why is being nice a bad thing?

  • GMSatire

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    Apr 08, 2011 4:40 AM GMT
    i'll be the first to admit i am a dick when people are jerks. but i am nice to people that are nice. i've been talking to some really awesome guys on here that get pushed around all the time in the forum and messeging. people are mean to them without any reason. why do some guys here jump at every chance to say something mean?
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    Apr 08, 2011 5:12 AM GMT
    For whatever reason some guys on here thrive off of tearing others down.
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    Apr 08, 2011 5:14 AM GMT
    Aiden19 saidFor whatever reason some guys on here thrive off of tearing others down.

    More like have ridiculous vendettas with little to no real reason other than they often disagree.
    I won't even enter the politics section because it's out-of-this-world stupid.
  • masculumpedes

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    Apr 08, 2011 5:15 AM GMT
    GMSatire saidi'll be the first to admit i am a dick when people are jerks. but i am nice to people that are nice. i've been talking to some really awesome guys on here that get pushed around all the time in the forum and messeging. people are mean to them without any reason. why do some guys here jump at every chance to say something mean?


    I have noticed the same thing happening and have since lost the respect that I once had for a few of the members here. I can't give you a definite answer, perhaps it makes someone feel just a bit better about themselves to look down on another person who has struggles and problems just trying to make it through everyday life. Perhaps when they join together in their camaraderie, akin to gang mentality, they never stop to consider that not all persons are alike in their emotional, mental and physical attributes.

    Perhaps they are irritated at others who are different than they are, who may be slower than they are, or with emotional baggage that they can not handle as well as another person handled their own. Perhaps they just don't care about anyone other than themselves. No human empathy. I really wish I could answer your question, but I can't. icon_sad.gif
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    Apr 08, 2011 5:16 AM GMT
    malefeet said
    GMSatire saidi'll be the first to admit i am a dick when people are jerks. but i am nice to people that are nice. i've been talking to some really awesome guys on here that get pushed around all the time in the forum and messeging. people are mean to them without any reason. why do some guys here jump at every chance to say something mean?


    I have noticed the same thing happening and have since lost the respect that I once had for a few of the members here. I can't give you a definite answer, perhaps it makes someone feel just a bit better about themselves to look down on another person who has struggles and problems just trying to make it through everyday life. Perhaps when they join together in their camaraderie, akin to gang mentality, they never stop to consider that not all persons are alike in their emotional, mental and physical attributes.

    Perhaps they are irritated at others who are different than they are, who may be slower than they are, or with emotional baggage that they can not handle as well as another person handled their own. Perhaps they just don't care about anyone other than themselves. No human empathy. I really wish I could answer your question, but I can't. icon_sad.gif


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    Apr 08, 2011 5:16 AM GMT
    I've always wanted the nice person to come out on top. Maybe the reason some people are mean is because they can't get attention any othervway.