Do you thank people when they hotlist you?

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    Apr 06, 2011 2:24 AM GMT
    I always thank people if they Hot List me but today I realized I had forgotten someone, when I messaged him about it he said not to worry about it and that no one thanks people for hotlisting therm anyway. Is that everyone else's experience as well?
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    Apr 06, 2011 2:31 AM GMT
    dekiruman saidDo you thank people when they hotlist you?

    Yeah. Both of them.
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    Apr 06, 2011 2:32 AM GMT
    Try! Sometimes it slips my mind. icon_sad.gif

    I'm terrible at responding sometimes just to plain messages too.
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    Apr 06, 2011 2:34 AM GMT
    dekiruman saidI always thank people if they Hot List me but today I realized I had forgotten someone, when I messaged him about it he said not to worry about it and that no one thanks people for hotlisting therm anyway. Is that everyone else's experience as well?


    I am not fortunate enough to have your problem but thanks.
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    Apr 06, 2011 2:38 AM GMT
    I am always floored when I get hotlisted. And I always send a thank you message. Generally, I would say the majority of guys I hotlist send a thank you message but not all. It's cool if they don't, but a nice thing if they do.
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    Apr 06, 2011 2:50 AM GMT
    I forget a lot of the times, but I really am thankful! I always respond to personal e-mails (unless its weird or awkward) and usually to photo comments, but I forget about hot listing sometimes.

    Plus a lot of the time I check RJ on my phone and I won't thank them then, and will just forget the next time I sign on.
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    Apr 06, 2011 3:21 AM GMT
    Whenever someone hot lists me I think they are doing it ironically, or their finger slipped on the iPhone - so no, I make no specific correspondence dependent upon my recent hot listing.

    If they want to message me about videogames that is a completely different story though ^_^
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    Apr 06, 2011 3:23 AM GMT
    AvadaKedavra said
    dekiruman saidI always thank people if they Hot List me but today I realized I had forgotten someone, when I messaged him about it he said not to worry about it and that no one thanks people for hotlisting therm anyway. Is that everyone else's experience as well?


    I am not fortunate enough to have your problem but thanks.


    ^^^^^ I could fertilize a commercial corn field with that statement and you know it. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Apr 06, 2011 3:25 AM GMT
    i send them money.
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    Apr 06, 2011 3:26 AM GMT
    Sure why not!
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    Apr 06, 2011 4:08 AM GMT
    dekiruman said
    AvadaKedavra said
    dekiruman saidI always thank people if they Hot List me but today I realized I had forgotten someone, when I messaged him about it he said not to worry about it and that no one thanks people for hotlisting therm anyway. Is that everyone else's experience as well?


    I am not fortunate enough to have your problem but thanks.


    ^^^^^ I could fertilize a commercial corn field with that statement and you know it. icon_rolleyes.gif


    wait, what?
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    Apr 06, 2011 4:08 AM GMT
    xassantex saidi send them money.


    LOL!

    My favorite response of the day.
  • swedeinusa

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    Apr 06, 2011 4:11 AM GMT
    Of course! Its only polite.
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    Apr 06, 2011 4:18 AM GMT
    I thank all of my hotlisters. Sometimes I get a thanks from the guys I've hotlisted. Your forgotten someone is incorrect about no one giving thanks for a hotlist. Amen.
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    Apr 06, 2011 4:30 AM GMT
    AvadaKedavra said
    dekiruman said
    AvadaKedavra said
    dekiruman saidI always thank people if they Hot List me but today I realized I had forgotten someone, when I messaged him about it he said not to worry about it and that no one thanks people for hotlisting therm anyway. Is that everyone else's experience as well?


    I am not fortunate enough to have your problem but thanks.


    ^^^^^ I could fertilize a commercial corn field with that statement and you know it. icon_rolleyes.gif


    wait, what?


    oh come on now. Think hard about it.
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    Apr 06, 2011 7:07 AM GMT
    i do...then in the back of my mind i ask myself...are these people sane?...
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    Apr 06, 2011 7:08 AM GMT
    i_VAN saidi do...then in the back of my mind i ask myself...are these people sane?...

    I had you hot listed once.
    And I'm pretty mentally healthy.

    At least I'd like to think so.
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    Apr 06, 2011 8:17 AM GMT
    I always always thank them! It doesn't happen often enough to not - I guess if you were someone who got 10-15 a day or something then it's understandable not thanking every single one.
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    Apr 06, 2011 8:20 AM GMT
    TrevorMark said
    And I'm pretty mentally healthy.


    ....oh :s

    I don't think we're right for each other anymore icon_redface.gif
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    Apr 06, 2011 8:21 AM GMT
    Ariodante said
    TrevorMark said
    And I'm pretty mentally healthy.


    ....oh :s

    I don't think we're right for each other anymore icon_redface.gif

    I was waiting for someone to make a snide comment. icon_razz.gif

    Blah. You're workable. ;) Hahahaha.
  • disasterpiece

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    Apr 06, 2011 8:22 AM GMT
    I always thank people back, and often start a conversation with them.

    Sometimes, though, I feel bad not "hotlisting" back. I don't hotlist at all, to be honest, so it's nothing personal... It's just that I have my own personal ways... In the end, people I find hot know it.

    Don't you, Trev ? icon_wink.gif
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    Apr 06, 2011 8:23 AM GMT
    TrevorMark said
    Ariodante said
    TrevorMark said
    And I'm pretty mentally healthy.


    ....oh :s

    I don't think we're right for each other anymore icon_redface.gif

    I was waiting for someone to make a snide comment. icon_razz.gif

    Blah. You're workable. ;) Hahahaha.


    I think everyone deserves a second chance =) Just lure some tourists, whack em' with a machete and stuff 'em in your freezer <3 <3 <3
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    Apr 06, 2011 8:24 AM GMT
    now =|
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    Apr 06, 2011 8:25 AM GMT
    Disasterpiece saidI always thank people back, and often start a conversation with them.

    Sometimes, though, I feel bad not "hotlisting" back. I don't hotlist at all, to be honest, so it's nothing personal... It's just that I have my own personal ways... In the end, people I find hot know it.

    Don't you, Trev ? icon_wink.gif

    I have no idea what you are talking about...
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    Apr 06, 2011 8:26 AM GMT
    Yes I do.

    It's as if someone compliments you in real life...

    Just pretend when they hot list you it is as if they are coming up to you in person and saying "Hey, just wanted to let you know that you are hot! - have a good day"

    So I say "Thanks!" or "thanks you too!"


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