Where do you meet guys?

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    Apr 05, 2011 9:21 PM GMT
    So I was just wondering, especially for those in relationships, where did you meet your guy? Seems whenever I go out, I don't really meet any great prospects, and nobody wants to set me up, so what's the best place to meet guys?
  • tuffguyndc

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    Apr 06, 2011 12:49 AM GMT
    bsho saidSo I was just wondering, especially for those in relationships, where did you meet your guy? Seems whenever I go out, I don't really meet any great prospects, and nobody wants to set me up, so what's the best place to meet guys?
    dude, i find out you will be the first to know. ha ha ha i promise. i am in the same boat
  • Descamisado

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    Apr 06, 2011 2:15 AM GMT
    First time, at a volleyball game.

    Second time, at a safe-sex workshop.

    Third time, at a Renaissance Fair. And, since it was obviously meant to be, I went home with him. That was 21 years ago, and we're still together.

    I had my shirt off at the Ren Fair, which I'll always maintain had something to do with it. Take note!
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    Apr 06, 2011 2:20 AM GMT
    Online or through friends

    but H&M is a gay mecca... well at least in Cincinnati
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    Apr 06, 2011 3:31 AM GMT
    No H&M in Salt Lake, but I can see that...
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    Apr 06, 2011 3:34 AM GMT
    Online.
    I'm lame and live in a small town.
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    Apr 06, 2011 4:17 AM GMT
    I meet guys at school all the time. They usually approach me after a class we have together, or send me a message on fb. If you are in school, don't be afraid to talk to people- if nothing else, you can make some new friends.
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    Apr 06, 2011 4:20 AM GMT
    in dark alleys.
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    Apr 06, 2011 4:28 AM GMT
    AvadaKedavra saidin dark alleys.


    ^ This.

    And on the registered sex offenders list
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    Apr 06, 2011 4:30 AM GMT
    KSUOWL said
    AvadaKedavra saidin dark alleys.


    ^ This.

    And on the registered sex offenders list


    Yeah, I use that too. Its pretty much like facebook to me.

    I tried using the amber alert list but those guys think I am too old. booo. /sad face
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    Apr 06, 2011 4:39 AM GMT
    AvadaKedavra said
    KSUOWL said
    AvadaKedavra saidin dark alleys.


    ^ This.

    And on the registered sex offenders list


    Yeah, I use that too. Its pretty much like facebook to me.

    I tried using the amber alert list but those guys think I am too old. booo. /sad face


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    Apr 06, 2011 4:54 AM GMT
    i met one guy before online...and it was a long distance relationship which afterwards didn't workout on both of us...

    now i still have accounts in some dating sites but not that active as before...i just thought that the right one will just come on the right time and on the right place (perhaps also in the right country lol)...

    living here in china is like living in a prison cell...i wanna go back home...
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    Apr 06, 2011 5:17 AM GMT
    I'm in Salt Lake as well, and the clubs here are absolutely terrible in my opinion and interests. I've actually met some quality online, many who shared my same stand point on it all, it just takes some wading through, and some humor.
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    Apr 06, 2011 5:19 AM GMT
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    Apr 06, 2011 5:26 AM GMT
    Don_Guerrilla_de_Sodom saidTiger trap Pictures, Images and Photos


    Robby, that's picture of your bed. The OP wants to know where you meet guys when you go out. icon_wink.gif

    icon_cool.gif-Doug
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    Apr 06, 2011 5:37 AM GMT
    It can be tough when your not in a major city with a gay population.

    I kind of feel the same way. I meet people at the gym, and coffee shops, parks, and so forth.

    I feel weird at bars, especially by myself. This all boils down to the fact that I dont like to drink, so I cant even go to a bar and enjoy a drink lol.
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    Apr 06, 2011 5:44 AM GMT
    meninlove said
    Don_Guerrilla_de_Sodom saidTiger trap Pictures, Images and Photos


    Robby, that's picture of your bed. The OP wants to know where you meet guys when you go out. icon_wink.gif

    icon_cool.gif-Doug


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  • wldct1998

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    Apr 06, 2011 5:46 AM GMT
    Somehow they seem to find me. It doesn't mean I've found one I want to settle down with yet. I think because I run in progressive circles, the people I run into that are gay are out. Being active in the Democratic Party and the Episcopal Church, and living in a fairly gay part of my city help.
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    Apr 06, 2011 6:09 AM GMT
    I use the internet thats been my best bet connexion, realjock, facebook etc gay clubs arent my thing to meet guys
  • BardBear

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    Apr 06, 2011 9:46 AM GMT
    Um, you meet guys by not looking for them, believe it or not. Let me explain: Do what you truly enjoy. Join clubs, do sports, go to the gym. And you'll meet men there with similar interests. They may not be marrying man material--but they might know someone, so don't write them off your short list because they don't fit your image of the marrying-man.

    Secondly, I met the man I would wed by giving up, if that makes sense. I had decided, after a horrible, terrible, no-good, very bad break up (my first serious relationship almost led me to court), to just not find a man. They weren't worth it. Instead, I learned to enjoy just being myself. I'd call friends and go to art museums and amusement parks. I'd travel. And I'd meet guys, for sure, and befriended most of them (they're on Facebook if you want proof!).

    Then, as the dust settled, my Better Half showed up. And we started talking about animation and Disneyland. Yeah. Wasn't even looking for him, instead, was on a Disney forum, via AOL (remember that place?). Then he found me on a different board--I had posted looking for someone to meet for coffee in South Dakota when I was there...and, well, the rest was history.

    Peace and good luck,
    Bardy
  • MikemikeMike

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    Apr 06, 2011 9:52 AM GMT
    Salt lake sounds like a dry spot-no pun intended. Why don't you start a social club??
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    Apr 06, 2011 9:53 AM GMT
    1. Friends of friends
    2. Friends of coworkers
    3. The internet
    4. Any bar or nightclub
    5. The gym
  • Nayro

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    Apr 06, 2011 11:47 AM GMT
    I don't :/ Im unlovable! icon_eek.gif
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    Apr 06, 2011 12:05 PM GMT
    Airport restrooms and rentboy.com.
  • alphatop

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    Apr 06, 2011 12:36 PM GMT
    I meet bunch of people every day. Where? On the street, in the park, in the gym, on the road, in the supermarket....in a word - wherever I go.