learned to enjoy just being myself. I'd call friends and go to art museums and amusement parks. I'd travel. And I'd meet guys, for sure, and befriended most of them (they're on Facebook if you want proof!).
Then, as the dust settled, my Better Half showed up. And we started talking about animation and Disneyland. Yeah. Wasn't even looking for him, instead, was on a Disney forum, via AOL (remember that place?). Then he found me on a different board--I had posted looking for someone to meet for coffee in South Dakota when I was there...and, well, the rest was history.
Peace and good luck,