Anyone here speak crazy?

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    Apr 07, 2011 9:49 PM GMT
    I need a translation.

    There is a guy I was hanging out with, he is cool, we have hung out a few times. He is 47 I am 24.

    I called him to ask if he wanted to hang out this weekend (we set a time for Sunday at 11:00am) and he said that, while he enjoys spending time with me he doesnt see us being a match, because he wants more from me. And that, while my eyes say a lot, my body language is hard for him to read.

    Can someone please translate? I do not understand what it is that he means.

    Thank you.
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    Apr 07, 2011 9:55 PM GMT
    He doesn't have the balls to tell you he's uncomfortable with the generation gap.
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    Apr 07, 2011 9:55 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidHe doesn't have the balls to tell you he's uncomfortable with the generation gap.

    I would have to agree with this.
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    Apr 07, 2011 9:58 PM GMT
    TrevorMark said
    paulflexes saidHe doesn't have the balls to tell you he's uncomfortable with the generation gap.

    I would have to agree with this.


    well I guess that works, I think he has dated younger before.

    One of my friends told me that he thinks Im still playing the field and he really wants to settle down.

    Good way to put it into perspective.
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    Apr 07, 2011 9:59 PM GMT
    Chainers said
    TrevorMark said
    paulflexes saidHe doesn't have the balls to tell you he's uncomfortable with the generation gap.

    I would have to agree with this.


    well I guess that works, I think he has dated younger before.

    One of my friends told me that he thinks Im still playing the field and he really wants to settle down.

    Good way to put it into perspective.

    This is also very possible. You're young, good looking and a great personality. He might feel like he's holding you back from what you really want. If you want him, tell him how you feel.
    If you don't... then no sweat.
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    Apr 07, 2011 9:59 PM GMT
    TrevorMark said
    paulflexes saidHe doesn't have the balls to tell you he's uncomfortable with the generation gap.

    I would have to agree with this.

    I also agree this is a strong possibility. Or some other personal disconnect for him. Does it matter? Lots of other fish in the sea, especially in SFC.
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    Apr 07, 2011 10:07 PM GMT
    Maybe stop using the words: "Hanging out".
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    Apr 07, 2011 10:18 PM GMT
    TrevorMark said
    Chainers said
    TrevorMark said
    paulflexes saidHe doesn't have the balls to tell you he's uncomfortable with the generation gap.

    I would have to agree with this.


    well I guess that works, I think he has dated younger before.

    One of my friends told me that he thinks Im still playing the field and he really wants to settle down.

    Good way to put it into perspective.

    This is also very possible. You're young, good looking and a great personality. He might feel like he's holding you back from what you really want. If you want him, tell him how you feel.
    If you don't... then no sweat.


    See thats the problem, is he is a great, nice, hot guy, its just I dont really know him that well and I think he wants too much too soon.

    Yes, I am keeping my options open, at the same time he is definitely up there in terms of options available. I only got to the city about 3 months ago, I think its a little too soon for me to pick a favorite flavor all ready.

    All though the man is super hot and super nice.
  • calibro

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    Apr 08, 2011 3:32 AM GMT
    he's just not that into you.