when you fall in love with a gay or just meet a gay at first will you ask him "top" or "bottom"?i think it is a private question but i want to know your ideas,thanks

  • Derek6

    Posts: 18

    Apr 09, 2011 11:56 AM GMT
    COLORED TEXT GOES HERERESIZED TEXT GOES HEREi am a collage student in chian tianjin,At gay's private chat room everyone will ask "0" or "1" (that means "bottom" or "top" )in china.it is a common phenomenon in chian.
    so i want to know whether it is same at abord?icon_question.gif
  • Derek6

    Posts: 18

    Apr 09, 2011 12:42 PM GMT
    in chinese there always someone ask in this way,so i really don't know is that a ture love?in china i only could find someone who is a gay at interenet.but now i am disappointed.very disappointed,it's difficult for gay love ,so we should cherish and seriously for our love?aren't we?icon_neutral.gif
  • Derek6

    Posts: 18

    Apr 09, 2011 2:04 PM GMT
    hummmmm....
    there is no people who want to share his ideas?or my question is not good?
  • masculumpedes

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    Apr 09, 2011 2:12 PM GMT
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    I think it is something that is always discussed sooner or later. icon_wink.gif
  • Bunjamon

    Posts: 3161

    Apr 09, 2011 2:14 PM GMT
    People dare asking personal questions in chat rooms because the stakes are high. Don't be too worried about it. You'll find someone. Tianjin doesn't have a single gay bar?
  • Derek6

    Posts: 18

    Apr 09, 2011 2:18 PM GMT
    yep,tianjin had single bar,but i never go there,i think it is too sexy,someone there just for one-night stand,so i am ont going to gay bar.At least currently no going to gay bar,thanks for your answer
  • Derek6

    Posts: 18

    Apr 09, 2011 2:21 PM GMT
    but you know gays in china,people always ask you "1" or "0" first....
    icon_cry.gif,but i never do that....maybe i don't find my ture love,hehe
  • Bunjamon

    Posts: 3161

    Apr 09, 2011 2:31 PM GMT
    Don't worry, you have plenty of time to look. 加油!A gay bar may be a good place to make gay friends, not look for a boyfriend. There must be some like-minded guys there you can have a 啤酒 with.