TrentGrad saidSo why are you having problems meeting young guys around your age in Toronto? I mean, this city does have one of the highest concentrations of gay people on the continent...and probably also one of the highest concentrations on the planet.
because i'm a fucking loser who sits in his room being to depressed to go out
i don't drink or smoke or anything so parties and bars aren't exactly ~my thing~
most people i know my age in the city are just friends. the ones that i've met that aren't my friends usually go to parties and shit and are kinda dumb in general.
C'mon hon...don't talk like that. When I asked the question, I didn't mean it to come across as my asking "what's wrong with you?" I was just surprised that you were finding it hard to meet guys your age here in Toronto.
You don't have to drink booze to go to a bar or a club...get a soda, or a juice. Enjoy the music and the eye candy.
You're a cute lad...no doubt you'll turn heads. You just want to turn the right ones...so no Sunday afternoon visits to Woody's...unless it's changed, the predators are positively creepy there at that time. If I turned their heads the last time I was there, I can just imagine how they'd react to you. ;)
Why don't you go down to the 519 Centre and see if they have any young gay social groups. Or contact Toronto Pride and see if they need any volunteers for Pride events or something like that? No, you don't have to dance on a float like a gogo boy...but you may well meet one with substance if you have a chance to work on one of the floats. ;)
You're not a loser...but I think the key for you is finding a place where you can interact in person with other young gay guys your own age. You're too cute to be a wallflower stuck in your bedroom.
Of course you could also use this service to meet some young guys who perhaps you could go out for lunch or dinner with. The Churchmouse & Firkin in the heart of the Church-Wellesley village used to have the most beautiful servers...it's pub food, but it's a relaxed atmosphere where you could sit down and really get to know another guy.
Maybe go see your family Doctor and let them know that you're feeling depressed? Or is this related to how all of this ended up recently with your ex?