I am also low maintaince, easy going. I have house/properties, good career, I go for vacation once a month , I have a lot to share with another man but yet I also cannot find a suitable man to date.
How to escape this problem...well, I dont know. Most gay man are only interested in sex and some are just not my type. Until he come along I guess I gonna have to be alone. It better than dating the wrong person. It can be lonely though, but after a few years of being alone I guess I got used to it.
On the other hand, being by myself also have its advantages, you know, I am only responsible for myself, can indulge in sex with lot of guys, and I have freedom to do what I want.
But it nothing like being in love again. How I long to sleep in somebody arm, making love (not having sex ) and just to have somebody to ask how my day and to hold my hand.